my Counselor :D
I know this man on CS, an Irish single-divorced man. Even he has deleted his profile but we still send messages on Facebook. After many times we sent messages, finally we met last year. He visited me before he went to China because he has a job as an English Teacher in Daqing city. Actually, he had a nice job in Ireland,but he has his own reasons became an English teacher.He's very polite.He never touched me except when we walked, we holding hands. He only kissed my forehead at the airport before he got his flight to China.
In China,he's not very often to send me messages,due he was using school computer (he has not have laptop yet at that time). And now he has his own laptop, and..............still not many often messages.
I can understand for his busy time,tiredness being an English Teacher, dinners invitation from friends,etc. We chat on skype 1-2 times,...if he had times.
on Early May, I saw him available on skype. So, I started to say 'hi' to him. He replied that he has to go to catch his flight to Seoul. Well..he has already told me about his trip before,but he didn't tell me when did exactly he goes.
Last week, it was his b'day. I wrote on his timeline facebook a birthday message. Two days later,we chat on skype. He said 'Hi' first to me. He explained that he just got back from a short holiday to Seoul.
He asked me, Do I miss him or not? And I said, Nope. He said that he misses me. A day later, he said 'Hi' first (again) before go to class,so I replied very simple message and smile icon. Yesterday, we had chat on skype again and end of the conversation he said, he misses me.
We've known almost 2 years and we keep continue sending messages. With the differences that we have, we only can be friends.
We both know that we can not be together. I wanna a marriage, he doesn't. I'm a Muslim and he's an atheist.
He's very likeable. He doesnt wanna make people upset. So, when he says nice words to me, I assume he's like a Counselor
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You are correct there are many differences that do keep you apart. Sometimes those differences can't be bridged and sometimes they can.
I too would need a man who believes in God or Allah as they are the same (for those who don't know and read this "Allah" means God).
I'm Christian but my son is Muslim and we have no conflicts. You can be with a man of a different faith if have respect for each other.
Only by being together more often can you find out if your feelings would turn to love.
You can have a very good friendship that does last for a lifetime if you both desire to stay in each other's lives. You just can't worry when there is no quick response to messages since you aren't a couple. You owe each other no explanations.
I told him once,dont you dare to get a job here in Indonesia
Well..that was a joke for him,because next year he will move to Brazil.
Being his friend is enuf for me.
perhaps I am
Good you both know what is possible/real and what is not. So you don't waste time and hopes. And if you need/can keep the distant friendship, that's great!
I agree with you. We never go forward because we can't. We're okay for what we are now.
he's going to Brazil because he's continue his teaching there. He told me that he's been done in marriage,and never want to have a new one.
"he's going to Brazil because he's continue his teaching there." I know this man, he is a good person and have been teaching in a lot of places, not because he must or have a contract but because this is his way to explore the world, also through dating different nations, I rather doubt if he could be satisfied to settle with just one woman forewer.
I dont block you.