Inguss

Inguss

Feb 2015

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Don't judge me by my past,i don't live there anymo

Hi eweryone!Could somebody tell me,why the women's always look in the past of man,and don't see the real man in real time!You open your heart to somebody,and he ewen can't appreciate this...I think,that's not fear...And if you don't open your heart in right time,right place,they think,you are not serious interested about them...

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RainComeShine●Devon, England UK

Feb 19, 2015●33 Blogs●597 Comments

I think you're right as men seem always to be changing and adjusting whereas most women are more consistent.

Hans4711●Blayney, New South Wales Australia

Feb 19, 2015●32 Blogs●2,066 Comments

@ Inguss -

.. Catfoot's blog down the page a little could be of some help there Mate....

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VivianLee●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Feb 19, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

The child is father of the man. We are who we are, good, bad, whatever.

But sometimes you can prove you have learned from the past. Good judgement comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement.

Good luck

Ed1941●Bullhead City,, Arizona USA

Feb 19, 2015●151 Blogs●4,758 Comments

You have met the wrong women. Look for someone who cares about you and give them lots of love when you and she have found the acceptance of each other.

Take your time and she'll walk right into your life!

twazzle70●THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK

Feb 19, 2015●673 Comments

If its meant to be then its meant to be..If it isnt then its not..Or is it

I believe.

lavina●Paradise, Indonesia

Feb 19, 2015●710 Comments

Past accept as a lesson & be change mean as better person not change as who you are now. Maybe you kust haven't find a woman who can accept wh you are now, keep try & not all woman judge cos man past.

Good luck

lavina●Paradise, Indonesia

Feb 19, 2015●710 Comments

Past accept as a lesson & be change mean as better person not change as who you are now. Maybe you kust haven't find a woman who can accept wh you are now, keep try & not all woman judge cos man past.

Good luck

Catfoot●Around here, Western Cape South Africa

Feb 20, 2015●616 Blogs●16,678 Comments

Hi Ingus
We are creatures of habit and the things we did in the past are likely to be repeated. It is not just women who do that. Look how you are scrutinized when you apply for a job or a loan. They take a good look at how you behaved in the past.

Dreamcatcher99●Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

Feb 20, 2015●60 Blogs●2,344 Comments

I behaved badly in the past Catfoot, very very badly....

loulou77●Vancouver, British Columbia Canada

Feb 20, 2015●71 Blogs●5,968 Comments

inqus
Don't worry too much about it...someone will come along and see the new and improved you!!...put your best foot forward and be patient!!

Ken_19●Winchester, Virginia USA

Feb 20, 2015●284 Blogs●3,903 Comments

The roads travelled in the past are how we got here. The past shows others the things we may be pre-disposed to perhaps do again.

Calleis●Vienna, Austria

Feb 20, 2015●4 Blogs●1,289 Comments

Hi Inguss, we can only see the past of someone if he tells about it. Actually the present actions of a man show us who he is. The actions of a person count more than philosophies about the heart. Things are said within a moment of thoughts, emoticons are chosen in a sec, but no deeper meaning behind such intensions.

KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Feb 20, 2015●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

If you had a lot of bad habits in the past people will not just forget about it.

You can show to continued actions that things improved, but just proclaiming it won't be enough.

Catfoot●Around here, Western Cape South Africa

Feb 20, 2015●616 Blogs●16,678 Comments

Hi DC
That sounds interesting, tell us some more.

ekself●Onehorsetown, Eastern Cape South Africa

Feb 20, 2015●1 Blogs●1,711 Comments

I agree with you as I hate the interrogations some people submit you too in order to find out if you are worthy of their attention. Any person who has some backbone will try to be a better person along the way no matter how bad he started out when he was young. You are what you are now and if that is not good enough they can go find someone else.

Snookums3●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Feb 20, 2015●35 Blogs●1,520 Comments

Ur past makes the person u r today, u cant just write it off as a bad/good experience. It happened !!! It's u !!!

shymom83●tulsa, Oklahoma USA

Feb 22, 2015

I didn't hold my ex's past against him at all, didn't even think about it really. I totally fell for him and it was bliss until I had his baby and he took off. Now I'm face palming because I didn't see it coming... That being said, I wouldn't change what I did, my daughter is amazing and I had a blast with him. But sometimes a past should at least be looked at. I'm sorry you're being judged for it, if they can't get over it its their loss :)

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