Women's SECRET

Further to GoDaniel's blog about secret, for every woman virginity is women's secret.

To me, virginity is a personal thing... private. To whom she will present her virginity that is her absolute right.

Last week end, my friend visited me. She was my assistant when I worked at other company. She looked not happy. She started talking about her relationship with her office mate. She said he is a Manager in the office. They love each other. She was engaged last 6 months. So, I congrats her while I hug her and I am happy for her.

Last 2 weeks, after 2 years in relationship, the fiance talking about marry. She could not calm down every time hearing this planning. She always try to extend it. she gives many excuses when the fiance ask to meet her parent to discuss further.

She comes to me for advise and she said that she has a secret.
She said she was not virgin anymore since she presented it to her boy friend when she was in the college.

She asked my advise whether she has to tell about this to her fiance?

I just told her that if your fiance love you, virgin or not virgin does not a matter... so I leave to her to decide as according to me she does not need advise what to do in this case. she is not a child.

short background :
its happened in my society, a husband damned a wife in next days after wedding bcos he thought that the wife did not virgin anymore.
So, he marry her bcos of love or lust?

doh doh
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rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing you can go to mini market to buy it if it is selling free...rolling on the floor laughing
Speak for yourself loulou wink innocent
Pure as the driven snow???!!!....hmmm
I'd rather have a woman that knew what she was doing anyway.
Smarty,

I'm just enjoying your interesting blog and the interesting comments. That's all.

You say, there's a book one should read, err to learn or get experience? wow lol

just joking..

have a fun day.. dancing hug
@Smart...... I agree with you totally. By the way thanks for mentioning me in your blog, your gonna make me famous!!
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~DAN~
Robrt... rolling on the floor laughing you may pick any book you want, whether to get knowing or get experiences (?)...
Hello Plathosa... yes in this modern era... there are so many thing much more important in building a relationship, the thing is how to make comfortable when being with....
Hi GD... thank to stop by...
without mentioning your name here, you are famous already my dear..teddybear
@Smart..... I'm just kidding, I'm not concerned about being famous!!
Just happy to be here blogging with friends!!

~DAN~thumbs up
HMMMM!

Tell your friend, if your still on the subject with her, that it's her business.
If the culture of your country requires it then she failed, otherwise she is good to go. She can go to the doctor and stich her up and for a back up she can hide a pegion under the matress and slauter it the "special" night for her husband without know it of'course.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
rolling on the floor laughing easyboy.... then there will be many "special tailor" in many countries. the tailor will ask "how many centimeter do you want to be stitched ?" rolling on the floor laughing
talking about losing face in front of family and neighbor, nowdays even many bride get married when she was pregnant.. that is more embarrassing in my culture.
@lavina applause one must get out of "web of the past"
@smartessss applause for good presentation of a big subject and I suggest to take up with all possible perspectives. It has merit.
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rolling on the floor laughing Redex... if yoga can help a lot on it, I will consider to do it so.. rolling on the floor laughing
smart you have to be very very flexiblerolling on the floor laughing blushing peace
Hi Serendipity wave long time not see dear...
teddybear
If you doubt it??
It is a search mentioned in a medical authority....forgot the name of the author when I recollect it.
conversing
If some "special tailor" is there in your sight. Some friend so desperately needs it. She doesn't mind the cost.
help
rolling on the floor laughing you can ask to easyboy1... not to me...
Where can she find this easyboy1?? doh
Easyboy1 will come soon, Sir... just pls wait..
'Sir' I protest. A promising young man of 57 should not be addressed that way?? Are you sarcastic??
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Iotaoo.... My english is poor, I dont even know how to say sarcastic...
I call someone "Sir..." That bcos of respect, only that I know.
I dont know how to say "good" for "bad" and to say "yes" for "not"
Hello 123B... Life is not fair already for all of us.
Yes... Same thing happen in my society for the victim of raping.
Only only embarrassing they got, but also like nature punishment they have to bear... I am so sorry for that.
Well she should have taken it in the a**. wink
Easyboy1: I had a long discussion with someone about all this from a Gulf Country. It's not a pigeon... but they do keep blood from the butchers. And yes.... it is a common thing in some circles to have the blood inserted before hand, just to make sure. wink
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