plainlyjune

plainlyjune

Nov 2012

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How Low Can You Go?

Have you ever gone down on your knees to beg someone to stay? Or say "sorry" with killer begging puppy eyes when you know you've done wrong. Are you brave enough to admit your mistake?

Most of us, at some point, must have gone through rough and desperate times. Losing and regaining trust and/or love. What approaches do you use? I have done my fair share of swallowing my pride. How far have you gone to save a relationship?

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cherriebabe●somewhere over the rainbow, Indonesia

Nov 24, 2012●15 Blogs●1,051 Comments

hey june! unless i was the one who did wrong, i would go the extra mile

Newlife08●On the coast, Queensland Australia

Nov 24, 2012●29 Comments

Nope - never begged anyone to stay, probably cos I have done the leaving, or asked them to leave??

I figure if someone wants to leave you for whatever reason - after you've done all the talking, if they are still adamant that it is over, then that is it??

I don't want someone to stay with me just because they feel sorry for me or they feel they should?

I want someone to be with me cos they don't want to be with anyone else?

plainlyjuneOP●Legazpi City, Bicol Philippines

Nov 24, 2012●17 Blogs●690 Comments

hi cherrie. same here. I have tried cooking for my ex before, believing the best way is through his stomach.. and that's why he's an ex. hehe

Changed name?

cherriebabe●somewhere over the rainbow, Indonesia

Nov 24, 2012●15 Blogs●1,051 Comments

yes the name change works wonders

but they still call me choco

plainlyjuneOP●Legazpi City, Bicol Philippines

Nov 24, 2012●17 Blogs●690 Comments

Good one Newlife. That's a lesson i've learned over the years, and i've learned the hard way. I'm stubborn. But it's all worth it, one way or another.

plainlyjuneOP●Legazpi City, Bicol Philippines

Nov 24, 2012●17 Blogs●690 Comments

i'm glad the change has done it's purpose, and in my mind, i still do call you choco.

particolor●Inverell, New South Wales Australia

Nov 24, 2012●9,376 Comments

NO!! Only if they wouldnt give my Money Back!!!!

plainlyjuneOP●Legazpi City, Bicol Philippines

Nov 24, 2012●17 Blogs●690 Comments

wassup parti!

Welela●Secret City, Buskerud Norway

Nov 24, 2012●2,822 Comments

I've never begged someone to stay, because I feel it the same way Newlife says it. If all the talking is done and we still can not figure it out, I will not have this person into my life any more.

There is something wrong in begging a person to stay if you know that this person want to go.. and as I always say it, there are plenty of more fish in the sea.

plainlyjuneOP●Legazpi City, Bicol Philippines

Nov 24, 2012●17 Blogs●690 Comments

hello welela! Got ya about the begging. How about owning up to an honest mistake?

How do you make up for it?

Newlife08●On the coast, Queensland Australia

Nov 24, 2012●29 Comments

Depends what the 'honest' mistake is?

Simmo1●Melbourne, Victoria Australia

Nov 24, 2012●110 Blogs●3,699 Comments

Not So Plain June

A quick Hi and Bye......

Hope all is going super well for you.

teddybeerke88●assenede, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium

Nov 24, 2012●148 Blogs●2,252 Comments

If i do something wrong i'll admit that... But i will deal with the consequences of my actions and would never beg anyone to stay.

Happygolucky4u●Treasure Coast, Florida USA

Nov 24, 2012●187 Comments

When I was younger I can think of times I wanted to beg a guy to stay with me. But it is not in my genetic make up to do that. When I look back at those times now I am so glad I did not. I would of just prolonged a bad relationship. I know now I never knew what real love was till I married my husband.

cherriebabe●somewhere over the rainbow, Indonesia

Nov 24, 2012●15 Blogs●1,051 Comments

june

plainlyjuneOP●Legazpi City, Bicol Philippines

Nov 24, 2012●17 Blogs●690 Comments

Happy,

glad you've had true love.

Simmo!

Teddy: no negotiations?

