Here is one for you all. Do looks matter? ( Archived) (174)

Mar 11, 2009 11:38 AM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007: But you're not seriously suggesting that personality somehow forges one's looks to match it? Like, I have a dogged personality so I resemble a Saint Bernard or pitt bull?


The most I can see personality doing is shaping the features one was born with. Are you making a stronger claim than that, L?confused hug
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Mar 11, 2009 11:41 AM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
mylifewithu: Yes we are, both men and women are. So we all go by the pictures first as too whom we are attracted too, and avoid the ones that look like a nutcase or someone we aren't attracted to at all.



Exactly...There has to be some way of initial attraction because you don't necessarily know what their personality is like right off the bat...that makes you want to at least get to know them a little better...but it certainly is the personality that will keep me attracted or not...now these are just my attractions...they might not be attractive to someone else....wave wink hug kiss hug
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Mar 11, 2009 11:41 AM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
mylifewithu: Yes we are, both men and women are. So we all go by the pictures first as too whom we are attracted too, and avoid the ones that look like a nutcase or someone we aren't attracted to at all.



Exactly...There has to be some way of initial attraction because you don't necessarily know what their personality is like right off the bat...that makes you want to at least get to know them a little better...but it certainly is the personality that will keep me attracted or not...now these are just my attractions...they might not be attractive to someone else....wave wink hug kiss hug
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Mar 11, 2009 11:42 AM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Oppsssssssss....hiccup....roll eyes
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Mar 11, 2009 11:43 AM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Exactly...There has to be some way of initial attraction because you don't necessarily know what their personality is like right off the bat...that makes you want to at least get to know them a little better...but it certainly is the personality that will keep me attracted or not...now these are just my attractions...they might not be attractive to someone else....


which is too, why I wrote about pics vs webcam. You will see way more of my blemishes and flaws on the cam, but you will also hear and see the very playful and attractive side of me...
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Mar 11, 2009 11:44 AM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA39 Threads 1 Polls 836 Posts
Looks don't matter until you are hairless with a big bandage around your head and you sound like a slappy drunk.
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Mar 11, 2009 11:46 AM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I've been going for a lady with intelligence, personality and charm, but I have made a decisioin to just go after somebody who is smoking hot. If I find her she should be okay for a few months..... rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 11, 2009 11:46 AM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Tumpa: which is too, why I wrote about pics vs webcam. You will see way more of my blemishes and flaws on the cam, but you will also hear and see the very playful and attractive side of me...



Yes and attraction is not just looks either...someone can become attractive...simply by those things.....the more you get to know them...I'm just talking about attraction as far as at least taking notice of someone....wave wink kiss hug heart beating
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Mar 11, 2009 11:49 AM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yes and attraction is not just looks either...someone can become attractive...simply by those things.....the more you get to know them...I'm just talking about attraction as far as at least taking notice of someone....


It makes me smile when you use the emoticons you doconversing applause
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Mar 11, 2009 11:55 AM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Tumpa: It makes me smile when you use the emoticons you do



Just tryin to spread the love....wave wink grin
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Mar 11, 2009 12:00 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Exactly...There has to be some way of initial attraction because you don't necessarily know what their personality is like right off the bat...that makes you want to at least get to know them a little better...but it certainly is the personality that will keep me attracted or not...now these are just my attractions...they might not be attractive to someone else....
Exactly the things I find in someone isn't going to always be the same as what someone else is attracted to, for me it might be there eyes and smile. For another it might be anything else. But yes to want to date them and keep them there Has to be a personality that works well with mine. And other things about his character that shows he is a good man and the kind I am looking for.professor

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Mar 11, 2009 1:14 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Turnonmyrain: So then your Magazine Cover pic is a railling against the establishment then???

On to you me Ladiee



No. It is not. Done for me, not by me. Good point though, I had forgotten about that.

To you Sir.
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Mar 11, 2009 1:16 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
I think the important thing is to have a bushy tail! professor


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Mar 11, 2009 1:18 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
DazzleYou: Looks don't matter until you are hairless with a big bandage around your head and you sound like a slappy drunk.
Luckily Doc your hair will grow back and you won't look drunk later on.comfort wine hug
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