Playing The Victim...
to manipulate others.We could be a victim in so many ways. Some were neglected by parents, betrayed by partners, let down by lovers, picked on at school or by friends, ripped off on a business deal, etc, etc.
Healthy people usually learn from those experiences, forgive and move on. Others re-victimize themselves to give themselves some comfort
Control freaks love to play the victim, they try to control the person who hurt them as they owe them something and try to drain sympathy from people around them.
The person who play the victim is often times the real villain by portraying others as the demons and oppressors
Most of us have played the victims and not even aware about it. Whining and complaining about our children, jobs, partners, people around us, things we need to do etc…and having negative outlook in life. We can do something about these situations but we chose to stay and be a victim. People I know are doing this… I’m doing this too.
Real victims are those completely powerless and can’t do anything about it. They deserve sympathy…I’m not one of them.
Those who love to play the victim we should be wary of. They are manipulative and will do anything to be in control. It‘s tricky to recognize them … can leave you dumbfounded or worse.
Are you a "victim" too?
Comments (92)
I believe that too...it would have been a nice topic to discuss but somehow this blog got hijacked
have a lovely night there...
I'm tired, exhausted, drained but I would love to go with you...that would make me very happy...I'll be off work in a couple of hours...so be ready
CH you make me want to put down my books and sing.
Who knows what new goodies they may have at the Walmart today..
Wow this blog continues...but on a more positive note...what is the point of flash mobs?...lol...
I'd like to think so...I've been through hell and back...what happened here is just a silly stupid destruction, not worth a sleepless night really
I can't upload youtube at the moment...
but what's so good about walmart anyway? People talk a lot about it
I'd rather go to some pub and have a drink or two
It was meant to be a fun blog...sadly it turned out disastrous...not too late for some fun tho
Your words fill us with Joy the daughter of Freedom (sometimes called Elysium) Oh look friend whatever is that little girl and the man doing?
Wow movement along we come to the Walmart. Let's follow these kids. Hmm, do the Walmarts there have supermarkets too? What's that noise?
nice videos...thanks!
I like Walmart...lol...I like shopping period...but a few drinks at a pub is good too!!...rather slow on the blogs...but the videos are entertaining...