"My wife was a man and i never knew!"



For the relationship seekers: How well should you know your partner? Do you think it's alright to keep things from your spouse? How do you deal with Deception?

People always say "what's past is past and there's no need to bring it out" or "Leave the past behind" or "as long as we click". It's all a romantic notion, but commitment-wise, a lot of things come into play and should be given huge amounts consideration. It's better to love with eyes wide open. Now i'm not just talking about personality and kindness here. I personally want to know everything. Not only about gender or preferences, but all other things included i.e. status in life, background, career, medical history including the family's med history and what have you.

What things do you consider when jumping into a relationship and commitment?
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stick? tongue
Yep !! Thats right! Frying Pan dont Rhyme does it?doh laugh laugh
wine bouquet
mwahahah!! guys relax... not saying you have to dismiss a person upon finding out imperfections. I suppose my aim in knowing the trivial stuff is to know how to deal and to take care of your loved one the best way you can. Help is best given when you know what is needed, the same way acceptance is easier to do and basing upon the idea that "to know you is to love you".

So the questions still remain:
How well should you know your partner?
Do you think it's alright to keep things from your spouse?
How do you deal with Deception?

and most importantly...
What things do you consider when jumping into a relationship and commitment?
June

There's a song from Kelly Clarkson that says...

Would you love me, even with my dark side?

Well, I believe in that line.hug
Thanks for the post serenity. You got what i was trying to drive at. grin

Bung: it is the best way to love isn't it... to know that love has no bounds. good and bad all the way. thumbs up
hi cherrie. there should be a law indeed, but i wonder what it would state. Will it be akin to business laws when you can get a refund if you're an unsatisfied customer. Should there be warranties? All we could get is something to pacify a damaged ego. laugh
June,
"I personally want to know everything. Not only about gender or preferences, but all other things included i.e. status in life, background, career, medical history including the family's med history and what have you".

Are you a tax inspector by any chance?dunno rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wave
lol zm, to my partner and loved one, i'm the person who's stays when everybody has left. wink
His wife was a man in a previous life? rolling on the floor laughing
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