Ambrose2007: But you're not seriously suggesting that personality somehow forges one's looks to match it? Like, I have a dogged personality so I resemble a Saint Bernard or pitt bull?
The most I can see personality doing is shaping the features one was born with. Are you making a stronger claim than that, L?
mylifewithu: Yes we are, both men and women are. So we all go by the pictures first as too whom we are attracted too, and avoid the ones that look like a nutcase or someone we aren't attracted to at all.
Exactly...There has to be some way of initial attraction because you don't necessarily know what their personality is like right off the bat...that makes you want to at least get to know them a little better...but it certainly is the personality that will keep me attracted or not...now these are just my attractions...they might not be attractive to someone else....
mylifewithu: Yes we are, both men and women are. So we all go by the pictures first as too whom we are attracted too, and avoid the ones that look like a nutcase or someone we aren't attracted to at all.
Exactly...There has to be some way of initial attraction because you don't necessarily know what their personality is like right off the bat...that makes you want to at least get to know them a little better...but it certainly is the personality that will keep me attracted or not...now these are just my attractions...they might not be attractive to someone else....
Hugz_n_Kissez: Exactly...There has to be some way of initial attraction because you don't necessarily know what their personality is like right off the bat...that makes you want to at least get to know them a little better...but it certainly is the personality that will keep me attracted or not...now these are just my attractions...they might not be attractive to someone else....
which is too, why I wrote about pics vs webcam. You will see way more of my blemishes and flaws on the cam, but you will also hear and see the very playful and attractive side of me...
I've been going for a lady with intelligence, personality and charm, but I have made a decisioin to just go after somebody who is smoking hot. If I find her she should be okay for a few months.....
Tumpa: which is too, why I wrote about pics vs webcam. You will see way more of my blemishes and flaws on the cam, but you will also hear and see the very playful and attractive side of me...
Yes and attraction is not just looks either...someone can become attractive...simply by those things.....the more you get to know them...I'm just talking about attraction as far as at least taking notice of someone....
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yes and attraction is not just looks either...someone can become attractive...simply by those things.....the more you get to know them...I'm just talking about attraction as far as at least taking notice of someone....
It makes me smile when you use the emoticons you do
Hugz_n_Kissez: Exactly...There has to be some way of initial attraction because you don't necessarily know what their personality is like right off the bat...that makes you want to at least get to know them a little better...but it certainly is the personality that will keep me attracted or not...now these are just my attractions...they might not be attractive to someone else....
Exactly the things I find in someone isn't going to always be the same as what someone else is attracted to, for me it might be there eyes and smile. For another it might be anything else. But yes to want to date them and keep them there Has to be a personality that works well with mine. And other things about his character that shows he is a good man and the kind I am looking for.
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The most I can see personality doing is shaping the features one was born with. Are you making a stronger claim than that, L?