Why women get a divorce? ( Archived) (177)

Jun 1, 2009 8:04 AM CST Why women get a divorce?
stranger007
stranger007stranger007elstree, Hertfordshire, England UK3 Threads 111 Posts
OK if you go through the profiles of the women on CS most of them are divorced and the others have kids, and have never been married....why is that?
and do women reject the idea of polygmy..?
Curiouse male on the prowlwave
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Jun 1, 2009 8:10 AM CST Why women get a divorce?
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
Most Women get divorced because the man they were married to drove them to it or gave them no option. and im keeping it nice and not saying to much.
And i will add for the most part for a women to get divorced and walk away from a marriage it must been a bad thing that happend to make her do that.wine
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Jun 1, 2009 8:12 AM CST Why women get a divorce?
stranger007
stranger007stranger007elstree, Hertfordshire, England UK3 Threads 111 Posts
what about compromising....?
don't u think soap opras have something to do with it
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Jun 1, 2009 8:25 AM CST Why women get a divorce?
Sparky55
Sparky55Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan48 Threads 1 Polls 2,678 Posts
stranger007: OK if you go through the profiles of the women on CS most of them are divorced and the others have kids, and have never been married....why is that?
and do women reject the idea of polygmy..?
Curiouse male on the prowl


perhaps I can give some preventative advice via poetry.

If you don't want you marriage to end in divorce
Don't tell your wife that I'm hung like a horse... Neighhhhh laugh

Seriously, They're probably divorced for the same reasons men are divorced. They either grew to dislike or distrust their husbands or their husband grew to dislike and distrust them.

The child aspect shouldn't even be considered. Different people = different values, circumstances, etc... Besides, unmarried or not, chances are they didn't create those children all by themselves so I suspect there are guys out there doing the wild thing before their married too.

Just remember the old adage - People cause accidents and accidents sometimes cause people.. laugh
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Jun 1, 2009 8:26 AM CST Why women get a divorce?
Sparky55
Sparky55Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan48 Threads 1 Polls 2,678 Posts
stranger007: what about compromising....?
don't u think soap opras have something to do with it


Not unless they were doing the wild thing while watching all my children.. laugh
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Jun 1, 2009 10:31 AM CST Why women get a divorce?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
stranger007: what about compromising....?
don't u think soap opras have something to do with it
Soap Opera's?????rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

There are alot of reasons why a relationship can end, and it's not a gender thing.

Years ago people put up with being unhappy because divorce was not acceptable, times have changed.

People have choices.
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Jun 1, 2009 10:46 AM CST Why women get a divorce?
In response to: OK if you go through the profiles of the women on CS most of them are divorced and the others have kids, and have never been married....why is that?
and do women reject the idea of polygmy..?
Curiouse male on the prowl



It's just a gender thingy.

Some people get divorced because they see it as a easy way out instead of trying to work things out sometimes.We've become a throw away society.
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Jun 1, 2009 10:46 AM CST Why women get a divorce?
somechick: OOPS!! It's not just a gender thingy.

Some people get divorced because they see it as a easy way out instead of trying to work things out sometimes.We've become a throw away society.
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Jun 1, 2009 10:47 AM CST Why women get a divorce?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
somechick: It's just a gender thingy.

Some people get divorced because they see it as a easy way out instead of trying to work things out sometimes.We've become a throw away society.
thumbs up
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Jun 1, 2009 10:50 AM CST Why women get a divorce?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
stranger007: OK if you go through the profiles of the women on CS most of them are divorced and the others have kids, and have never been married....why is that?
and do women reject the idea of polygmy..?
Curiouse male on the prowl


What??? there are not virgines????

well , surprise, surprise......(i dont care)devil
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Jun 1, 2009 2:53 PM CST Why women get a divorce?
dunny2
dunny2dunny2clovis, New Mexico USA2 Threads 100 Posts
Uh...I would suspect that for every divorced woman...there would also be a divorced man...hello?? And single parents would be just that...there is or should be a father in there somewhere?? There are a lot of divorced males on here too. And a lot of men who state they have never been married/single...but have children as well.
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Jun 1, 2009 3:18 PM CST Why women get a divorce?
stranger007
stranger007stranger007elstree, Hertfordshire, England UK3 Threads 111 Posts
dunny2: Uh...I would suspect that for every divorced woman...there would also be a divorced man...hello?? And single parents would be just that...there is or should be a father in there somewhere?? There are a lot of divorced males on here too. And a lot of men who state they have never been married/single...but have children as well.


