EXPECT LES, BE LESS DISAPPOINTED

If you don't count on anyone but yourself, you'll never be disappointed...Stop paying attention to the people who aren't trying to make an effort to be in your life and start paying attention to the ones that are. Never blame any day in your life, good days give you happiness, bad days give you experience, and the worst days give you a lesson..When you focus on problems, you gain more problems...when you focus on possibilities, you gain more opportunities..There is a choice you make in everything you do, and in the end, the choice you make, MAKES YOU. We all are the sum of the choices each of us has made. I have learned that bitterness and gossip accomplishes nothing, but forgiveness and love accomplishes everything.
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Hi Townsend, I understand your blog, but I disagree with alot of it.

To expect less, be less disappointed? That's no way to run a business, a sports team or a life. I say strive to achieve more and it all feels greatly rewarding when accomplished. To expect less, you will only result in less as well.

When you focus on problems? I call them challenges and obstacles. You find a way to confront them, resolve them and overcome them. Make things better.

When you focus on possibilities, you gain more opportunities? I think when you focus on possibilities, you still must go out and do them to accomplish them. When opportunities arise, you still must go out and take them on.

We are going to make mistakes and find disappointments regardless of what we do. It is just a part of life. Those who say they've never made a mistake or never been disappointed, have perhaps never tried to do anything.

I say strive to achieve. you only live once, so get out and there and challenge the possibilities. Make things happen!
Yeah!

Good blog, I understand what you're saying, but I believe a little otherwise. Thank you for sharing your good words.
I wish you a nice day! cheers
Robert787 : well i agree that one must strive to achieve but that motto seem to be failing in my love area frustrated laugh
Expectation is the root of all disappointment. If you decrease the expectation then you decrease the potential disappointment, should the expectation not be met.

Expectation is is also the root of all joy. When you decrease the expectation you increase the potential joy, should the expectation be met or exceeded.
Hi Townsend, I do think it's important to have people you can count on and to make an effort with people who are important in your life.

Live your life the way it makes you happy and don't bother with people who don't, it usually works for me. wine
I agree with Rob.
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