jealousy , proof of love or insecurety??

never felt jealous in my life of the women i had on my side.
some of them accused me , that since i am not jealous i didnt love them.
strange thou , cause i always believed , jealousy is a result of our fears and insecurities.
what do you think???help conversing uh oh wave
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frank
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing banana banana applause applause conversing cheers handshake thumbs up
WOW F,200 years of experience.....who's the lucky girl then?wink laugh cheering cheering
Oh Frank how much change out of 200 do i get?laugh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Hi all and thanks for welcome. Were all different and feel different levels of emotions, i cant say you have to feel this or that!Im just a grain of sand in a world of desert.cheers wave
Blue....

I think jealousy is a result of the uncontrolled situation in our relationship, things not going according to our likings do result in such HIGHS...

everyone is different, as you have mentioned that u dont feel it, i agree on that too handshake
dimi
ur right dear, experience with not practicing is good for nothing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wow blues wave
some1
thanks for ur comment .stay with us handshake beer
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No wedding cake,but a piece for all,and no jealousy over who gets the biggest piece please....! laugh wave wave
Except one courageous woman here on the blog the others are shining by their absences...I wonder why ??? rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
ExoDimi, can I just have the fruit please ...wow wow thumbs up
Blue

nice posts on your blog as always!applause

Dimi

thanks for the cake, it seems yummmyyhead banger

does it taste the way it looks or it goes the other way?cool
hmmm... all i can say is, i am the jealous type and i expect a monogamous and committed relationship. thank you very much
June I respect your wish may I ask monogamous and committed relationship per relationship or for life ???confused confused confused
June, All I can say is come and join Exotic in some cake and of course 200 years of woman pleasing experience . The only stipulation is that you can't get jealous ! . . wink
aw don't shoot me down space blues
of course it's per relationship. relationships can end for various reasons
June thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up handshake cheers hug
hehe thank you space, and frank, i'm fine with leftover cake grin
June I' ll give you my part I am only happy with the fruits cheering cheering cheering
perfect, i want the cream and cake itself thumbs up cheering
People have a great time I have to go waste my time sleeping again dancing dancing dancing teddybear
space, i'd be most happy to be unproductive that way hehehe
Yeah a third of life wasted in order to sustain two thirds. cheers
wave halo bro...grin wow,what a bloggrin
for me,depend on what i get jealous of..normaly i tried to avoid that and i agree with the word"TRUST",unless i see it with my own eyes then hhhmmm that different,,i never felt insecured with any one believe me bro.i always try to stay positive and im the type who walk away when i felt im jealous..i dont fight,i never argue,i just vanish like a cloudgrin when we love someone,we gotta trust him/her no matter what we hear about them unless we proved it by our own self,makes things better...dont be self centered...bro..i think being jealous is being selfish,,


and to space,wave doh i admire your patience with her and i admire your attitude being still with her,,now,,thats love on your part but self centeredness on her part,thats not good,,anyway,goodluck wine grin
june
always straight and honest.u remind me a man of the best .
thanks for ur participation dear.conversing hug wave
sis jedda
jealous cant be contriled, i think. its an emotion and either u ve got it , or not.
like all the emotions if u will try to restrict it , u will end up in misery.hug lips bouquet wine
There are number of forms of jealousy.If some one have a nice car you can be jealous.If some one is very rich some one could get jealous of that.IN this case jealousy is state of mind where inferiority complex is involved and surely it is not recommened and ofcourse it is mental illness but
IN relationship jealousy takes other form as well.when you get some one.You are scared of losing that one.this is love.you cannot say this not love .Fear to lose your love is appreciable.Ofcourse trust is bsic core of relationship.So here in relationship it coulf be defined as a state of mind where you feel insecure,where you are phobic to lose some one.

NOW the main issue is that under the influence of that fear how you react.So more important is reaction.IF you lose trust.if you doubt your partner .YOU MUST SIT AND NEGOTIATE IT. things should be mutual and agreed.I if your partner does not want you to dance with some one else just donot do it.DONOT FEEL SHE IS jealous.so in relationship it is a state of mind when you feel insecure and you are scared of losing your beloved one.but again your behaviour should be positive.ofcourse jealousy in relationship come from possesiveness but if both are partneres do understand eachotheres it can lead to being very nice couple but if you use this phobia as a negative then it can lead to being in hell.
There are number of forms of jealousy.If some one have a nice car you can be jealous.If some one is very rich some one could get jealous of that.IN this case jealousy is state of mind where inferiority complex is involved and surely it is not recommened and ofcourse it is mental illness but
IN relationship jealousy takes other form as well.when you get some one.You are scared of losing that one.this is love.you cannot say this not love .Fear to lose your love is appreciable.Ofcourse trust is bsic core of relationship.So here in relationship it coulf be defined as a state of mind where you feel insecure,where you are phobic to lose some one.

NOW the main issue is that under the influence of that fear how you react.So more important is reaction.IF you lose trust.if you doubt your partner .YOU MUST SIT AND NEGOTIATE IT. things should be mutual and agreed.I if your partner does not want you to dance with some one else just donot do it.DONOT FEEL SHE IS jealous.so in relationship it is a state of mind when you feel insecure and you are scared of losing your beloved one.but again your behaviour should be positive.ofcourse jealousy in relationship come from possesiveness but if both are partneres do understand eachotheres it can lead to being very nice couple but if you use this phobia as a negative then it can lead to being in hell.
sometimes in women's mind ( me )

jealousy mean Care

and cant help to happy if u know someone care you !angel wine bouquet
For me a little bit jealous is natural and is needed sometimes to show him/her that you care him/her.But too much jealousy is make me sickdoh doh

No more piece of cake left for me...?mumbling

Nice blog Dimwink thumbs up peace lips wave
YES I beleive some times in relationship jealousy express itself in the form of care and it is positive reaction.SO you cannot say it is always negative.psitive aspect of jealousy is really acceptable and appreciable.
jealousy in a relation is one thing...
jealousy at work, between neighbours, familymembers...help
It can be sweet in the first setting, but totally devastating and dangerous in the next.JMO.

cool wine
Jealous men are unattractive to me. If I notice that he is jealous (for no obvious reason) my feelings for him disappear immediately. I am not jealous unless I see him making love with another woman. Even in that case I don't feel jealousy, but my love for him stops, I realize that I was in love with an illusion.
Violeta As a scientist and a quantum passionate like you, you should know very well that every thing is illusion ...handshake cheers hug rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
spring
i was talking , ab love jealousy , but u managed to cover the whole kinds of jealousy. thank uapplause conversing cheers
moon dear
i know how twisted , women brains r.
jealousy is sickness , nothing to do with care , but i can understand poor insecure women.
understanding doesnt mean i excuse themrolling on the floor laughing tongue wave
marl??
show ur face again dear. we have 16 more fruitcakes at the club .no worries , we will never run out of cakes rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing tongue banana wave
fiona dear
about ur PS , frank said earlier that we carry the 200+ years experience. he ment , we know by now what a woman needs , its ages advantage. lol.
on jealousy matter , i agree 100%. thanks for passing bywine yay wave bouquet
redex
mostly men??????confused confused confused confused
what about mostly ................... women????
it depends on anyones experiences i guesscomfort hug bouquet
viking
not so much diff. jealousy never stops to be a sick emotion , no matter the source of it.conversing sigh cheers
space-phil
mr scientist and quantum passionate , hope the nice stake and the fresh salad i am enjoying , right now , wint prove to be illusionsrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing doh cheers
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