Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move? ( Archived) (66)

Mar 14, 2009 11:50 AM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
NeWildflower
NeWildflowerNeWildflowerScottsbluff, Nebraska USA15 Threads 2 Polls 754 Posts
I know there are some of us who aren't interested in pursuing relationships that would be considered long distance, but many of us are. Maybe it's been discussed to death on these forums, but since I'm a new kid, I'd love to hear others' opinions on this issue.

If you are open to long distance relationships, are you willing to move to be with the right person?

Do you think it's fair to be open to LDRs but NOT be willing to move for whatever reason?

What are your thoughts? wave
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Mar 14, 2009 11:53 AM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
mrali
mralimralikarachi, Sindh Pakistan16 Threads 763 Posts
NeWildflower: I know there are some of us who aren't interested in pursuing relationships that would be considered long distance, but many of us are. Maybe it's been discussed to death on these forums, but since I'm a new kid, I'd love to hear others' opinions on this issue.

If you are open to long distance relationships, are you willing to move to be with the right person?

Do you think it's fair to be open to LDRs but NOT be willing to move for whatever reason?

What are your thoughts?


if any body is able to move than he/she shoud trydunno
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Mar 14, 2009 11:55 AM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I hope to find someone anywhere; however, I am not willing to move. In my profile I state that I am looking for someone who is willing to move to the Mississippi Gulf Coast.
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Mar 14, 2009 11:56 AM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
mrali
mralimralikarachi, Sindh Pakistan16 Threads 763 Posts
Big_John: I hope to find someone anywhere; however, I am not willing to move. In my profile I state that I am looking for someone who is willing to move to the Mississippi Gulf Coast.

Thats Good to mention in profile
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Mar 14, 2009 11:57 AM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
NeWildflower: I know there are some of us who aren't interested in pursuing relationships that would be considered long distance, but many of us are. Maybe it's been discussed to death on these forums, but since I'm a new kid, I'd love to hear others' opinions on this issue.

If you are open to long distance relationships, are you willing to move to be with the right person?

Do you think it's fair to be open to LDRs but NOT be willing to move for whatever reason?

What are your thoughts?


Hi, NeWildflower!wave

Yes, Im open to them..

I didnt used to be, before I joined this site, but I am now changing my mind..

Its a cliche, yes, but life is short and you have to take your chances for happiness and love when you can.

It depends on the committments one has, I guess..confused

I personally dont have anything tying me down, so yes, definately I would move for the right person..thumbs up
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Mar 14, 2009 11:58 AM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
I would be open to it..Provided I was sure of our love for one another...we had spent a lot of time together...and that I could secure a decent job....It's not something I would do on the spur of the moment that's for sure...It would take an awful lot of getting to know each other first in RL that is....wave wink hug kiss hug heart beating
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Mar 14, 2009 12:01 PM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
I have done it and i'm really happy yay BUT do think it takes alot of thought, hardest thing is leaving the children although they are growen up, still hard blues
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Mar 14, 2009 12:02 PM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
petalbabe: Hi, NeWildflower!

Yes, Im open to them..

I didnt used to be, before I joined this site, but I am now changing my mind..

Its a cliche, yes, but life is short and you have to take your chances for happiness and love when you can.

It depends on the committments one has, I guess..

I personally dont have anything tying me down, so yes, definately I would move for the right person..


I totally agree. thumbs up
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Mar 14, 2009 12:07 PM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
I think one would have to be open to move at some point.A long time in e-mails IMO is not really good, as if you meet in RL and you just don't click then there ya go. So it is fun to flirt and get to know each other but you must meet in a reasonable amount of time or what is the sense. You could be wasting each others valuable time, we are not getting any younger. Also the closer one is to the other I would think is better. So for me ,I am someone of limited funds ,outside of the states would be out of the running, some in the states may even be out of the running. Of course I live very close to Canada so that is of course doable.JMHOgrin
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Mar 14, 2009 12:11 PM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"I met someone who lives 600 miles away from me.
To me,it's not considered a LDR.However,let me say
that it has indeed been very hard not to be able to
be together on a more full time basis.We're now in
the plans of moving me and my family to where he lives."

applause
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Mar 14, 2009 12:14 PM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Polarbutterfly: "I met someone who lives 600 miles away from me.
To me,it's not considered a LDR.However,let me say
that it has indeed been very hard not to be able to
be together on a more full time basis.We're now in
the plans of moving me and my family to where he lives."



cheering cheering cheering You GOOOOOOOOO girlie....hug kiss hug heart beating yay
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Mar 14, 2009 12:16 PM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
Shedman01
Shedman01Shedman01Gonzales, Texas USA16 Threads 2 Polls 1,029 Posts
NeWildflower: .......
1) If you are open to long distance relationships, are you willing to move to be with the right person?

2) Do you think it's fair to be open to LDRs but NOT be willing to move for whatever reason?


1) Without a doubt I am willing to move to almost anywhere on the planet if I find someone special there. Currently war torn countries I would still consider but would be more likely to hope the other person would be willing to move somewhere else, perhaps meet in the middle somewhere. smile

2) I think it is very fair as long as it is not kept secret until the last minute or is something that has been misled or lied about. Meaning someone says they would but then when the time comes says they can't for whatever reason etc... That is not fair, but hoping love will move to a place your very happy in is perfectly fine in my opinion.
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Mar 14, 2009 12:17 PM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
Polarbutterfly: "I met someone who lives 600 miles away from me.
To me,it's not considered a LDR.However,let me say
that it has indeed been very hard not to be able to
be together on a more full time basis.We're now in
the plans of moving me and my family to where he lives."


Im so pleased for you, Polar..thumbs up

Yes, I think it can be hard not being close to each other, but when you meet up and are together, well, devil devil wink

You Go, Girl..yay
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Mar 14, 2009 12:18 PM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: You GOOOOOOOOO girlie....


"Thank you.Life is just too short not to live it.
Furthermore,finding love with someone who lives
close to you is the icing on the cake!!!



applause
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Mar 14, 2009 12:19 PM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Polarbutterfly: "Thank you.Life is just too short not to live it.
Furthermore,finding love with someone who lives
close to you is the icing on the cake!!!



Soooooooo true doll....Finding love period these days is hard enough.....wink wave hug kiss hug heart beating
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Mar 14, 2009 12:19 PM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
petalbabe: Im so pleased for you, Polar..

Yes, I think it can be hard not being close to each other, but when you meet up and are together, well,

You Go, Girl..


"Thank you too PB;This PB is happy....".


hug
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Mar 14, 2009 12:21 PM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
poetengineer
poetengineerpoetengineerriyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia39 Threads 173 Posts
real love exceeds the boundries , real love make miracles come true , real love have no limits , but we should faith in it before we said we have real love
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Mar 14, 2009 12:52 PM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
NeWildflower
NeWildflowerNeWildflowerScottsbluff, Nebraska USA15 Threads 2 Polls 754 Posts
Polarbutterfly: "I met someone who lives 600 miles away from me.
To me,it's not considered a LDR.However,let me say
that it has indeed been very hard not to be able to
be together on a more full time basis.We're now in
the plans of moving me and my family to where he lives."


How wonderful! heart wings
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Mar 14, 2009 12:58 PM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
Sylwia
SylwiaSylwiaWroclaw, Lower Silesia Poland1 Threads 12 Posts
and best wishes :)
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Mar 14, 2009 1:00 PM CST Long Distance Relationships.. Are YOU willing to move?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
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