Jan1305: This thread has been put out of kilter and criticised by some because it has made a list of people. We don´t like lists do we. In addition, the OP refers to people who are DATING. We don´t like this term do we, in particular when the people involved have not physically met.
Well I agree, I have been one of the biggest cynics of online love, particularly when declared before a physical meeting. Yet I find myself on this list!
What can I say? I feel as though I am dating, I certainly don´t want to take up any real life or other online offers. I speak to this man every day for hours, we have seen each other via webcam, I know this man more than I have ever known a man through normal dating in a relatively short space of time.
Am I dating? Yes I feel that I am. We have made plans to meet at Christmas, so yes I am dating.
I can´t speak for him, nor do I wish to, but I know he feels the same.
I´m not going to profess undying love for this man to CS members because I know that when we meet there may not be that spark, I am confident though, as I know he is, and we have months more to get to know each other even more than we do now before our get together.
If things don´t pan out as we expect, fine, we are still friends. How could I not be friends with such a sweet man. In the meantime, I am dating and unavailable, so if I´m on a list I have no problem with it.
spicey1: I am hoping to have some good news when we meet in person
I look at like this and my friend Jan has stated the same, when I met PPV, we knew we would get on, because we did! So even if we had not found each other attractive, I would have had a damn fine time in the pub with him.
Sommerauer71: I look at like this and my friend Jan has stated the same, when I met PPV, we knew we would get on, because we did! So even if we had not found each other attractive, I would have had a damn fine time in the pub with him.
Very true, there have been a lot of good points in this thread, I am so glad there are people who still have such a positive attitude!
No reason to comfort. I never lost anyone. My name was put on the list to prove a point by Laura. She was showing that if you get on the list you can't get off of it.
Big_John: No reason to comfort. I never lost anyone. My name was put on the list to prove a point by Laura. She was showing that if you get on the list you can't get off of it.
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