bambiena
bambiena
columbus, Ohio, USA
Dec 2013
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can't tell you how ready i am

really can't tell you how ready i am for a new man, one i can trust and not have to look over my shoulder with, yesterday was christmas and his *barf* new gf,got me a christmas gift saying that she was sorry for all the hurt she caused and hopes we can move on in a better direction. so how can someone say they are sorry and yet do the same thing they know someone doesn't like them for. this new year has to be better for me then the one i just had, just so tired of all this, so real men please by all means step forward
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GoDaniel
GoDaniel●Leominster, Massachusetts USA
Dec 26, 2013●71 Blogs●2,433 Comments
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@Bambi..... I hope his girlfriend meant what she said, people have a tendency to be all forgiving around the holidays but when it's over so is their kindness toward each other.
dunno dunno
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bambiena
bambienaOP●columbus, Ohio USA
Dec 26, 2013●50 Blogs●31 Comments
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that's my point, she knows i can't stand her and am only being half way nice for my ex's sake, but if she was sorry she wouldn't be with him, remember he broke up with me for her after telling me nothing was going on and he had no feelings twoard her, hence why i don't and have never trusted her and she tried to tell both him and i she didn't know who i was at the time witch is a bold face lie
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virgosingle
virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand
Dec 26, 2013●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments
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gosh .....haven't you moved out of that hell cesspit of doom yet ?? so when are you going to get your own place ??????
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bambiena
bambienaOP●columbus, Ohio USA
Dec 26, 2013●50 Blogs●31 Comments
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i guess it depends on how you look at it, he lied to me we were pretty happy till she showed up, i mean in actuality i've been with him longer but i'm starting to wonder if i'm in love with the person i thought he was/used to be or if i'm just not wanting to be lonely
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Nicefeet
Nicefeet●Venice, Veneto Italy
Dec 26, 2013●327 Comments
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Are you the kind of woman who just does not get it Miss Bambiena?
Are you so desperate for this guys attention that you need to be " in " the situation in order to control it. Time to stop trying to repair your wounded ego my dear and get the hell out of there .
When you free your mind and physical attachment with these peopl you will be free to find someone else. If you don't you risk tainting the next relationship.Get them out of your life and mind if you want to move on . Jmo.
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KNenagh
KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland
Dec 26, 2013●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments
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You still talk about your ex and then moving on with someone else.

Did it ever cross your mind to built up your own life before you jump on someone else?

If you can't be happy in your own company and have your own life, what kind of mind will you attract?
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bambiena
bambienaOP●columbus, Ohio USA
Dec 26, 2013●50 Blogs●31 Comments
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you have a point there to
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chame1eon
chame1eon●Pittsburgh area, Pennsylvania USA
Dec 26, 2013●28 Blogs●854 Comments
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Hello Bambi,

It looks like you are ready for love, but are you ready to love? Sounds like you may need to do some healing first. I say that because you seem to be blaming the x's girlfriend for the failed relationship between you and the x. I know it's hard to face up, but she's not the problem.

In any case, he is your x...your past; not your present. Let him go. Focus on how you can best heal from the past and move ahead with your life. I recommend you read a book called "Boundaries in Dating". It's excellent and may help you in your journey to heal and to move on to better things.

hug
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Freedomofspeech9
Freedomofspeech9●Swansea, Dyfed, Wales UK
Dec 27, 2013●49 Blogs●635 Comments
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Get over it or you won't be able to move on to pastures new!
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Lukeon
Lukeon●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa
Dec 27, 2013●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments
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Sad to say, I don't think any man would want a woman that is still 'clutching' onto her load of old baggage, and refuses to let go.dunno Jmo
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Nicefeet
Nicefeet●Venice, Veneto Italy
Dec 27, 2013●327 Comments
#11
Miss Bambiena , all of the above people care enough to offer some very good advice to you. My wish is that you take our points on board and do for yourself what needs to be done now.
We don't want to hear anymore about this love entanglement , it makes us worry about you . We want to hear of the new page that's been turned in your life and how you have become happy with yourself.
Then we want to hear about the Happy New Bambiena , the girl with the past behind her.
Take care .
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unlaoised
unlaoised●Twilight zone, Wicklow Ireland
Dec 27, 2013●1,614 Comments
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Not nice to inflict someone new with all your baggage. Get your life in order bfore looking for the next. Why are you still hanging around you ex and his new girlfriend?confused
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ramseyrex
ramseyrex●doha, Doha Qatar
Dec 28, 2013
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maybe God want us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one , so that when we finally meet the person we will know how to be grateful..
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enigma2
enigma2●Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Jan 1, 2014●448 Comments
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You sound to be stuck in a painful confusion with yourself; 'Who's right -who's wrong' in all that love mess but what's the point of all that questions when relationship doesn't work any more!? He is with other women and by still wondering around who's fault that relationship didn't work out - you touchering yourself and not giving yourself opportunity to experience new things in life but before jumping into new relationship too fast -too soon I suggest you should heal by taking time with yourself. One of healing would also be to avoid ex partner and he's girlfriend and all places where they go...start fresh. Good luck. teddybear
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