Women's SECRET
Further to GoDaniel's blog about secret, for every woman virginity is women's secret.To me, virginity is a personal thing... private. To whom she will present her virginity that is her absolute right.
Last week end, my friend visited me. She was my assistant when I worked at other company. She looked not happy. She started talking about her relationship with her office mate. She said he is a Manager in the office. They love each other. She was engaged last 6 months. So, I congrats her while I hug her and I am happy for her.
Last 2 weeks, after 2 years in relationship, the fiance talking about marry. She could not calm down every time hearing this planning. She always try to extend it. she gives many excuses when the fiance ask to meet her parent to discuss further.
She comes to me for advise and she said that she has a secret.
She said she was not virgin anymore since she presented it to her boy friend when she was in the college.
She asked my advise whether she has to tell about this to her fiance?
I just told her that if your fiance love you, virgin or not virgin does not a matter... so I leave to her to decide as according to me she does not need advise what to do in this case. she is not a child.
short background :
its happened in my society, a husband damned a wife in next days after wedding bcos he thought that the wife did not virgin anymore.
So, he marry her bcos of love or lust?
Comments (29)
I'm just enjoying your interesting blog and the interesting comments. That's all.
You say, there's a book one should read, err to learn or get experience? lol
just joking..
have a fun day..
~DAN~
without mentioning your name here, you are famous already my dear..
Just happy to be here blogging with friends!!
~DAN~
Tell your friend, if your still on the subject with her, that it's her business.
@smartessss for good presentation of a big subject and I suggest to take up with all possible perspectives. It has merit.
It is a search mentioned in a medical authority....forgot the name of the author when I recollect it.
I call someone "Sir..." That bcos of respect, only that I know.
I dont know how to say "good" for "bad" and to say "yes" for "not"
Yes... Same thing happen in my society for the victim of raping.
Only only embarrassing they got, but also like nature punishment they have to bear... I am so sorry for that.