if you compare apples to apples and oranges to oranges
you would find it more prominante amongest women..for some reason.
I have friends who have multiple kids from multiple fathers...come on
what I'm trying to say is this?
we have tried everything to have what is called a perfect family
and all fialed.
are we gonna stop short at that, or keep trying.
is polygmy an answer, well if women can agree to that.
(some mormon comunities do)
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Jun 1, 2009 4:52 PM CST Why women get a divorce?
stranger007: if you compare apples to apples and oranges to oranges
you would find it more prominante amongest women..for some reason.
I have friends who have multiple kids from multiple fathers...come on
what I'm trying to say is this?
we have tried everything to have what is called a perfect family
and all fialed.
are we gonna stop short at that, or keep trying.
is polygmy an answer, well if women can agree to that.
(some mormon comunities do)
correction mormon faith does not condone it it was banned by the church late 1800's early 1900"
this is a group that went off by them selves that practice it and are not mormon.. i am not a mormon but do know a few and they get really upset over it
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Jun 1, 2009 4:55 PM CST Why women get a divorce?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
somechick: It's just a gender thingy.

Some people get divorced because they see it as a easy way out instead of trying to work things out sometimes.We've become a throw away society.


..................thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up .............


J.D
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Jun 1, 2009 5:09 PM CST Why women get a divorce?
PILOLO
PILOLOPILOLOamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands5 Threads 79 Posts
somechick: It's just a gender thingy.

Some people get divorced because they see it as a easy way out instead of trying to work things out sometimes.We've become a throw away society.

You've made a very good observation. People give up too easily these days. Most couples often seek out the easiest way out. Just like the cowards they often are. They fail to realise that certain things are really worth fighting for, rather than calling it quits at the very first sign of setbacks/difficulties. If only couples put in more efforts to make their marriages work, lots of divorce attorneys would be unemployed.
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Jun 1, 2009 7:57 PM CST Why women get a divorce?
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Because they got married confused dunno
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Jun 1, 2009 8:15 PM CST Why women get a divorce?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Sparky55: perhaps I can give some preventative advice via poetry.

If you don't want you marriage to end in divorce
Don't tell your wife that I'm hung like a horse... Neighhhhh

Seriously, They're probably divorced for the same reasons men are divorced. They either grew to dislike or distrust their husbands or their husband grew to dislike and distrust them.

The child aspect shouldn't even be considered. Different people = different values, circumstances, etc... Besides, unmarried or not, chances are they didn't create those children all by themselves so I suspect there are guys out there doing the wild thing before their married too.

Just remember the old adage - People cause accidents and accidents sometimes cause people..
thumbs up Good post, Sparky. I agree.
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Jun 1, 2009 8:18 PM CST Why women get a divorce?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
stranger007: if you compare apples to apples and oranges to oranges
you would find it more prominante amongest women..for some reason.
I have friends who have multiple kids from multiple fathers...come on
what I'm trying to say is this?
we have tried everything to have what is called a perfect family
and all fialed.
are we gonna stop short at that, or keep trying.
is polygmy an answer, well if women can agree to that.
(some mormon comunities do)
No, it's not the answer, and only the men are allowed to be polygamous, not the women. I'd say that the answer is learning from past mistakes, and finding another who has as well. Building a relationship slowly, built on trust, open communication, fidelity, and respect, not just hormones and infatuation.
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Jun 1, 2009 9:15 PM CST Why women get a divorce?
PeachesandRay
PeachesandRayPeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA72 Threads 1 Polls 1,358 Posts
My ex divorced me because she couldn't deal with the fact I had heart disease even tho she claimed irreconcilable differences. I had gone thru a triple by-pass surgery and just as soon as I was back to work, she gave me the boot. I suggested seeing a marriage counsellor, but she didn't want to hear it.


Got me a good woman this time grin





Earl
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Jun 1, 2009 9:19 PM CST Why women get a divorce?
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
stranger007: OK if you go through the profiles of the women on CS most of them are divorced and the others have kids, and have never been married....why is that?
and do women reject the idea of polygmy..?
Curiouse male on the prowl
because we are to much for them to handlethumbs up
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