lonely while others are happily in love
I'm lonely in one particular way and have been for some time. My brothers and sisters are married, happy and have children. I find it hard when I hear of people getting married, being pregnant etc. I also find it difficult when all my family is together. It makes me sad as I'm reminded of what I don't have.Does anyone identify with that?
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I'm fairly realistic, I have too many friends and family members who are divorced or where a relationship is not going well. Personally my focus wouldn't be on the fact of getting married and babies, but to have a relationship in which both are happy and can make it work. If that works for a good while, then works for living together for a while, then I would see about the rest. It's sad, but I don't currently envy anyone of my family or friends the relationship they are in.
Another thing I observed is, how can someone expect to be happy with another person if they are not happy with themselves? Desperation or wanting something badly, what kind of people does this attract? No one who wants a healthy, equal relationship is my guess...
I do wish you best of luck.
I am not so good looking but I have always had a very good and outgoing personality. I scored with some fantastic looking women all my life. I'm not bragging but leading you to this idea. And it is, "You gotta go with what you got"!
Are you listening "shy"?
indeed sometimes i feel sad, when in my big family had a family event, usually every 2 months, cos i came alone without a chaperone. but in my belief said that mate and death are prerogative of God, then am sincere with this situation, it make me feel enjoy it. i assume them like my own grandchildren, encouraging them to play, go to the mall, watch a movie..
K Nenagh, thanks for the comment. I am happy in myself. I have done a LOT of thinking over the past few years and really know what's important to me. I'm not desperate. I wouldn't want just any man. I am in good form most of the time, love smiling, laughing etc but I do sometimes think of being happily in love and it can make me sad.