When your age is 30, is that meaning you supposed
That happen to me, and what i feel this moment, most of my friends has married already, their ages seems like me "30". Sometimes people asking me whether i've been married or not ? and my answer is not yet. Am i feel shy ?Nope, i'm not shy, coz there something that i've to do, get my future. i trying to be different, is that meaning, a native Indonesian like me usually have a simply life. They're buried their dreams just for something, you know "something" is. They're buried their dreams because a job. "Civil Servant" is the most popular profession in my country. They're proud if they have a civil servant status. I think is very dangerous.
I've ever ask to them once, what do you think about AFTA 2015, Free Trade, Global Trade, Are you ready to face it ? and most of their answer has shocked me. A various answer but in the point was they're not ready.
That's why i choose to not married yet before i get my future dreams, Indeed, that's my reason to expand my English. Prepare now or you got sorrow, remorse, regret. These are your choice.
Ok back to my topic, my question is that right
"When your age is 30, is that meaning you supposed to been married" Agree or disagree ? make your choice.
Comments (7)
I am an adult, in charge of my own life and can do whatever I want to do.
Age and job are not a measurement of when you must get married. Some people ready to get married in early age, some even decide to stay single forever.
Try to ask yourself and be honest... If you confident enough to bond in a commitment then go for it.
My question is : how long is the list of criteria of the woman you want to marry with?
Good luck.
Second, my father told me 'do not get married until your 40s. Have some fun first. Swim in many swimming pools. Live with her for a month or two without marriage. Get to know more than just one or two women. Meet her parents and be aware as her mother looks, this is how she will look one day too. Do you still wish to live with her forever?.'
I followed my father's advice. I did not get married until almost 40. I had a lot of fun along the way before that and swam in many different waters and knew (in every sense) way more than just one or two women. I believe his advice was good advice. When I decided I wanted to marry my wife, yes, I was very sure. This was the one. Head and shoulders above the competition. Until it suddenly ended I never regretted a single day of that marriage and I would do it again with her in a heartbeat.
My only subsidiary advice is when you do find the one, have children with her.
You have plenty of time to get married...or have a family...have fun and the right one will come along eventually...