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by bambiena
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There is nothing I can tell him. Talking to him cannot fix anything. It is you who I'm concerned about. You have to stop dwelling on the past now. Let go of it and make peach with yourself. And it must start by forgiving him; harsh as it may sound. This thing is eating you from inside and it will eventually destroy you.
Go back and read over your blogs - they're nearly all about your ex, and even if you claim you're over him, it's evidently reading them that you are not.
IT IS OVER - there is no point in you or anyone else talking to him. Cutting all contact would probably benefit you.
I have exes, too, but I worked on getting over them and move on. If you can't do this on your own, maybe you should talk to someone about it. You do sound very unhappy and as Cat says, it sounds as it is eating you up.
Best of luck to you and be happy!
1) Your blogs are yours to write whatever is on your mind. For many, writing a blog is therapy. Others may judge, but the last time I checked, bloggers were not paid to entertain people.
2) I'll pray that you are accepted for the prospective job and that it will open up some rewarding opportunities for you.
3) In answer to your question (yeah, I know I'm not a guy), I'd tell your x that what goes around comes around. The way we treat others can and will come back to haunt us. When we hurt others, we damage ourselves on the inside. Likewise, treating others with dignity and respect, even when in disagreement with them, heals us from within and builds us up and makes us people that other people want to be with.
4) [to virgo] lol, loved your response.
I agree with what all the other members posted as a response