loneliness as a way of life
how difficult is a lonely living???what makes it so hard to live alone ??? yes maybe u miss a human being on ur side ,and the tenderness and moments of love u will live with ur partner.but tell me from ur hearts deapths ,how many times, u wished to be alone during a hard time with ur other half????recall those great times u had to deal only with urself and listen only to ur needs and desires??away from compromises. have ur draws empty for ur staff and not full of his/her cosmetics and clothes??? let ur live's control to somebody else's hands ???
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Im on the same page as you, but certainly for me, at this moment in time, its how it is..Its tough, I know...but we have to move forward in whatever way is necessary. Does that make any sense ?
i hope so. jon
thanks for passing by my friend,just wanted to prove our insanity.when we r alone ,we want a relation, being on a one ,we sigh for our loneliness.
ps..need more experienced input, I think, for us both ...
take care.
ia m not against relationship my friend , just want to understand human nature
Sometimes we have moments when we want to be alone, but when we are for to long then we start miss the things that once was making us complete happy.
a scientist is always a scientist
thanks for ur comment girl. i agree but still cant find what we really can keep our happiness in a balance
used to have longterm relations , till 5 years ago ,now i am easily bored and maybe i have become too picky,lol
Since I was young, I pretended to be a Zen monk, life has not allowed; living alone and loneliness is a opsion of life, I only I can say that: - You can not miss that, not know! -.
welxome my friend.so true
yes ,but what about happiness???
seriously... you will come to terms with it eventually, it just takes time.
Time to adjust to being alone.
Hey, I live alone, and work alone, then come home to an empty house, cook alone ya da yada...
Eventually it becomes normal.
You shold not expect just from the other half to make you happy, you have to make yourself happy also even with little simple things you enjoy doing each day.
u get used to ur loneliness and i dont know , how easy is to be in a relation afterwards.
i am not expecting my partner to make me happy ,but i expect my relationship keep me happy to a point
As for having my own time when I've been with someone, its never been an issue for me, for we always knew what our habits/preferences were.. and for me its not about giving them control, its more about making sure there is thoughfulness for the one you care for,,, and all the other lovey dovey stuff..
You are
its not like that. i am ready to be on a relation again and just want to know if the transfer from loneliness , will affect me
thank u dear
how can u have a hard time all alone????
"how many times, u wished to be alone during a hard time with ur other half????"
Honestly, I don´t even remember those moments.
I enjoy my life as a single but as I said above any hard time together with my other half would be better than being alone.
not recall the bad times and ur wishing to be alone is a trick of ur mind.i still believe ppl dont know , what they really want .
i am sure we dont realize ,what we have ,tll we lose it
yes, sometimes , but in my case its not one of the above.
just cant find someone to go for her. till now.