Soon there will be

a kind of peace upon my home, The holiday is nearly over and as a new year rolls in my children must return to school. To their nest and to the warmth of their living lives. I must admit this waking dream has been a good one. We had fun.

Tonight I will return to the zombie sleep of being an unemployed childless Father. But I will keep my sleep light and hold lucid the thoughts that my twilight state is just the imaginings of a man who misses his children.

To all Single Parent's who understand the torment of The "Holiday season"

Thank God CS is here to stop us getting lost in the cracks of our fractured lives and losing our sanity,
I guess we're doing it for the Kids wink wine

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I'm sorry you miss your kids god bless you sir and may they be with you again soonhandshake
Ah shucks Smoker, you wanna hug hug

That being said hugs of comfort can't fill that certain void in your life but ya know....
because we miss our kids it goes some way in us appriciating them all the more..more holidays and breaks will come, then its fun and happy times again applause

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My kids started school today. Yippeeeeeee! yay yay yay

Not that I don't love them but after a month and a half of holidaying together, I think I need another holiday to recuperate! help I took time off from work just to be with them. I will start work tomorrow and guess there would be lots of adjustments to be made after such a long absence sigh


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Well its good you were able to spend time with them. They will be back soon.
I cant wait to have my little devil back.
Aww non...

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well I had twelve here last few days kids and partners and they great fun and all had a ball with them all went yesterday so till next year I wont see together . the way it should be .now to clean after them that's another thing 15 big towels now washed and dry .the amount of work you must do is terrible .thank god there gone .miss them as well but just get up and get on with it happy new year to you
Non, hug comfort Time will fly and they will be back with you soon again. teddybear
non
I always had fun at Xmas with my family but lately I have been working every holiday...moping

I do like the money but sometimes I feel like an orphan...lol...laugh

Hope you are feeling better...wine hug
hug hug hug so sorry non my lads father never bothered them just disapeared until they were grown men. Good very good to see a dad being a dadthumbs up thumbs up My sons are fine now but oh it would have been such a happeir childhood for them if their father had stayed in their life. Hold your head up high and feel their warmth and love.peace
wow John lucky man I would rather have had all those towels to wash than ONEgrin Happy New Year-----not a rebuke just saying it can be lonely with just one towelgrin
Hello my darling pal, please stay lucid on those dreams that when they are once again in your hands, it is enough to sustain both your sanity and strength as we go through life knowing so that these things do matter.

Take care my friend.teddybear teddybear bouquet bouquet cheers cheers
Non, it is sad that you miss your kids.
But it is also good. You enjoy every precious moment with them when they are there.
Many fathers who live with their kids don't enjoy the same quality time with them as you do.
And your kids will remember that forever.

So hold your head up, and look forward to the next time you will have themhug
Non, I understand what your feeling, been there. My guess is you and your ex live a good distance apart..maybe not. Well, this is what I did, keep in mind my son was with his mom 55% and me 45% and he lived one mile away.

But, on top that, I petitioned the court and received more time (didn't need an attorney) they had a very helpful law library. Then within two years or so he was playing sports. I ended up being his coach in two sports and ended up spending more time with him then most married men......

If they do live far away, and since your unemployed maybe you moving closer to them and getting a job close to them is a possibility. Taking a move is better than doing nothing and you will adjust and you will be with your children and have a more 1:1 relationship.

I always say, if you want something bad enough you will find a way to get it....good luck to you
Although my blog does somehow seem to have been taken as an homage to depression, I am fine. I just wanted to put something honest and heartfelt on the blogs. It was also to point out the fact that the holidays are for the kids and us adults well me for a start would not be bothered, were it not for those little lords and ladies laugh sad flower

To all who commented on my blog,
Thank you for the concern, it is so nice to know that there are genuine people who really care about each other on the blogs. thumbs up
This realisation more than anything else has made the new year for me.

Thank you All so mush for joining in my blog.

Big shout out to DC laugh
Loved your comment wine I think you got the tiny bit of humour I tried and failed put in the blog. The song was the clue dunno

Cant win em all.

Thanks all bouquet cheers
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