Western vs Asian Theory
I just thinking to write something interesting here, not about myself, but mostly a question inside me. I need inputs. Also, I just read a blog writing before me about a cheating man, yeah, I guess I'm in the right time.
Well, when a man online (in dating site or out) said that he is interested in you and want to know you better and yes, both of you share time for know each other better and share a little intimate talking, online of course, but finally found that he also has another kind of "relationship", if I can said that, with other girls. When you asked him, he said that's the western style for flirting and it might be only different culture with your Asian style. Besides, he said you and him are not committed each other. Okay, now he thinks you are sensitive and you are acting too much.
Btw, are you feeling satisfied with his answer? No? Then what do you do? Stop communicating with him because of you think you can't trust him anymore? Or blame yourself because of too sensitive? Well, girls, I guess the good thing to be a woman is that we have a good gut. The 6th sense.
Summer
Comments (18)
dont blame yourself he should have told you blame him for being a pig....
Psst.. {Jana, I know they are from western}.
Ignore such men Summer, no matter from the East of from the West
Absolutely nothing to do with Western/Eastern culture. I think a lot of Western guys see Asian girls as very trusting, and therefore easy targets....girls who won't question their lies and secrets.
Its pretty straightforward. If someone doesn't tell you the whole truth then they are intentionally hiding something. Why would they do that if they think theres nothing wrong with what they are doing? Avoid, avoid, avoid......theres better out there Summer
Me thinks all men are the same.
No pun intended guys, but I was speaking in the sense that he can be either westerner or even Indonesian, regardless, when his intention is only for flings... then obviously that's just pretty much what he's looking for.
Either we play into their game or we can determine our own
Summer, that is not the case.
Men are not into flings cos they are men.
But you know this, i'm glad!
If you two are dating offline and have taken commitment one to another, then meet and talk about it face-to-face
No matter where we're from, as human beings we're reluctant to fall into temptations I am sure, but the one who really likes you and wants to be serious with you will make his best efforts to prove to you his seriousness summer
Flirt? That's just a means. Trust me only VERY few are here to flirt.
Yea, ur right summer. I have a tendency to think cs "all the time" when i see comments like the one u had last here cos i'm spending so much time here and mainly using this place as my fishingspot. lol