Falling in Love

I have to agree that age should not be a barrier when falling in love. An open mind and heart can bring many new things to the table. People impose too much upon age. With my epxerience it has been younger guys who want to experience an older woman like being with them should be such a previlege in itself. None have been interested in who I am, just what they can gain from me.

I agree that age is just a number and if and when love comes to you then you should grasp it and handle it with care. Enjoy it while you and that special person are together. Life is short, often you may only find love once in your lifetime. I don't feel you should pass it up based upon age. You may look back years later and regret it. If two people are happy, enjoy each others company, get along and are madly in love, who cares about a number! Good topic. I enjoyed. Thanks. Peace!

Folks cant help who they have feelings for and age is just a number..

I agree to a point. Maturity plays a major role with two people in love. For example, if the older person has children, the younger person must be mature enough to understand the importance of children and that time with them is a requirement for a responsible and loving parent. Sometimes young people will say anything when in love, but once they step into the role required, reality sets in. If not mature enough, jealousy and selfishness sets in and it destroys the relationship like a worm inside an apple, it's destroyed from the inside out.

Another example is active and outgoing youthful person with someone that has no desire to go out bar or club hopping. The older person has already been there and done that..and may not desire to repeat it again. This may bore the younger person and create conflict and eventually a split up.

I have seen both happen.

But, in any case, with real and true love(which Conquers All) any thing is possible.

Good Luck and Good Bless!!

Age shouldnt matter but in some cases it does..

Examples: an 18 year old with a 35 year old isnt ideal. Why? because that 18 yo is still young and nieve. They havent lived enough of there life to know what they want long term. And it's also a form of mind control on the older persons part. And Security on the young persons part. And when i see someone older with a way to young person, i ask myself what's wrong with them. Can they not handle an adult there age? And i think they're paying/buying them and there affection. ANd when i see a young person with an older person i think that they are looking for a parental figure. SOmeone to take care of them. None of that breeds a healthy relationship.

But if they are 30 and 45/50 i dont think anything of it. Because at 30, you've lived and should be beyond your 'wild' days and are old enough to settle down and make well thought out decisions.

To me, it all depends on the age when one of the parties are just old enough to buy cigarettes lol

I totally agree