Why do have to shout at each other?.....

Isn't it strange? why shout??....Asked yourself this!..Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset? "But why shout when the other person is just next to you? "Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do we shout at a person when we are angry?..The explanation is this: "When two people are angry at each other their hearts...psychologically distance them selves to cover the distance, they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will shout to each other through that great distance."Now asked yourself this? What happens when two people fall in love? they don't shout at each other, but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are psychologically very close.The distance between them is very small, and to continued, when they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they even get closer to each other and that's all...So next time you shout to a loved one, know that you are creating distance between your heart and that person's heart,a gentle answer turns away wrath, but harsh words stirs up anger. This is very TRUE. Let's start to practice not to shout, and to remember besides shouting drains you so much when you start shouting at each other...I sincerely believe that people should really start to practice this, to create a better society with discipline in all nations.. handshake
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i think people shout because due to the lack of response or understanding of the other person, the shouter becomes frustrated and possibly thinks the other person is deaf or tuning them out. just my opinion.
the shouting sometimes escalates to slamming or throwing something.
I tend to agree with Free. When you think that people haven´t heard, or understood, you tend to shout and even louder to get your message across.

When I first came to Spain I had a friend who, whenever I didn't understand what he was saying (he had a very strong local dialect!), instead of clarifying what he said, he used to repeat exactly the same word, but louder!
I used to tell him "I´m not deaf!). Then he laughed!

Anyway, nice blog! wave
I see you have no kids.
The dog behaviouralist said something similar.

He said if the dog won't come to you when you call it in a nice voice, what makes you think it'll want to come to you if you shout in an angry voice.
I'M Not SHOUTING.
Why do we scream at each other...when doves cry...

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Molly has no kids either.
Not only that they hear me, but they do as it has been said.
I agree, and most of my disgust is against many TV personalities in particular news and weather reporters. Why can't they talk to us rather than yell. I might add to my list, TRENDY VOICVED FEMALES on TV, you know, whining,nasal, quacking,mouth full of mush and garbled speed reading. studecar professor
doh oh budy we have vocal cords and yes all ranges too. sometimes it is good to shout===with joy===in sorrow===and yes in anger too.

an argument can clear the air, i cant imagine an argument whisperingroll eyes All depends what we have in our hearts and a smile for everyone grin
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