Why do have to shout at each other?.....
Isn't it strange? why shout??....Asked yourself this!..Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset? "But why shout when the other person is just next to you? "Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do we shout at a person when we are angry?..The explanation is this: "When two people are angry at each other their hearts...psychologically distance them selves to cover the distance, they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will shout to each other through that great distance."Now asked yourself this? What happens when two people fall in love? they don't shout at each other, but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are psychologically very close.The distance between them is very small, and to continued, when they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they even get closer to each other and that's all...So next time you shout to a loved one, know that you are creating distance between your heart and that person's heart,a gentle answer turns away wrath, but harsh words stirs up anger. This is very TRUE. Let's start to practice not to shout, and to remember besides shouting drains you so much when you start shouting at each other...I sincerely believe that people should really start to practice this, to create a better society with discipline in all nations..
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When I first came to Spain I had a friend who, whenever I didn't understand what he was saying (he had a very strong local dialect!), instead of clarifying what he said, he used to repeat exactly the same word, but louder!
I used to tell him "I´m not deaf!). Then he laughed!
Anyway, nice blog!
He said if the dog won't come to you when you call it in a nice voice, what makes you think it'll want to come to you if you shout in an angry voice.
Not only that they hear me, but they do as it has been said.
an argument can clear the air, i cant imagine an argument whispering All depends what we have in our hearts and a smile for everyone