Ghosts from the past ( Archived) (19)

Mar 28, 2009 7:39 PM CST Ghosts from the past
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
I joined Friends Reunited a few years ago and have been in brief contact with old school friends.

I very rarely log into the site now, but today I did and there is a message from somebody who I think was my first serious boyfriend!

We´re talking over 30 years ago, I was only 15 but very mature for my age, and I´m not sure if I want to contact him, there is no photo or enough info on his profile.

What do you think about this site, and in particular, old boyfriends/girlfriends getting in contact?
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Mar 28, 2009 7:40 PM CST Ghosts from the past
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
I dont know about the site but cmon mate its a sign mail himcheering applause
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Mar 28, 2009 7:41 PM CST Ghosts from the past
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
.......Hmmmmm....sometimes its best to 'Let the past be the past'..

J.Dhandshake
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Mar 28, 2009 7:42 PM CST Ghosts from the past
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Mercedes1: I dont know about the site but cmon mate its a sign mail him


rolling on the floor laughing You do make me laugh Mercedes. hug
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Mar 28, 2009 7:43 PM CST Ghosts from the past
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
Jan1305: I joined Friends Reunited a few years ago and have been in brief contact with old school friends.

I very rarely log into the site now, but today I did and there is a message from somebody who I think was my first serious boyfriend!

We´re talking over 30 years ago, I was only 15 but very mature for my age, and I´m not sure if I want to contact him, there is no photo or enough info on his profile.

What do you think about this site, and in particular, old boyfriends/girlfriends getting in contact?


The site you are talking about is great Jan....I have had friends contact me through it...

Just leave a simple message and they will forward it...

I did not think they posted pics, I might be wrong....

I found my dad through Genes Reunited....
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Mar 28, 2009 7:44 PM CST Ghosts from the past
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Jan1305: You do make me laugh Mercedes.


I was seriousblushing

You have nothing to lose and just pretend when you mail him that your on CS or better still get him to come here and we can suss him out for yougrin
hug
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Mar 28, 2009 7:48 PM CST Ghosts from the past
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
Jan1305: I joined Friends Reunited a few years ago and have been in brief contact with old school friends.

I very rarely log into the site now, but today I did and there is a message from somebody who I think was my first serious boyfriend!

We´re talking over 30 years ago, I was only 15 but very mature for my age, and I´m not sure if I want to contact him, there is no photo or enough info on his profile.

What do you think about this site, and in particular, old boyfriends/girlfriends getting in contact?


Exciting... but emotionally draining in most cases.

Whatever you decide -

the best of luck to you.
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Mar 28, 2009 7:59 PM CST Ghosts from the past
clara1956
clara1956clara1956Punta Arenas, Magallanes Region Chile37 Threads 1 Polls 1,426 Posts
Jan1305: I joined Friends Reunited a few years ago and have been in brief contact with old school friends.

I very rarely log into the site now, but today I did and there is a message from somebody who I think was my first serious boyfriend!

We´re talking over 30 years ago, I was only 15 but very mature for my age, and I´m not sure if I want to contact him, there is no photo or enough info on his profile.

What do you think about this site, and in particular, old boyfriends/girlfriends getting in contact?


I do not know that site, Jan, but something similar happened to me and I discovered that after 30 years the old chemistry was still there...

Just think of this: his sending a message implies that you were, and still are, meaningful to him. So, I`d say, go for it, girl and contact him! Good luck! heart beating
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Mar 28, 2009 8:00 PM CST Ghosts from the past
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
clara1956: I do not know that site, Jan, but something similar happened to me and I discovered that after 30 years the old chemistry was still there...

Just think of this: his sending a message implies that you were, and still are, meaningful to him. So, I`d say, go for it, girl and contact him! Good luck!
thumbs up

See listen to this ladycheering applause
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Mar 28, 2009 8:03 PM CST Ghosts from the past
crossbeach
crossbeachcrossbeachMaringá, Parana Brazil19 Threads 1 Polls 47 Posts
school histories..... keep there!!!! would be hurts crash 30 years of meaning about funny, nices, smarts, and wonderfull memories...

it's my opinion.. remembering are nice... open boxes can be like a chocolat box or a termits nest.

kisses teddybear
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Mar 28, 2009 8:10 PM CST Ghosts from the past
evilcherryqueen
evilcherryqueenevilcherryqueenRemiss, Michigan USA1 Threads 439 Posts
Jan1305: I joined Friends Reunited a few years ago and have been in brief contact with old school friends.

I very rarely log into the site now, but today I did and there is a message from somebody who I think was my first serious boyfriend!

We´re talking over 30 years ago, I was only 15 but very mature for my age, and I´m not sure if I want to contact him, there is no photo or enough info on his profile.

What do you think about this site, and in particular, old boyfriends/girlfriends getting in contact?





drinking there's a reason they say "you can never go home again" or something to that effect or is it affect....I wouldn't do it. I had a special person in my life from the time I was 12 until the time I was 18-summers only and I want to keep those precious memories right where they are. Nothing would live up to them, but things could destroy them. jmo...best of luck to you whatever you decide.teddybear
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Mar 28, 2009 8:12 PM CST Ghosts from the past
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
crossbeach: school histories..... keep there!!!! would be hurts crash 30 years of meaning about funny, nices, smarts, and wonderfull memories...

it's my opinion.. remembering are nice... open boxes can be like a chocolat box or a termits nest.

kisses


Hello my music friend. wave

I agree with you I think....maybe acknowledging his message wouldn´t be such a bad thing though.

Thing is, I have no idea what he looks like now, or what he is doing, his profile is empty. I have photos posted and a little info about my employment...nada mas
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Mar 28, 2009 8:30 PM CST Ghosts from the past
crossbeach
crossbeachcrossbeachMaringá, Parana Brazil19 Threads 1 Polls 47 Posts
it's nice remember our teeneager age... but are only it. a age wich never would happen twice... i will search some "music video" and send to you later ;-) just to remember....
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Mar 28, 2009 9:35 PM CST Ghosts from the past
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
crossbeach: it's nice remember our teeneager age... but are only it. a age wich never would happen twice... i will search some "music video" and send to you later ;-) just to remember....


teddybear

Good choice of song, thankyou.

Best to keep the past behind me I think and look forwatd.
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Mar 28, 2009 9:37 PM CST Ghosts from the past
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Jan1305: Good choice of song, thankyou.

Best to keep the past behind me I think and look forwatd.


Nice pic
Any chance you wanna share them with mesigh
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Mar 28, 2009 9:38 PM CST Ghosts from the past
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Mercedes1: Nice pic
Any chance you wanna share them with me


rolling on the floor laughing You can have them for free....they are the bain of my life!! rolling on the floor laughing
hug
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Mar 28, 2009 9:39 PM CST Ghosts from the past
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Jan1305: You can have them for free....they are the bain of my life!!


I need bain fo suresigh

hug
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Mar 28, 2009 10:01 PM CST Ghosts from the past
Shedman01
Shedman01Shedman01Gonzales, Texas USA16 Threads 2 Polls 1,029 Posts
first let me say...

wow wow uhm JAN...shame on your new pic...go report yourself...LOL


next..

It never hurts to open the door of friendship to the past. I would say go for it but make certain not to hold expectations for anything or at most for friendship only.. sorry if I am repeating anyone elses offer of advice, just wanted to reply then will read through. smile

wave
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Mar 28, 2009 10:10 PM CST Ghosts from the past
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
I wish my old boyfriend would look for me, but I would not want him to see how I am now.
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