Who is dating who here in CS? ( Archived) (948)

I have just read this thread again, Laura, to ascertain that I was correct in my views.

I have seen one person who challenged that she was listed with a person that she was not dating.

This lady has not left, in fact I was exchanging posts with her yesterday.

If Krisha has left because of being listed with two men then that I can understand, however, I saw no post stating that she was leaving because of that so therefore I am not furnished with that information.

Other than that, I have not seen any person declare on this thread that they are leaving because of this list.

What has been staring me in the face is the people who shout that these lists are not acceptable are the ones that have been quoting them in their own posts.

Certainly the first page is very interesting. But there we go, that is what I see.

I am not aware of people who have left, it has not been announced on this thread that they were leaving.

I think I have not explained myself clearly here, Laura. I think you will find that in my posts I have said it is the individuals responsibility to stand up for themselves, to step up as with any post about them. Also the suggestion that real couples are not real. You are sticking up for those who are hurt, rightly so, I am sticking up for the ones that I know to be real...

And back on some pages, I have made posts about my feelings about lists and one correction that I knew was incorrect.

I hope that makes my position clear now. I am still unsure to who has left because of this list. That has not been disclosed here in this thread, if I have missed a post where a person has stated this then do direct me to it.

If it is private information that you have received then surely that should remain private.

Ok. I don´t like lists either, which is why I waited to post my toooo long post on this thread. I thought that I was being honest, I hope you think so too Laura.

I do think however that the problems arose from a specific relationship on the list.

Before I go to bed tonight I will re-state my position that I fully and totally support anyone to say anything they want on CS. Each person has to live by the words they post. I have not changed from that position I stated earlier tonight.

Additionally, I am not dating anyone from CS. If my name appears on the list it is placed there for a reason other than to identify me and the other person as a couple. I would ask that it is removed by anyone posting the list.

Because some of these people that you so call your friends,they'll gosip behind your back, and they'll do your misery for you,and when times get TOUGH,they won't be there to help you out anyways.

Jan

For the purposes of the audience here, I will explain one person's direction of said audience to the EU forums.

I beleive Jan, that you asked me to support you and Tom in your relationship as your friend in public, which is exactly what I did.

Again trouble making in the making.

Jan and I do not operate like that at all. Jan was not looking for support about the lists, she was looking to me her friend for some support about her relationship with Tom.

Jan, my darling do correct me if I am wrong.