I can't understand

I just can't understand why people fight online. The person who you are fighting with is sometimes not even in the same country as you are, so seriously what can you really do but be mean and sometimes nasty to the person. thumbs down

We are all adults here and as we matured from toddlers to adolescence to adulthood we should have learnt how to handle disagreements.professorscold

I am always in shock when I read these arguments in the comments of someone's blogs. I still don't understand why you need to comment if you just want to argue. There is no problem if you disagree with the OP but why argue. I have read many blogs where I may not agree and where I do agree with the OP but I don't always comment. I have seen others comment and disagree but there is NO Fighting!

The description for CS blogs states You can write about an opinion, impart words of wisdom, or talk about something interesting in your day.

Yet when others write their stories, post religious blogs or just write what they feel, they are attacked. You should remember and realize you are NOT a moderator. It is NOT your job to determine who can post a blog and what their topic should be. Remember NO-ONE forces you to comment. sigh

I do wonder if some people on this site are just not happy with their lives so they try to spread unhappiness and discord to others.sad flower

Life is really too short, just try to enjoy whatever life you have now and bring some joy into your life. laugh cheering
You never know which day could be your last - let your words heal not hurt !

If you are not happy with your life, you are the only one who has the power to CHANGE IT ! Be happy folks! Enjoy your weekend!
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wave True that, great blog Shay cheers

And hope you have a Wonderful, Beautiful weekend, surrounded with good stuff, many smiles and good people yay
you are right Ms. Shay, for me being here for having fun with all my CS friends. all subjects that we put on blog just for sharing whether happiness, sadness, experience, and so on.
but some peoples try to against the OP which I dont understand what the purpose. When I read all comment and sound like fighting or arguing... i prefer just reading and be an audience...

good blog thumbs up
Bajan,
mea culpa. common sense is not contagious.. sometimes. good point. thumbs up

Enjoy your weekend!wine
These blogs can be viewed as an accurate barometer of society in general. Everywhere you go people disagree and quarrel, it is simple human nature. (I am right, therefore you are wrong by default)
Even nations can't get along that's why we have militaries. And we also have police, courts and prisons.
You may as well accept the fact that we are an aggressive species as are all primates. I'm afraid that peace on the blogs is an elusive dream.dunno
Hi Butterflies,
thank you and wishing you a great weekend also! Hope all is well with you!hug teddybear enjoy!cheering
Hi Phyllis,
yes there are better ways to share and discuss. I am happy you have dodged those illnesses and are still here with us.hug life is really too short so we should just enjoy it! Hope you are enjoying your weekend!teddybear
wave Bajan,,, sometimes its better to not understand..confused laugh wine
Hi Smart,
I do agree with you... I also like to read and comment and have fun with my friends here, sharing in their lives - the good and the bad and sending an encouraging word when I can.

My online time is so limited now as I am busy with a project at work so the blogs provides a welcome respite from this. I do get a little discouraged by the fighting hence this blog. Hope you are having a wonderful weekend.hug enjoy cheering
Hi B,
common sense is not contagious!rolling on the floor laughing we have a saying here on the island -common sense is not common! Similar I think!

Wishing you a great weekend my dear Bhug teddybear enjoy!cheering
@Alex,
handshake That happens sometimes in the blogs ... Blogs are sometimes hi-jacked. Most people apologize if they stray off topic of the OP blog but more often than not I have noticed it happening more often and no apology is offered.sigh

My suggestion is to gently remind the person of the blog's topic and continue on.

have a great weekend hug Enjoy!banana
Hi Red,
How are you? Yes, if only!! but can I add Happiness is always within our reach. It is a state of mind. Hope you are having a great weekend! hug cheering cheers
You have good weekend tooteddybear
I don't arguee with anyone online, I just tell them my view in that matter. Nothing wrong with that I guess?teddybear hug
"All it takes for evil to prevail is that good men do nothing"



When I see a blog pushing lies I will comment, I just wish more people would do the same.
Hi Odette,
Thank you for your comments. Very well written! I couldn't agree more! Hope you are having a great weekend! hug
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