Life is short spend time with your loved ones

Be grateful for every second of every day that you get to spend with the people you love. Life is so very precious -Mandy Hale

The phone call came on Monday afternoon while I was at the office. My grandmother was at the hospital but no one knew what was happening. By the time the second call through and I was being told doctors weren't sure she was going to make it, I was waiting on my ride. With my heart pumping and the worst scenarios running through my head I made my way to the Accident and Emergency (my island version of ER) . When we were finally allowed to see her tears came to my eyes and a lump formed in my throat. She looked so frail and seeing her on a ventilator I wanted to cry out. The nurse said to talk to her and for the first time in my adult life I was actually speechless luckily my sister picked up the slack and starting chatting. All I could think was you cannot die . Not yet, we still have lots to do.
By the next day she was in ICU still on ventilator but from Thursday she is just on the oxygen mask.

Today, praise God, she is sitting up and chatting with everyone. I didn't visit her today but I told my cousin to tell her I will see her tomorrow. My granny sent the message I won't see her tomorrow there as she will be home. laugh
Love that old girl...just don't tell her I called her old. laugh
My family had a prayer vigil going from Monday 28th April which stretched from Barbados to New York to Florida and back. God answered our prayers and my grandmother is a fighter. The will to live is strong and her recovery is astounding.
cheering cheering

A very special thank you to my sweetheart who has been very supportive during this time and checking on me constantly.kiss
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applause Bajanshay; Congrats! For Your Granny.
Hi dear,,i wish youre dear granny a speedy and full recovery "life is too short,spend time with youre loved ones" ...Tiz great advice,,i say this myself to others often....life really is so very short,,tiz not a dress rehersal...take care and best wishes to granny.....au revoir...cheers wine sheep playball angel2 transport
Hi angel,
Thank you. I can now sleep a bit easier tonight. teddybear
Hi Twazzle,
It is so true. Life is not a dress rehearsal. Thanks for your well wishes. hug
My thoughts and prayers are with you Grannykiss I have always thought the elders are the glue that hold families together with their love ,care, and concern. Best Wishes to herteddybear
Hi 1,
Thank you for your lovely comments and well wishes. Yes they are the glue.
Hi Bajanshay.... I ever passed that situation when my father had to be hospitalized and I could not be with him right away since I lived in other city. but just next day I came to visit him and just found him with oxygen and some catheters in part of his body. What I could do only hold his hand and kiss his forehead, he opened his eyes but could not talk. I was glad he knew that I was here to see him. And he passed away in the next day ... sad flower
Sounds like your gran has the same thoughts about being in hospital as I do doh glad she's doing better today wine
She is an old girl and I am sure she's proud of it.

I will add to my prayer list tonite!
bouquet Congrats with your granny,,,,kiss
Bajanshay, I am so happy for your grandma, I hope you get to keep her for a while longer, granny's are good to have. I did not have a granny, my moms mom died right after I was born and my dads mom was long gone when I saw the daylight, so I do not know what it is to have a granny. But happy for you and yours.
yay teddybear hug
Hi Bajanshay,
Good advice and glad to hear of the recovery your gran has made.
Have a great day. wine
Hi Smart,
I am so sorry for your loss. sad flower The only consolation is at least he knew you were there and especially that you loved him. hug hug
Hi Zman,
I think most people do think that way about hospitals. Thanks for stopping by and your lovely well wishes. hug
Ed,
I can never call her old (to her face).laugh Thank you please do add her as I continue to pray for her every day. hug you are so sweet.
Hi Zeurich,
Thank you. It has been a rough week and I hope this week is better. wave hug
Wel,
Thank you and although you didn't have one growing up very importantly you are one now.teddybear She is the only one I knew as I never knew my father's mother who had died.
Hi Non,
Thank you. Give the boys a big hug for me. hug. We really need to appreciate our loved ones. I am now thinking of planning our next family reunion once she has fully recovered. Hope you have a great day also!
teddybear
Hi Shay
I'm very pleased that she recovered so well.banana
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Hi Bajanshay, wave I'm glad to hear your grandmother is better and wishing her a full and speedy recovery. teddybear
Hi Cat,
Thank you once again for all your support. love I really appreciate it. We are very happy with her recovery also. kiss hug
Hi KN,
Thank you for your lovely well wishes. hug we are wishing that also. Thank you. hug
@Bajanshay Hi there ! I really wish your Granny a speedy recovery. I was raised by my Gran. She was old but she was like a mother to me. I hope you have her for a long time. Nice blogbouquet
Hi GG,
Thank you for your sweet comment. hug She is recovering nicely ... last update. yes Grannies are importtant.
Hope you had a great day! teddybear
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