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Jun 17, 2009 4:41 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
sky40
sky40sky40Noord, Aruba2 Threads 8 Posts
Does any one knows why women are looking for love where there is no love, i mean a man who really truly love a woman will do any thing just to get that woman attention but they seems to don't really care.
Take for example this site, many women are in here to look for that true love but, still they are not using their head i mean if a woman in here feels she is all that then, she is not suppose to be here.
No matter whatever your past life experience was and after wards you find someone who like you for you, you should be reciptive and forget about the past and move on, if not you will miss out on what God has for you.
Sometimes life is unfair we all knows that, God created this world with a man and a woman.
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Jun 17, 2009 4:44 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
I'm confused beyond belief here. So there is no way I could answer your question.
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Jun 17, 2009 4:53 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
dirko63
dirko63dirko63brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium2 Threads 426 Posts
maybe she is not interested in the man who is showering her

dunno

Many woman and guys too on here are looking for that special one however we are all on here for fun and laughter and we all have past experiences.

sometimes its not easy to forget the past, a loved one who was taken suddenly the one left behind will always remember that person and wants to take time to find someone as good.

If your mother dies you move on and yet the love is lost if you dont remember them same applies to people moving on

Now i have read the post again i am not sure of your point confused

if you are looking for love the bus will come along cheers
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Jun 17, 2009 4:54 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
Just because a man loves me does not mean I have to love him and vice versa. The love must be mutual. Anything less is just settling because you can't do any better.
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Jun 17, 2009 4:56 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
dirko63
dirko63dirko63brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium2 Threads 426 Posts
tainogirl: Just because a man loves me does not mean I have to love him and vice versa. The love must be mutual. Anything less is just settling because you can't do any better.
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Jun 17, 2009 6:15 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
sky40
sky40sky40Noord, Aruba2 Threads 8 Posts
dirko63: maybe she is not interested in the man who is showering her



Many woman and guys too on here are looking for that special one however we are all on here for fun and laughter and we all have past experiences.

sometimes its not easy to forget the past, a loved one who was taken suddenly the one left behind will always remember that person and wants to take time to find someone as good.

If your mother dies you move on and yet the love is lost if you dont remember them same applies to people moving on

Now i have read the post again i am not sure of your point

if you are looking for love the bus will come along

i am looking for true love imagine a woman telling me that she think she can't trust me becuase of past experience and i did everything to show that trust.
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Jun 17, 2009 6:21 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
Zeelander
ZeelanderZeelanderLouisville, Kentucky USA91 Threads 5 Polls 2,073 Posts
Well, for instance, like in my case.... if a woman feels that she likes me, there has to be something wrong with her, for I am the biggest jerk on these here forums.grin
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Jun 17, 2009 6:27 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
Zeelander: Well, for instance, like in my case.... if a woman feels that she likes me, there has to be something wrong with her, for I am the biggest jerk on these here forums.


Might need to hold a Jerk-a-thon to see if that's really true.hmmm
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Jun 17, 2009 6:31 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
Assets52
Assets52Assets52Littleton, New Hampshire USA125 Threads 2,174 Posts
Zeelander: Well, for instance, like in my case.... if a woman feels that she likes me, there has to be something wrong with her, for I am the biggest jerk on these here forums.


Guess I must be missing something ... you don't even make the top 10 list IMO



... Oh and I do like you, you are one of my favorite posters
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Jun 17, 2009 6:32 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
sky40: Does any one knows why women are looking for love where there is no love, i mean a man who really truly love a woman will do any thing just to get that woman attention but they seems to don't really care.
Take for example this site, many women are in here to look for that true love but, still they are not using their head i mean if a woman in here feels she is all that then, she is not suppose to be here.
No matter whatever your past life experience was and after wards you find someone who like you for you, you should be reciptive and forget about the past and move on, if not you will miss out on what God has for you.
Sometimes life is unfair we all knows that, God created this world with a man and a woman.


You know?

I have a man that truly loves me. And I mean truly loves me. I know this, I don't have to ask for his love, I don't have to secure it. In fact, I do not have to do anything other than enjoy the love that he feels for me and I can revel in the fact that I can deliver it back.

So when a man loves a woman, it is easy, it is nice, it is pleasant.

Yes we do care, yes we do want a man to love us.

You know? I had lunch today with my father and my stepmother. One couple who have loved each other for over 30 years. They hug, laugh, touch each other lovingly, make love and delight in each other. If he does not tweak her butt every day, she thinks he is going off her. He tweaks her butt everyday. Because he adores her.

As his daughter, I embrace what my father has, I have found that too, because I was raised being adored and loved. And when you are adored and loved, it is natural you want to give that back to your partner.

