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Apr 20, 2009 12:15 AM CST overweight>...........................
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Scubadiva: Funny, I pulled a joke the other week on a local website and changed my weight from "normal" to "a few pounds over" and ever since I did that, I go zero responses

So now I'm changing it back to "normal", but I think that in and by itself says a lot.

Now on that site, the pix are fuzzed up, so you have to pick people on the basis of their profile first and then ask the person to free up the picture and they can do so or refuse. Quite an interesting approach.

Since without seing the picture, people have to make assumptions based on what you write, I've now seen that in the dating scheme, "a few pounds over" is pretty much the kiss of death for a female.


I always love the men whose profile says "average build" and they're a few pounds overweight, or says "a few pounds overweight" and they're obese...do men not know what they look like in the mirror? And to be fair, men, do women do that as well?
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Apr 20, 2009 12:18 AM CST overweight>...........................
Ivan69
Ivan69Ivan69Edgerton, Ohio USA1 Threads 1 Polls 21 Posts
Yes but looks aren't everything! For a meaningfull relationship would looks care on the conversation or the personality.
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Apr 20, 2009 12:21 AM CST overweight>...........................
Ivan69
Ivan69Ivan69Edgerton, Ohio USA1 Threads 1 Polls 21 Posts
Why are you offering????
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Apr 20, 2009 12:21 AM CST overweight>...........................
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Ivan69: Yes but looks aren't everything! For a meaningfull relationship would looks care on the conversation or the personality.
Not everything, no. But I believe they form part of the initial attraction.
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Apr 20, 2009 12:23 AM CST overweight>...........................
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
druidess6308: I always love the men whose profile says "average build" and they're a few pounds overweight, or says "a few pounds overweight" and they're obese...do men not know what they look like in the mirror? And to be fair, men, do women do that as well?


If you look at the averages, they've gone up, so what was the norm 20 years ago, is much more now.
Yes, the women do that as well.

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Apr 20, 2009 12:24 AM CST overweight>...........................
Ivan69
Ivan69Ivan69Edgerton, Ohio USA1 Threads 1 Polls 21 Posts
Yes but for the long haul you have to have a good personality.A person that will stand by you and that's where the personality comes in.
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Apr 20, 2009 12:24 AM CST overweight>...........................
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
Ivan69: Why are you offering????


Sorry, I'm a dude... dude
you are not my type.

I had a gal so big on the back of my bike that I couldn't turn. the front tire was loosing contact with the ground.
had to have her get off to turn around.
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Apr 20, 2009 12:25 AM CST overweight>...........................
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Ivan69: Yes but for the long haul you have to have a good personality.A person that will stand by you and that's where the personality comes in.
Exaclty, so looks do matter to us, they are just useless if the connection isn't there.wine
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Apr 20, 2009 12:25 AM CST overweight>...........................
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
rasgumby: Sorry, I'm a dude... dude
you are not my type.

I had a gal so big on the back of my bike that I couldn't turn. the front tire was loosing contact with the ground.
had to have her get off to turn around.
Ras, stop it rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 20, 2009 12:26 AM CST overweight>...........................
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
rasgumby: Sorry, I'm a dude... dude
you are not my type.

I had a gal so big on the back of my bike that I couldn't turn. the front tire was loosing contact with the ground.
had to have her get off to turn around.


Give it up.....you're shallow.
lol
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Apr 20, 2009 12:26 AM CST overweight>...........................
Ivan69
Ivan69Ivan69Edgerton, Ohio USA1 Threads 1 Polls 21 Posts
My sight says HUSKY I'm 6 Foot 1 inches tall and wiegh around 225.
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Apr 20, 2009 12:27 AM CST overweight>...........................
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
thewall2: Give it up.....you're shallow.
lol
Hi J. wave


I think there is a point to needing physical attraction though.

Its just some men/woman like big.

Some like medium.

Some like small.
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Apr 20, 2009 12:27 AM CST overweight>...........................
Ivan69
Ivan69Ivan69Edgerton, Ohio USA1 Threads 1 Polls 21 Posts
What was it a honda?
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Apr 20, 2009 12:28 AM CST overweight>...........................
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
sxc666: Ras, stop it


Not joking.. I am completely serious!!
The front tire left the ground and I couldnt turn
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Apr 20, 2009 12:28 AM CST overweight>...........................
Ivan69
Ivan69Ivan69Edgerton, Ohio USA1 Threads 1 Polls 21 Posts
Some like all!!!!!!!!banana
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Apr 20, 2009 12:29 AM CST overweight>...........................
Ivan69
Ivan69Ivan69Edgerton, Ohio USA1 Threads 1 Polls 21 Posts
The biggest was about 119 pounds!
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Apr 20, 2009 12:29 AM CST overweight>...........................
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
Ivan69: What was it a honda?


No, but if it was I would have run out of gas because she would have ate all of the ricetongue grin
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Apr 20, 2009 12:29 AM CST overweight>...........................
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
kidatheart: If you look at the averages, they've gone up, so what was the norm 20 years ago, is much more now.
Yes, the women do that as well.


I know...and I could call myself average if I wanted to use those guidelines...but I don't, because I'm not what I consider an average build to be yet. Just because overweight is now the average doesn't mean it's acceptable as such.

Oops...off of my soap box now, before I get carried away. laugh
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Apr 20, 2009 12:33 AM CST overweight>...........................
Ivan69
Ivan69Ivan69Edgerton, Ohio USA1 Threads 1 Polls 21 Posts
Not from the pics I saw, you are hot.bouquet
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Apr 20, 2009 12:34 AM CST overweight>...........................
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
sxc666: Hi J. I think there is a point to needing physical attraction though.

Its just some men/woman like big.

Some like medium.

Some like small.



Hello T....

I 100% agree with you,and I WAS JUST KIDDING,and yes,there has to be some type of physical attraction.

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