I am going to say yes. But I'm not that shallow, as to say I just go for looks. What I find attractive in a man, may not be any other person's cup of tea.
Is it not about we as individuals find attractive?
So, folks, what do you think? I know we have done this before.
Sommerauer71: I am going to say yes. But I'm not that shallow, as to say I just go for looks. What I find attractive in a man, may not be any other person's cup of tea.
Is it not about we as individuals find attractive?
So, folks, what do you think? I know we have done this before.
I think looks are part of the equation...certainly there are other factors that come into play; personality, values, etc.
Yes looks do matter, It's the first thing that attracts you to someone, But without the personality being there looks won't hold your attention very long.
Sommerauer71: I am going to say yes. But I'm not that shallow, as to say I just go for looks. What I find attractive in a man, may not be any other person's cup of tea.
Is it not about we as individuals find attractive?
So, folks, what do you think? I know we have done this before.
For me it's what I see attractive in him, It may only be his eyes or smile on the outside. But the inside will reflect on his outside to a degree like how confident he looks.
In response to: I am going to say yes. But I'm not that shallow, as to say I just go for looks. What I find attractive in a man, may not be any other person's cup of tea.
Is it not about we as individuals find attractive?
So, folks, what do you think? I know we have done this before.
To me attractiveness in a man is what he is on the inside and not the outside appearance.
When I was younger, looks mattered! I have been with many pretty boys and I have learned over time that (generally speaking) pretty boys are much more shallow and more likely to wonder. Now days, a good-hearted, down-to-earth guy that can carry on an intelligent conversation is the way to go!!
Looks aren't as important to me as the inner person. I've already discovered once that if I love the inner person, I will love the outside as well. I fall in love with a soul, not a body, first.
looks matter to an extent you do have to be able to look at the person and if you are gonna have a relationship with someone you have to be somewhat attracted to them right???
lookin4ubabe: When I was younger, looks mattered! I have been with many pretty boys and I have learned over time that (generally speaking) pretty boys are much more shallow and more likely to wonder. Now days, a good-hearted, down-to-earth guy that can carry on an intelligent conversation is the way to go!!
So if Quasimodo is an intelligent, warm man....you would have an intimate relationship with him???
Why people say that handsome people have no personality.
I know some ridiculously handsome people, male and female, who have bags of personality...
Isn't beauty something that we all see? Everyday? If I see a handsome man, I want to run and grab him on the sleeve and tell him, you are handsome. Does not mean I am flirting or wanting anything, it means that I am appreciating beauty.
Why are some people of the mind that beautiful people have no personality, or are shallow?
Is there not something about all people? No person is ugly, only behaviour is ugly.
pretzelman: that looks good in the text books....but you have to see something good to want to know about the inside!!The inside may win out...but something attracted you in the beginning
I have to agree here, there has to be something that attracts a person visually.
Looks do matter when it comes to physical attractiveness. Personality comes second. But if the personality ain't there, then it kinda cancels out the physical attractiveness. Sometimes.
pretzelman: that looks good in the text books....but you have to see something good to want to know about the inside!!The inside may win out...but something attracted you in the beginning
True but... Looks aren't everything.And there's also different ways to be attractive isn't there or am I wrong?
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Is it not about we as individuals find attractive?
So, folks, what do you think? I know we have done this before.