idk

No but if you go for 50 or 60 you better not breed else the poor man can forget about going on pension.

We not get to choose who we love. And if you attracted to certain type, then express your will and enjoy your freedom. Just be careful. Some men of older age much wiser than younger girl. Be careful of those who are tricky.

I just curious, do you know why you more comfortable around them? Reason I ask, I hope it not because you "feel" judged in bad light with peers. If that were case, than maybe address fear first and then see how you feel about who you want to date.

Sorry my bad English. Understand?

Oh I read your profile. Now I have disagreement with this comfortable feeling but I think you have found a easy solution. I fear easy way not best way.

Better way would be do the hard work of diet and exercise, then date man more age appropriate. Unless of course you find kind gentle older man who look good to you and have enough money to take care of you. It your choice. But you asked.

I agree with Twazzle ... If you're happy go for it...someone who could be mistaken as your father would put you in an awkward situation most of the times tho...not to say the saggy skins and beer bellies....again, all up to you

Nam, not so many are lucky as you...

You're 38, right?

I wonder if anyone bother to read her profile

She suffer an extreme case of no self esteem. This why she comfortable around the old man.

I agree Bunbun.

She has low self-esteem, and feels that marriage is a means to an end.

And that older men will provide that end.


But until you are happy yourself, nobody else will be able to make you happy.

You're 22. I'd have to ask you what's wrong that you need to go for a man who's old enough to be your father and even your grandfather?

I think you had several profiles on CS before and always starting threads and blogs about the same topic.

If something doesn't work, try something different.

KN