People get hurt to the point of leaving CS, but then someone else comes along, posts about exiting expectations (the best of luck for a long happy life together,BTW!) and it suppose to justify other ppls' names being dragged in mud against their will.
I don't see where anyone is trying to justify any person is being hurt Laura. Please excuse me for interjecting here.
As for the people who have left, because of a list, when they could have stepped up and said something, which is what I would have done and what John did when he was on a list to prove your point.
If some person named you in any thread, would you leave because you were hurt?
I was named in a list once, that took me a long time to get removed off. But I did not leave over it, I asked to be removed and I was eventually.
What I am saying is this, I am putting my thoughts out there for the people who are known to be couples. Those that aren't and I only knew one of them I put it out there.
The rest I have no idea about. I can and anyone really can only go off what they see here. Which is what I do. I do not discuss and offer information that is private and expect other people who are not aware of that to understand where you are coming from.
This is not just about people leaving, it is about people whose levels of sensitivity are different to others, and of course that has to be taken into consideration, not just with lists though.
If we apply that to lists then we should apply it as members all round.
Therefore, we should only post about the people we are sure about, in any thread, which is what I do anyway.
Also as Jan has said it is what she feels and she and any other person has the right to express their feelings.
Now, if you are skirting around me because you do not agree with my views, then fine, I can live with that. But don;t share half a story and expect me to understand when I am giving you a full one.
People get hurt to the point of leaving CS, but then someone else comes along, posts about exiting expectations (the best of luck for a long happy life together,BTW!) and it suppose to justify other ppls' names being dragged in mud against their will.
Laura ,
I have kept out of this thread because I really do think it is
a load of old balls.
But I will come in and say that I just agree with you so so much.
And by the way ,sadly one "new couple " have split already.
How must they feel ?
It's a load of crowing nonsense
Wow even I am "talking " to someone BUT I sure as hell AIN'T dating .
You fought a good and fair fight for the person who was so
The problems with this list seemed to come about because one person had unwittingly perhaps, professed love or liking for two guys Laura. Hidden profiles of the people concerned are now visible, so your concerns are unfounded.
I would ask you to read my post about my own listing and think again.
Jan1305: The problems with this list seemed to come about because one person had unwittingly perhaps, professed love or liking for two guys Laura. Hidden profiles of the people concerned are now visible, so your concerns are unfounded.
I would ask you to read my post about my own listing and think again.
Jan, you know I am happy for you and T.
You are two beautiful and deserving people. Once more wish you two the best of luck and love.
But...
If you read the entire thread, there are quite a few problems.
I like what SweetOwen suggested: if that list is to be kept without hurting other CSers,
each entry should be made by a couple in question. No one else has this right.
Some ppl here who advocated a freedom of posting lists, seems changed their mind.
Paradox67: I bought her lunch and then we went shopping. While shopping we used an elevator to go upstairs but then she kept pushing the buttons to go up and down between the 1st and 3rd floor. I was playing with my phone and she asked me if I noticed what she was doing. I said yes, you are pushing the buttons. I thought about it and then looked up and said, you wanted me to kiss you? She said, your cute but not too bright and kissed me. My socks rolled up and down on their own and steam came out of my ears...
I nearly choked on my White Tea, as I read this!!!!
Jan1305: The problems with this list seemed to come about because one person had unwittingly perhaps, professed love or liking for two guys Laura. Hidden profiles of the people concerned are now visible, so your concerns are unfounded.
I would ask you to read my post about my own listing and think again.
i never left and don't intend to i hold my head high even tho it was thrown at me publically, and i am not a teenager with all the drama, did it hurt yes, will i get over it yes, will i be a better man for it yes, life throws things at you and your proof as a man is how you deal with them, i have no hard feelings, i did for a bit, and i lashed out, but for that i am sorry, regardless of what happened, i bared my soul to the world, i will deal with it and regret losing a friend that i thought was more
Me personally,If I were dating somebody,I would keep it very hush hush.The last thing I WOULD need IS FOR OTHER people to poke their f.uck'n noses in my business.
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B.ulls.hit!
Good evening Wall
Congratulations to you and squat rack!
You'll have to DIY, I guess.