butterfly131
butterfly131
Oct 2014
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A big mystery

So many people out there, so many men checking my profile every single day and nobody writes me. I guess, I am never gonna understand men at all, what they want, what they seek... I was hoping that if I stay a loving caring kind positive person, I will attract right people to my life. But I guess, it doesn't work at all.
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Calypso50
Calypso50●Zurich, Switzerland
Oct 3, 2014●313 Comments
#1
Much better when you check them out...and you write to those who interest you....head banger
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KNenagh
KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland
Oct 3, 2014●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments
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Read someone's profile, see if you have things in common (and fit the criteria he is looking for) and then send him an email relating to something on his profile text.

Instead of receiving copy/paste emails send out to everyone, you can pick someone you want to communicate with.

Best of luck. wine
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Welela
Welela●Secret City, Buskerud Norway
Oct 3, 2014●2,822 Comments
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I'm sorry, I gave you the wrong name, you are Butterfly131 and not butterfiles123... I am so sorry! But my advice is the same. Thank you.bouquet
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butterfly131
butterfly131OP●Kosice, Slovakia
Oct 3, 2014●6 Blogs●5 Comments
#4
Thank you everybody.:) I just think I am too old school to contact men like first...I still think that the man should make first step...I don't know. Maybe I should change my mind :) anyway very sweet of you all that you wrote me and tried to help me. Take care and have a nice Friday and all weekend.
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iwil55
iwil55●Centennial, Colorado USA
Oct 3, 2014●17 Comments
#5
I look at and read a lot of profiles to see what people are like and how they express themselves.
But I will not write unless they live near enough to me such that there might be a chance of meeting.
Since this is an international site, I don't write much.
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butterfly131
butterfly131OP●Kosice, Slovakia
Oct 3, 2014●6 Blogs●5 Comments
#6
I understand you well. But I still believe, that if we love someone, there is no distance...no matter, how far that other person lives, we can make it, when we really want it.
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PRDreaming
PRDreaming●Silver Spring, Maryland USA
Oct 3, 2014●25 Blogs●225 Comments
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I'm old-fashioned, too, Butterfly. I don't send the first message. Plus, I don't write back to most that send me messages. Most are just too far away. Today, one wrote to me saying he's looking for a woman to love and take care of him and eventually lead to marriage. I replied to him. I wrote that we are not a match, as he is very selfish. It's all about him...smh.
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writetopaint
writetopaint●mumbai, Maharashtra India
Oct 3, 2014●2 Blogs●7 Comments
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I feel you are looking for a person near or closer to you, not far away. Also, may be you don't want to keep in touch, reply to guys who live away from you. To know what men men want or seek anything in particular in you, you should give them time. And for that you must begin to talk to them. Have you written to any men close to where you live?
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butterfly131
butterfly131OP●Kosice, Slovakia
Oct 4, 2014●6 Blogs●5 Comments
#9
Ed, it is lyrics from one song :) but ok, thanks for your opinion.
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pogo07
pogo07●dubliin, Dublin Ireland
Oct 4, 2014●2 Blogs●19 Comments
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Hi I had a nosey at your profile to see what guys are checking out. Can I say 1st, you are a beautiful girl but your profile is a bit too long. No disrespect to guys but they dont wana read an essay. Mine is too long too though its only a few lines; its a bit like an interview, just give a few lines about you and let THEM do the work getting to know you. They dont need to know it all before they contact you, we're ALWAYS hearing about how guys like a bit of mystery, right?? Just saying..........
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Ian158
Ian158●manama, Manama Bahrain
Oct 4, 2014●99 Blogs●1,213 Comments
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Way to long..I got bored after the first two sentences.
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butterfly131
butterfly131OP●Kosice, Slovakia
Oct 5, 2014●6 Blogs●5 Comments
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btw Ian, I am not here to entertain any men, so if you are searching for some fun, I guess, keep searching but serious man who is interested in serious relationship, doesn't get bored after two sentences but he tries to know that woman better, so he keeps reading. Anyway good luck.
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hidayat111
hidayat111●lucknow, Uttar Pradesh India
Oct 5, 2014●2 Comments
#13
U r beautiful
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