Creative dates.....
There's the typical dinner & movie or a nice dinner & perhaps dancing afterwards...if people still do that . And I don't mean the dancing behind closed doors . After awhile dates can be predictable in a way. You get in a routine & do what's comfortable. Sometimes its good to spice it up!Do you like to be surprised by what you're gonna do? Do you like to know what you're gonna do? Do you plan the whole evening? Or do you go with the flow & do what you both feel like doing?
Sometimes you feel like doing this or that but when you get together & you decide to do something else. Sometimes an unpredictable date can be exciting...you don't know what to expect. Or it turns out better.
I like to know in a way what we're doing so I know how to dress...I don't want to be over or under dressed for a date. But I don't like when a guy says we're going for a date....& then takes you only for a movie lol. In a way its a minor dissapointment.
What to you is a creative date?
Here are some suggestions......
*** If its miserable outside......play strip games/movies . For a strip movie strip an article of clothing for each movie you watch (or even tv program'. While you're cuddling on the couch.
***For dinner if you're brave cook naked together but make sure cook something that won't splatter ....but not comfortable then cook in undergarments. (Best done with strip movie night).
Or you can cook together & have an indoor picnic. And play games. Or if the weather permitting go to the park & have a picnic later. There's many things we can do if we use our imagination.
Depending where we live around the world there are outdoor festivals, concerts, summer events, parades, amusement parks, fireworks, taking long walks or hiking, rollerblading, bowling, skiing, tubing, snowboarding, tobaggining, skating, etc. I'm sure I forgot other things that could be done as well.
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So, whatever you are doing - just bring imagination?
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Yup just bring your imagination & enjoy each others company while having fun while getting to know each other!
I like in and outdoor date.Yes there are a lot of interesting thing that we can enjoy,specially its a cherry blossom now here its a perfect outdoor for picnic date
Thank you zweet,
Hhmm, first date...well for me, from experience, I gone first dates in a restaurant (not a very cozy one) but also respectable. I just put on a simple casual dress and off I go. Had a long walk with my date after the dinner and talk about just anything(first along the bay walk in Manila, second on our way to the karaoke bar). And feel if we like each other's company. I guess I like my first dates because I had gone more dates with them after that.
I do enjoy a place wherever it is, crowded or not, sophistacated or just ordinary as long as I like the company.
You're welcome!
Hi marlene
That sounds so nice for a date!
How are you? A for you
I haven't thought of that but what if its winter & you can't go to a beach . Vyolets now you've put ideas in my mimd now
That sounds nice as a date. I do like going out for dinner & putting something nice on to wear. I like in door & out door dates as well. As long as you're enjoying each other & having fun. I'm the same way I don't like to be where its crowded or noisy for the date.
That's an interestung date! That's good you two had similar interests. That sounds kinda cool.
For me one time an ex took me to a antique mall it was a big. I enjoyed it. We were reminising about our childhood as we saw things that we used to have while growing up. We told stories about items that bought up memories.