why do i bother?

Andy, don't you know that you can send yourself flowers and mail, that's what I do.

Andy and 1slipp: Why don't you join us on Shanyra's blog?? Quite a party going on there!! Lots of people to meet

Paul: Come on over!!!

Okay Andy, its now a New Year and time for a new Outlook, (positive), and maybe update your profile..

About You: Too much detail on your work, all people need to know to begin with is where you work,(kitchen in this case), you can go into specifics in conversations, though its fine to leave in what you want to achieve (head chef).. You mention what you want from life, normal things that most want, though I would personally describe it as normal stuff rather than state them individually as to me it comes over a bit materialistic. What you do need to add is more info on you.. okay, so you mention cooking, but d you like any certain types, oriental, french cuisine, etc.. and what other interests do you have, like in music, travel, nature, other hobbies.. this is what people need to see and find out if they have anything in common with you..

For what you seek, I think you could word it better, rather than saying 'will this girl be fun or interesting' it comes over far better, imo, by saying 'I'd like to meet a fun and interesting girl who has a sense of humour', you get the drift I hope.. Also, add more pics, connected with what you like and of course your food!!

All the best for 2012

Ohh common cheer up , i can't go anywhere becoz my legs is hurting but iam still feel happy about it start this new year with a new spirit will you

Self Fulfilling Prophecy:

The self-fulfilling prophecy is a statement that alters actions and therefore comes true. For example, a person stating “I’m probably going to have a lousy day,” might alter his actions so that such a prediction is fulfilled by his actions. This may be an unconscious gesture. A person who might espouse a self-fulfilling prophecy in a positive way “I’m going to have a great day,” might act in ways that will actually make this prediction true.


Change your outlook.....change your life.....

if you think negative , you won't ever find positive results on here or anywhere. Being young , know that you have a lot of time ahead of you to find the women of your dreams. Don't give up hope so easily. I was emailing thru this site with a nice man, but he kept getting more negative. So, I stopped responding to him. People with positive outlooks are more fun to talk to.