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Lyla,

all you have collect here is exactly to the point and specially as it is the case in the Western World...it is because of the influence of the so to say civilisation and the driving force is the powerful trend of I WANT....all this wants make it really hard to work out a relationship,no matter who are the two involved,because all is like day dreaming and not reality any more.
On the other hand we have the indigenous people as a very good example,when the hole society has been brought up with the trend of what they NEED....Western people don't want to hear about it,but my Son was staying for 5 days with Baduy people in Indonesia,little over one year ago...they have live in a very simple way for over 400 years and their most important rule is, complete TRUTH or you have to leave the tribe....My Son sleep with them on the floor as they do and did everything how they do things and he told me,that the whole time when he was there,he never heard a child crying,never a fight or even an arguing and everybody did their own part in a very close structure of their society....you can not bring in almost anything from the outside World,not anything that has any chemical and all technology is forbidden too.....but these people live a high valued family life and they clearly understand about the meaning of peace,respect and understanding, what looks to be so badly devalued, specially in the Western World where our demands is based on I WANT.
We Western people cry all the time about our relationship problems and blame each other about everything,but still we are not ready to skip I WANT and go with what we NEED....most people don't want even to talk about it.

Rolf