"thank you" vs "I am sorry"

I hate when peoples never say "thank you" after we help or do something for them... usually bosses doing that..
what is the difficulty to say thank you?
thank you is a nice words as respect...

it is not as hard as to say "I am sorry"...
generally men are not easy to say "I am sorry" to his partner after fight bcos of ego, and I understand that... I know he was sorry in his heart....

but still I hate both of peoples type... frustrated frustrated
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but the site say's its too early to send another rose ...wave wave
grin Virgo.... what should I say? blushing
take a mirror dear 123... so more easy to look at yourself..
if you dont like, very easy... just break the mirror... peace
Hmmm... I know quite a few of these kind of people and feel like strangling them at times wink
many Mimi in my society...

i only able to hate, but what can we do? nothing....
so, just let them. won't we help them after we know they will not appreciate what we did ?dunno
Smart

I learned to say those words as an adult

"sorry"beer
Yeah, I agree. Sometimes, there's nothing much we can do about it...
learning Bung... need courage to say that when we are in the guilty side.. and so do I..
Smart

that's true, and I wonder why, why so hard for us to say

those 2 magnificent wordsconfused
Well, as I look around I see little children who never are thought to say thank you or I am sorry, so when they grew up, why should they say it. I think we should talk to the parents of such people and ask them if they do not like to be thanked or to hear the words I am sorry? yay teddybear hug
why we have to say "I am sorry"? bcos we made a mistake... and that 3 words are related to prestige..
but butttt smart I like the way I look yay

rolling on the floor laughing
Welela

Education, that's the clue.thumbs up
wave Hai SmartAss; Your boss, doesnt have to say_ Thank You! He pays you. Thats part of your job. Or do he pay you? . . . Oops! Sorry for that! Thanks, for reading my comment!. . . rolling on the floor laughing
HI Welela... you are right, we as parent should teach our kids to say that 2 sentences. I am sure those 2 sentences can change the world...
it likes I love you... this 3 words definitely can change the world.. from war to peace...
123

I like to sniff female buttttlaugh
laugh hi Angel....wave
I am not a boss, just labor... i should say those 2 sentences many times to get good support from other parties...laugh
Bungallow, yes the right words here are education. yay hug
me 2, 55 we have something in common rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
yes I agree with you Bung.. it is one of an education that we have to teach to our children.. thumbs up thumbs up
I never say I'm Sorry. I might Apologize, but I never say I'm Sorry.
Yes, I very much agree with Bung and Welela...educate them...

I taught my children at an early age to say a simple thank you and I'm sorry as well as using the word please...peace
And if they forget to use the word please, I would always ask them, "what is the magic word?" and they would blurt it out, please....

teddybear peace cheers hug
wave "Thank You", for being here.
Courtesy can be taught ... also humility.

Welela makes a good point about parents teaching their children to show appreciation by saying 'thank you'.

It helps when courtesy is part of the culture, which includes the culture of the group or business.

This shows an opportunity for leadership! You don't need to insist on courtesy from others but if you consistently show it, other people will learn from your example and begin to do the same. yay

Even if most don't follow your example, you should always be a good example... as part of your character and 'who you are'.
Thank you for comment Mr. Richard, saying good words is a good habit.
I realise I could not demand other peoples to do same thing with me.
Yes, only with example I could wish they would take a positive side of what I try to show them.
yes Twazz.... nothing to lose to be a polite person. it is even good for us to show who we are....
Hi SM,
Try to look at this from different perspective, why always anticipate gratitude from others in response to your actions?! As to me the most important thing is to enjoy doing good and right.
Generally about bosses, saying 'thank you' wouldn't be the correct words to encourage staff or express appreciation unless you doing something personal for them of course.
hi Asha..wave

when we do something good in job, like reach the goal.. I thought we should get appreciation from the boss on be half of the company.
by saying "well done" or "thank you", it could give us motivation to do better.. somehow getting promotion is much much better grin

even when the office boy bring a cup of coffee to us, saying thank you is not harm
Lol SM, you funny thing, how many coffee boys do you have there? send one to me please, promise to treat him well laugh
Yes, coffee is very much personal, I agree with you here.
rolling on the floor laughing pls dont tell me there is no OB in your office..

how if I export lower education peoples just to be an office boy in your country?
well... the rule only 1 : able to speak english ...

laugh laugh
Hi Smarty
Funny how people differ. I again feel awkward when people thank me for doung something I was paid for. But I dislike it even more when people say sorry when they had done nothing wrong.doh
hug wave
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