i just recently broke up with my gf, opinions need

we both like to write alot, we were bf gf for 5 months almost, we wrote almost all day and night, if i was at my moms house to long and got home late she would argue fight with me, atho i had little time to write her before she went to sleep 1 hr or 2 hrs of writing she would be sad hurt, anyways 3 weeks ago she said she broke her phone and she has to use old chinese mobile phone but it has slow replys, as far as im concern all phones have the same speed on receiving and sending replys, she wrote less and told me she'll be working alot to buy another phone, even when shes worked she still wrote alot, 1 week goes by she tells me shes going to mobile store as im happy to hear that, later she says she ordered a tablet but she has to wait 1 week til it comes in, each day she had slower replys, she went from writing alot to hardly writing at all, she doesn't have any decent explanations, one excuse was she cant see clearly anymore and she even took a new pic with big glasses on acting all innocent and cute.confused barf
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she found someone else , wave
thanks i appreciate your opinion, i also agree.applause
certain phones does take longer to load, did you make an effort in meeting her? or was it just an online thing?
I agree with Virgo
its the only thing that could be happening , or she's using both of you , and her mind is thinking of the other guy all the time ...wave
She's cooled on you. It happens most of the time with online romance when people don't bother to meet.
i believe you hit it right on the nail, ouch. thank you virgo.doh
to: Squidley, in this case she did have the money to relocate and i would had helped her, but she didn't put any effort in trying to meet.
" but she didn't put any effort in trying to meet."

You're answering your own questions.
its better to get it all out so you can heal , from emotional hurt , and stop you from thinking about it over and over , wave
to: Squidleydoh

to: virgos, yes it feels good to hear other opinions so that im not wondering around alone and worrying about weather she was with someone else while she was with me.moping
to:cherriebabe, all cell towers send same out put lol... of course its all on line after all it is called online dating,, ray is doing the same thing your doing,, ONLINE DATING no need in making him feel bad especially when you have your hand in the cookie jar to.. doh
to: Depika, i strongly agree thanks.doh
you wrote 5 months without meeting each other and you called each ther bf/gf??? wow What a wasting of time!

Go for something real indeed!thumbs up
to: Saggi66 she lives in indonesia i live in america, she said she would relocate but always put it off, i guess she was ok with writing me 4 to 7 hrs a day intil she got bored of me like she had stated to me, she wants me back but i feel she'll neglect me again.
deep read what i wrote and what others wrote
Is this an online love story?

My opinion:
1. She found someone else
2. she acts hard to get to make you curious
3. she wants you to buy her new phone

That can be lots of opinions but I might be wrong. You can talk direct to her than guessing.
to:cherriebabe,deep read the blog ang give USEFULL advice...not opinions or questions.. thank you doh
Don't waist your time with lost dreams, get back to reality there are so many nice girls round your area, just open your mind and eyes and you'll pump into one in no time. Don't be heartbroken just b'cause a dream ended, the next one is right now on your door step, but in real. Good luck, take carecomfort
"in this case she did have the money to relocate and i would had helped her, but she didn't put any effort in trying to meet."


Are you hoping she come to America to meet you? Why don't you come and meet her if you truly love her?

Now you are confuse because she might find someone else. I don't understand at all with this 5 months online love story.
summertan, omg lol peace rolling on the floor laughing handshake
i told him that different phones take longer to download, i had a nokia before and now i have a blackberry, much faster! and if someone creates a blog, ist open for anything questions and opinions
connect1954 your last comment is awesome thank youapplause
cherriebabe ok drama queen so i bet your going to now explain to us how it takes 10 hours to receive a phone text,,, omg lol... i cant wait to hear this one lolrolling on the floor laughing
confused why are you making this about yourself, i dont need to explain anything to you, have a better day comfort
cherriebabe,ray is my son, lol its not about me at all but you seem to give him no advice at all so not sure why you are even commentingdoh
cherriebabe, thank you for your last comment it was elegant. ray and his gf made plans for her to come here..
Depika - If Ray is your son, how about right now stop embarrassing this grown man by interfering in his world. In one fowl swoop you have turned any prospective woman who might be available for him here, away. Meddling, nosy, over protective mothers produce whining, whinging, "why me " sons.
gosh , I hope he didn't send any money over ? wave
Mother and Son on the same dating site....confused confused confused
I truly have not seen or heard of that before.

Depika
I commend your helping your son with his blog, But he is 29 and i am sure he can answer for himself.
I am sorry if this comes across as being rude as it is not my intention,
All that are posting comments here are doing so because they have been asked to do so.
Please do not attack the ones that you may disagree with.
We all have different ideas.

Besides it may not be the phone, BUT the provider that has poor quality reception at times.
Just a thought.sigh
Simmo1 yes you are being very rude
And you are deludeed
Squidley , you cant bait me and now when females read your comments they will know how you will treat their mother
AH Donts Believes IT!!!doh
I'm not attracted to women who have controlling, overbearing mothers.
Squidley, ignoreing you now lolhead banger
to: virgo, i only sent a little just to help out with her phone calls to me. dunno
Sorry Ray. As a man, this must be embarrassing for you. I understand life so far must have been very difficult for you.

Did she have you in a dress for the first couple of years?
its ok , I've done the same , but I wouldn't send them a new HP laptop ...wave
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