TELL THE TRUTH OR LIE? (46)
romeo22Bangkok, Central Thailand Thailand54 Threads 2 Polls 132 PostsIf your new partner ask you ..was your ex better than me how will you answer? should you tell the truth or lie to? or you are asked .are you happy with me..do you like my body..am i not boring to you?
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Are you Doc Phils offsider? 
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Mercedes1: Are you Doc Phils offsider?
I'd have to tell Mercedes:
'Hey - wish we'd met 20 years ago before only our bellies could meet!'
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rusty_knight: I'd have to tell Mercedes:
'Hey - wish we'd met 20 years ago before only our bellies could meet!'
'Hey - wish we'd met 20 years ago before only our bellies could meet!'
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romeo22: If your new partner ask you ..was your ex better than me how will you answer? should you tell the truth or lie to? or you are asked .are you happy with me..do you like my body..am i not boring to you?
I don't usually advocate lying, but sometimes it's the smarter thing to do.
If someone asks questions like that, they're insecure about themselves and the relationship and may just be ready to jump ship because they feel you don't love them.
The wise thing to do is to lie. ... if you want to get rid of them and the ex really was "better", tell the truth
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My friends daughter who is her 30's always says...'Hurt me with the truth,,,,,don't hurt me with lies.'....it just makes it worse.
If you're gonna hurt somebody whether you tell the truth or not,you might as well hurt them with the truth...no?
You see,there's two types of dishonesty.The first one is when you plain out bulls,hit someone.
The second type is when you withhold truth from somebody who deserves to know it.
JMO....not really in the context of what the op is talking about,but just in general about truth and lies.
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What'd be the alternative: Say, yes, my ex was smarter, had a better job and was a better lover than you, but I love you anyway?
I can see that going over like a weight belt on a diver.
I can see that going over like a weight belt on a diver.
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Scubadiva: I don't usually advocate lying, but sometimes it's the smarter thing to do.
If someone asks questions like that, they're insecure about themselves and the relationship and may just be ready to jump ship because they feel you don't love them.
The wise thing to do is to lie. ... if you want to get rid of them and the ex really was "better", tell the truth
You are joking, right? If someone asks questions like that, they're insecure about themselves and the relationship and may just be ready to jump ship because they feel you don't love them.
The wise thing to do is to lie. ... if you want to get rid of them and the ex really was "better", tell the truth
A lie is a lie and no lie has ever made anyone feel good at all.
A lie is a dark shadow always lingering above you and once it gets exposed, hurt follows.
A lie to cover up a lie will escalate out of proportion far beyond any single truth ever could.
A lie diminishes trust, period.
Truth sometimes hurts, but a lie always hurts worse.
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When you sleep with a women with a few 100 dollar bills beneathe the sheets........somehow........you're always the dog.
F.uck this s,hit....I'm going to bed.
F.uck this s,hit....I'm going to bed.
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thewall2: When you sleep with a women with a few 100 dollar bills beneathe the sheets........somehow........you're always the dog.
F.uck this s,hit....I'm going to bed.
F.uck this s,hit....I'm going to bed.
THE TOP DOG.....POOCH.......MUTTT........you understand.
Excuse me.
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Well I would hope, since he is my "new partner" that I wouldn't have to lie and either one of two things should happen.....
1.) We are both secure in the relationship that we don't need to ask.
2.) There is a reason my ex is my ex. So therefore, my new partner should be better right?
If you have to think about whether to tell them the truth, I don't think you are in a good relationship. If you have to think about whether to ask that, I don't think you are in a good relationship. JMO though 
1.) We are both secure in the relationship that we don't need to ask.
2.) There is a reason my ex is my ex. So therefore, my new partner should be better right?
If you have to think about whether to tell them the truth, I don't think you are in a good relationship. If you have to think about whether to ask that, I don't think you are in a good relationship.
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romeo22: If your new partner ask you ..was your ex better than me how will you answer? should you tell the truth or lie to? or you are asked .are you happy with me..do you like my body..am i not boring to you?
I would say I am with you now, is that really relevant too our relationship. 
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romeo22: If your new partner ask you ..was your ex better than me how will you answer? should you tell the truth or lie to? or you are asked .are you happy with me..do you like my body..am i not boring to you?
I warn special people not to ask me a question that they do not want the honest answer to because I will not lie about myself or my experiences etc
Which means yes if they ask if they look good in something and I do not think they do, they will hear the truth, though it may be softened with..."You look better in the other outfit" or some such statement. But I will not lie when asked a question by the one I am with.
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I would suggest the answer lays within the question--- an ex is an ex
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.......OPEN..... 
ODESA: AND UR FUTURE...............OPEN.....
I see the furture --- no need
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CuspofMagic: I see the furture --- no need
Buongiorno, mi amico!!
Come stai? 
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