Ariel: as always a well versed response.

Cherrie: hugging frenzy?

teddybeerke88●assenede, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium

Nov 24, 2012●148 Blogs●2,252 Comments

june, i'm not perfect and will never claim to be.. I've made msitakes in previous relations. ANd i will explain my actions/behaviour to my partner. I will say i'm sorry and will promise to do better.. But if those things aren't enough then I don't see a reason to beg. I won't ever commit myself to promises If i am doubtful i can keep them. I am who i am with all my good and bad sides. I know myself very good and have accepted myself the way i am. If a potential partner can't accept me if i push myself to the limits their would be no point at continueing the relation.

St_Elmo●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Nov 24, 2012●17 Blogs●1,424 Comments

June...

If to err is human
and if love is to forgive & reprieve
then why the need to go on bended knees

Tis the ago old battle of ego
create the rant, then see who wears then pants
who will stay and who will go?

St_Elmo●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Nov 24, 2012●17 Blogs●1,424 Comments

typo ~ the pants...

CS, donate a new keyboard....

lachicabonita●counting days to DE, Jakarta Indonesia

Nov 24, 2012●1 Blogs●2,393 Comments

El, get something to delete words you typed...digital eraser maybe

St_Elmo●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Nov 24, 2012●17 Blogs●1,424 Comments

Lach...

I put tippexed the error on the screen...

didn't help!

Calliopesgirl●Nashville, Tennessee USA

Nov 24, 2012●322 Blogs●5,311 Comments

Been sooo long I do not remember....

Ed1941●Bullhead City,, Arizona USA

Nov 24, 2012●151 Blogs●4,758 Comments

I did it once with my ex named Priscilla. I was 17 and in the next 55 years I never did it again. When it's time to go it's time to go and don't look baCK!

DaytonaDude●South Daytona, Florida USA

Nov 24, 2012●17 Blogs●137 Comments

Nope! But i've had them get down on their knees to beg me...

...to leave

Hi June

Mrcreative●Upington, Northern Cape South Africa

Nov 24, 2012●33 Blogs●90 Comments

Never do that. never beg. Will just make it worse. Its a physicological fact that the human brain wants what it cant have. so do the opposite and confuse it.

shay28●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Nov 24, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

I had (for a period of time), but he insisted he don't want to have anything to do with me. I guess it just not meant to be. I am not saying in finality, maybe or maybe not I could do beg on bended knees. And see who's at fault then.

June,

plainlyjuneOP●Legazpi City, Bicol Philippines

Nov 25, 2012●17 Blogs●690 Comments

El: Humility is a virtue.

Teddy: the limits are what i was asking about, "how far would you go", but got ya, you won't beg. Does saying you know yourself limit the extent in which you can grow and change for the better? Truly there's always room for improvement

Lach: i believe in doing every way possible to save something.

It's a sad thing to walk out on something knowing you could've done better. But yes, we do have to acknowledge when enough is enough. And as it usually turns out, we're better off. Though i have had past relations that still give me a teeny bit of pinch in the heart when i remember them.

Hi Calli!: Some memories are best forgotten too!

Ed: I'm guilty of looking back and i'm glad i do because i could reaffirm that i did the right thing and no unfinished business. Plus sometimes i forget the lesson i learned so they're always good reminders.

R: I hope you didn't wait til their knees bled.

MrCreative: Seeking clarity almost always works best in most situations.

Shay: Best to get rid of the guilt.

Sterling_Wollops●Melburn't, Victoria Australia

Nov 26, 2012●10 Comments

Hi PJ, Don't beg to much, it's a big woooorld

RAHUL143KHAN●Delhi, India

Nov 30, 2012●29 Blogs●168 Comments

yes i have gone on my knee to beg to stay to residt her by going leaving me alone but she didnt stop..now she is married with any other guy and living anywhere in Japan.

RAHUL143KHAN●Delhi, India

Nov 30, 2012●29 Blogs●168 Comments

i went to my knee before her even i had not made any mistake except loving her very much and nothing.

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