My exaggerated expectations ....

Today I 've been thinking about something that disappointed me a lot ...
Always expect the " fantastic " place to justify any emotional manifestation of: joy, affection, friendship, respect ...
The trouble comes when this fantastic not appear then you think it is not worth wasting any sentimento.Das two one , or " great " does not exist and we are grandiose claims and other deceptive or it must have appeared and we had a look more careful to see if was worth it or not .
Sometimes my exaggerated expectations about what life gives us can derail the experience of experiences easier, but fun .
The trend of " oversize " things at least in my case , wanting simple things are more intense or grandiose has led me to a state of constant dissatisfaction , inconformação , inadequacy and incompatibility with the life I have , or that people who I think the same .
Seeing as even unintentionally am taken to always expect the "more" , the " fantastic " , I decided not to wait any longer. This is because my criteria for assessing what is or is not fantastic has been weak and insufficient , because life has surprised me a lot. The simplest things and people have priority proved fantastic for me after awhile . Not always the first impression is the lasting impression.
Have allowed me to go beyond the first impression , without pretense of finding the " fantastic " , but in order to assess whether it is worth investing some feeling or simply forget. it also has led me to remove the pictures from my profile. I'm also trying to be more receptive to new ideas , more tolerant , more flexible , more patient with almost everything and almost everyone. Always thinking that it is time to break my paradigms since the risk really compensate !