Bad Boy vs Nice Guy
Ive alway been a little curious about what it is that attracts a girl. Most girls say they are looking for a nice guy but at the end of the day it seems If you dont have a little badness in you girls loose interest.. Is it because girls like to have a project as far as they need some challenge to await them. I think although you all say you want a nice guy it seems not to be the case. Am I wrong love to hear ya comments.Beach
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Not all girls like bad boys.It depends how bad he is...
thanks for your comment. I think thats the key isnt it you need a little roughness round the edges and bit of go in you but having said that not all girls like that in a guy either eg I was on a date at christmas time im in a nice pub with this girl some guy starts wrestling with his mate theyd had to much to drink and were carrying on a bit they smashed into the girl i was with and spilt her drink all over her I didnt like it but let it go and asked if she was ok then five minutes later they did it again so this time i reacted and grabed him off her he reacted at me so i threw him to a security guard and he was kicked out i then turned and asked if she was ok and she ripped into me??
do you think i did the wrong thing?
I am new as ya say thanks for the warm welcome
You seem nice.
If a guys to nice though do you get bored?
Thanks for the welcome but I can assure you Im not a bad guy at all far from it in fact.
what about if hes not a silent type but tries to run around doing things for you and lets you know hes real keen does that put you off?
I try to stay away from those bad guys
Yep, got a date and lookin forward to it...we're both gettin anxious...friday's just taking forever to get here lol, ... and thank ya dear
...and well, she just wasn't for you...you deserve a woman who appreciates that you'd stand up for her, yet still show concern for your own wellbeing.
Yep I do understand your view.. Bad boys can be more fun and interesting no doubt but there is few that will treat a girl right after all is said and done. I seem to be getting the common response of girls wanting a bit of roughness round the edges but still a good heart thanks for ya comment
yeh your right girls in my experience dont like an easy catch they like a chase and its human nature on the whole.. I read a book recently called "The Devils Picnic" in the book the author talks about that very thing he explained it well in a paragraph at the start of the book. He said if you get a young child and try and put a toy in its hand it will 9 times out of 10 throw it away on the ground but if you hold the toy just out of reach the child will want the toy almost obsessing over it. Its human nature......
jokes aside when ur a teenager and dont know better u go for these type but when uve grown and realises life isnt about looks,buns of steel, rock hard abs!good gums and minty fresh breath
In fact myself want to hear what the females think, the more inputs the better. Than way we know who to go for mate, hehe
but what a hekk.
But the Bad A.. now that guy is what i want. A sweet caring man towards me, but is good at something (i'm thinking surfing..idk why :P ) haha
Someone who can treat me right and be gentle towards me, but CAN if needed protect. hmmm pretty much describing Beach to a T here haha.
I think in that situation maybe she wanted to handle the situation and you did it for her? idk.. i guess it just depends on the girl. I can hold my own.. but appreciate a guy who sticks up for me. If someone purposely made me spill my drink on myself.. i'd want ya to do exactly what you did.
I think your great and hope the fella that takes you out on Friday treats you well and appreciates you
Hi gloria!