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Mar 9, 2009 9:19 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
I am going to say yes. But I'm not that shallow, as to say I just go for looks. What I find attractive in a man, may not be any other person's cup of tea.

Is it not about we as individuals find attractive?

So, folks, what do you think? I know we have done this before.
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Mar 9, 2009 9:21 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
Yes.
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Mar 9, 2009 9:21 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
dazzling_dave: Yes.


Well, Dave, I like your detailed response. wink
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Mar 9, 2009 9:22 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Sommerauer71: I am going to say yes. But I'm not that shallow, as to say I just go for looks. What I find attractive in a man, may not be any other person's cup of tea.

Is it not about we as individuals find attractive?

So, folks, what do you think? I know we have done this before.


I think looks are part of the equation...certainly there are other factors that come into play; personality, values, etc.
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Mar 9, 2009 9:23 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Sommerauer71: Well, Dave, I like your detailed response.


Dave's a man of many words...
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Mar 9, 2009 9:24 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
gypsykisses
gypsykissesgypsykissesPort Huron, Michigan USA7 Threads 1 Polls 2,405 Posts
wine yes, looks do matter. Without the initial physical attraction, I don't know how it would go further.teddybear gift
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Mar 9, 2009 9:24 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Yes looks do matter, It's the first thing that attracts you to someone, But without the personality being there looks won't hold your attention very long.
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Mar 9, 2009 9:24 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Sommerauer71: I am going to say yes. But I'm not that shallow, as to say I just go for looks. What I find attractive in a man, may not be any other person's cup of tea.

Is it not about we as individuals find attractive?

So, folks, what do you think? I know we have done this before.
For me it's what I see attractive in him, It may only be his eyes or smile on the outside. But the inside will reflect on his outside to a degree like how confident he looks.professor wink
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Mar 9, 2009 9:24 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
In response to: I am going to say yes. But I'm not that shallow, as to say I just go for looks. What I find attractive in a man, may not be any other person's cup of tea.

Is it not about we as individuals find attractive?

So, folks, what do you think? I know we have done this before.



To me attractiveness in a man is what he is on the inside and not the outside appearance.
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Mar 9, 2009 9:25 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
nurcnurc
nurcnurcnurcnurcLongwood, Florida USA6 Threads 1,192 Posts
What one looks like matters only to the person looking, and if someone looks good to me, he may not look good to you. And vice/versa.
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Mar 9, 2009 9:25 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
lookin4ubabe
lookin4ubabelookin4ubabeTacoma, Washington USA5 Threads 1,135 Posts
When I was younger, looks mattered! I have been with many pretty boys and I have learned over time that (generally speaking) pretty boys are much more shallow and more likely to wonder. Now days, a good-hearted, down-to-earth guy that can carry on an intelligent conversation is the way to go!!
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Mar 9, 2009 9:25 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Looks aren't as important to me as the inner person. I've already discovered once that if I love the inner person, I will love the outside as well. I fall in love with a soul, not a body, first.
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Mar 9, 2009 9:25 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
daddyslilangel
daddyslilangeldaddyslilangelgreensboro, Maryland USA2 Threads 238 Posts
looks matter to an extent you do have to be able to look at the person and if you are gonna have a relationship with someone you have to be somewhat attracted to them right???
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Mar 9, 2009 9:27 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
somechick: To me attractiveness in a man is what he is on the inside and not the outside appearance.



that looks good in the text books....but you have to see something good to want to know about the inside!!


The inside may win out...but something attracted you in the beginningdoh
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Mar 9, 2009 9:29 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
lookin4ubabe: When I was younger, looks mattered! I have been with many pretty boys and I have learned over time that (generally speaking) pretty boys are much more shallow and more likely to wonder. Now days, a good-hearted, down-to-earth guy that can carry on an intelligent conversation is the way to go!!




So if Quasimodo is an intelligent, warm man....you would have an intimate relationship with him???
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Mar 9, 2009 9:29 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
yes, looks matter to a certain degree...as long as we are being honest.
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Mar 9, 2009 9:30 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
I do often ponder this.

Why people say that handsome people have no personality.

I know some ridiculously handsome people, male and female, who have bags of personality...

Isn't beauty something that we all see? Everyday? If I see a handsome man, I want to run and grab him on the sleeve and tell him, you are handsome. Does not mean I am flirting or wanting anything, it means that I am appreciating beauty.

Why are some people of the mind that beautiful people have no personality, or are shallow?

Is there not something about all people? No person is ugly, only behaviour is ugly.
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Mar 9, 2009 9:31 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
pretzelman: that looks good in the text books....but you have to see something good to want to know about the inside!!The inside may win out...but something attracted you in the beginning


I have to agree here, there has to be something that attracts a person visually.
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Mar 9, 2009 9:31 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
HotRodLincoln
HotRodLincolnHotRodLincolnRoy, Washington USA72 Posts
Looks do matter when it comes to physical attractiveness. Personality comes second. But if the personality ain't there, then it kinda cancels out the physical attractiveness. Sometimes. professor
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Mar 9, 2009 9:32 PM CST Here is one for you all. Do looks matter?
pretzelman: that looks good in the text books....but you have to see something good to want to know about the inside!!The inside may win out...but something attracted you in the beginning


True but... Looks aren't everything.And there's also different ways to be attractive isn't there or am I wrong?wave
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