is honesty always the best policy ????????????????

need a little bit of advice hear fello cs :) im starting to think that been honest is not always the best way but i dont like lies apart from d little white one,s we all tell lol ,
first i will explain that im very bubbly and out going with a number of friends both male and female i see n treat them all equally
and when a guy is interested in me here n we get on really well and talk a lot,
but as soon as i mention in converation that i have male friends aswell they lose d plot and said they lost interest,
and i do they say ok thats fine if you cant actcept who i am, well its best we leave it ,,, but 1 guy in particular that really had an issue with that gave me the world of abuse when i was online, and it reversed to me been on here talking to guys that us women are all the same, il leave out d gory details as they are 2 rude to say when that wasnt d issue in the first place
the likes of them that speak to women like that are really putting me off been so honest and internet dating ,the like,s of them give the good guys a bad name frustrated frustrated frustrated
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if you are honest from the start and they are like that then you are better off sometimes it is hard to see the rose though all the thorns
if people cannot be mature enough to accept your openness then stuff them. You are telling them as you live it...its your business your life, not theirs at all. If they don't like what you do then why bother with them , find people who fit in with you, thats what its all about. No use trying to compromise yourself for their gain . You won't like those people anyway in the end and you will have lost the honesty with yourself , thats the biggest problem . Saskia
I think it depends on how you tell your truth and how the others want to hear it. It shouldn´t matter to a friend or someone who actually values you as a person.
For a person who is a player, that wants to meet girls or that is kind of jealous and/or insecure, it is a big deal, since they can´t conceive a world where they are not alpha males and all that fuzz.
There are good guys (I want to say I am one of them) who don´t mind, unless you tease them and lead them into false illusions or something.
If I was your buddy Im gona be more than happy if you had more lady friends than men..er..yehp!
because I'm after a women , I do have girl friends here as well but if I chose one to be with , I'm not going to stop being friends with the friends I have now , more than likely they are your friends too! ...


banana teddybear
no matter what , being urself , u have to be sincere , ALWAYS.
many of ur friends and family members cant stand the truth , most of the time. better leave them on their fake world, than caress their ears with sweet little or bigger lies.JMO.conversing wave
Devilchick, Why tell when nobody asked?...wave
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Entirely up to you!
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