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how do you handle these holiday months when you don't feel you have family to spend it with? the only good news i have is i found a new agency to go to for work. i'm just so tired of feeling dead inside especially because it's almost thanks giving and i don't feel like i have much to be thankful for, witch is so selfish of me i know, i mean at least i have a roof over my head, and food to eat, and work coming my way, but it's that other half of me that is missing that i don't feel i can get back.
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it get real easy as the years roll by ......or you can come here to be with others all alone this christmass ...., here we can be one big family of friends and play music

and just for you ....

nice virgo thanks lol
now if it was my ex got ran over by a raindeer that would be awesome!
Bambi

You don't have family to spend thanksgiving with?? How about friends who you can share the holiday with.
dunno confused
i don't spend the Thanksgiving holiday with anyone. But I takr some epople that wouldn't havr anything to a place that has a free dinner. Just show up!

Go to the Salvation Army and help them serve the homeless.

The best Thanksgiving I ever had was with a buddy hunting fossilized shark teeth!
did he find any?
We found a bunch of them. I found a 4 inch one and it was an awesome find. I cannot remember what my buddy found but I found a bunch. In one dirt clod I found about 20 mini teeth. We also found a bunch of bones like the fin bones and a whale ear bone.

I do not know if you are familiar with this particular disease, Valley Fever. But it's prevalent in Central California. The ground beds were closed because of the fungus in the dirt that caused the sickness so we no longer go.
Bambiena. If it makes you feel any better, I have been living here in Spain for the last 13 years with no family whatsoever, but I have made wonderful friends.
The worst for me is the Christmas period when all my friends are spending their time with their family (mine being scattered in various parts of Europe).

At first I used to feel miserable, sad, unhappy and depressed and feeling sorry for myself.
But, as the years went by, I realized that I was not the only one in this situation and I had plenty of things to share with others who were worse off than I was.

I started helping others and do some voluntary work, sharing my food with people who were hungry, providing some company and laughter to those who were sad and lonely etc.
And this was the most rewarding things in my life - to be able to make a difference in this world!hug

Remember, we are never alone! We are all united and are all ONE!danceline dancingsanta angel2

This year, my best Christmas present is coming: my youngest son whom I haven't seen for 7 years (he lives in England) has invited to spend it with them and I will have the chance to see my first granddaughter who is now 16 months old!heart wings

As you can see Bambiena, as long as there is life, there is hope... And as long as there is love in your heart, you soul will always be fulfilled.

Have a nice day... and Thanksgiving (Remember to be grateful for what YOU DO HAVE!, then you will attract more love and abundance into your life!teddybear
Built up friendships. It takes time and "effort" (I mean that in a positive way) to keep in touch and be as much there for someone as they will be for you. Stick with them and don't cut all contact when you meet someone. I'm lucky to have a great family, but I also consider myself lucky to have (few) really good friends. wine
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