Love is about laughter, fun, hugs and time together. I climb on planes to be with my man, a man that I love just as much as he loves me. We always have fun, laugh, we cry and we are together as one on the same chair.

I do not disregard him, I would never do that. Why the hell would I?

Somedays it is tough, when we are alone, the rejection, the loneliness, the fear, the going to bed alone...

Who knows why some women do this, I cannot answer this, but there are plenty who would not turn their back.
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Jun 17, 2009 6:34 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
ContraryCol
ContraryColContraryColcrawley, West Sussex, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 601 Posts
Sommerauer71: You know?

I have a man that truly loves me. And I mean truly loves me. I know this, I don't have to ask for his love, I don't have to secure it. In fact, I do not have to do anything other than enjoy the love that he feels for me and I can revel in the fact that I can deliver it back.

So when a man loves a woman, it is easy, it is nice, it is pleasant.

Yes we do care, yes we do want a man to love us.

You know? I had lunch today with my father and my stepmother. One couple who have loved each other for over 30 years. They hug, laugh, touch each other lovingly, make love and delight in each other. If he does not tweak her butt every day, she thinks he is going off her. He tweaks her butt everyday. Because he adores her.

As his daughter, I embrace what my father has, I have found that too, because I was raised being adored and loved. And when you are adored and loved, it is natural you want to give that back to your partner.

Love is about laughter, fun, hugs and time together. I climb on planes to be with my man, a man that I love just as much as he loves me. We always have fun, laugh, we cry and we are together as one on the same chair.

I do not disregard him, I would never do that. Why the hell would I?

Somedays it is tough, when we are alone, the rejection, the loneliness, the fear, the going to bed alone...

Who knows why some women do this, I cannot answer this, but there are plenty who would not turn their back.
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Jun 17, 2009 6:46 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
ContraryCol
ContraryColContraryColcrawley, West Sussex, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 601 Posts
OOPS^^^^^^^

I think that many people who have been hurt in the past automatically go through some stages before there really ready for anything serious again.

At the end of a bad relationship while reflecting on it they often go for mr/mrs wrong and instead opt for mr/mrs right now.
Be it a fling with someone thats never going to go anywhere or a number of one night stands.
During that period there more likely to either turn down flat mr/mrs right or hurt them simply because there not ready yet.

Its up to use to work out if there ready to get involved with.
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Jun 17, 2009 6:55 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
sky40
sky40sky40Noord, Aruba2 Threads 8 Posts
ContraryCol: OOPS^^^^^^^

I think that many people who have been hurt in the past automatically go through some stages before there really ready for anything serious again.

At the end of a bad relationship while reflecting on it they often go for mr/mrs wrong and instead opt for mr/mrs right now.
Be it a fling with someone thats never going to go anywhere or a number of one night stands.
During that period there more likely to either turn down flat mr/mrs right or hurt them simply because there not ready yet.

Its up to use to work out if there ready to get involved with.
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Jun 17, 2009 6:59 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
sky40
sky40sky40Noord, Aruba2 Threads 8 Posts
Sommerauer71: You know?

I have a man that truly loves me. And I mean truly loves me. I know this, I don't have to ask for his love, I don't have to secure it. In fact, I do not have to do anything other than enjoy the love that he feels for me and I can revel in the fact that I can deliver it back.

So when a man loves a woman, it is easy, it is nice, it is pleasant.

Yes we do care, yes we do want a man to love us.

You know? I had lunch today with my father and my stepmother. One couple who have loved each other for over 30 years. They hug, laugh, touch each other lovingly, make love and delight in each other. If he does not tweak her butt every day, she thinks he is going off her. He tweaks her butt everyday. Because he adores her.

As his daughter, I embrace what my father has, I have found that too, because I was raised being adored and loved. And when you are adored and loved, it is natural you want to give that back to your partner.

Love is about laughter, fun, hugs and time together. I climb on planes to be with my man, a man that I love just as much as he loves me. We always have fun, laugh, we cry and we are together as one on the same chair.

I do not disregard him, I would never do that. Why the hell would I?

Somedays it is tough, when we are alone, the rejection, the loneliness, the fear, the going to bed alone...

Who knows why some women do this, I cannot answer this, but there are plenty who would not turn their back.
i quite agree with you but women do disregard those men that love them truly, some times becuase the man is not up to her standard
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Jun 17, 2009 7:04 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
sky40: i quite agree with you but women do disregard those men that love them truly, some times becuase the man is not up to her standard


And if a woman was not up to your standards would you want her?
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Jun 17, 2009 7:04 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA36 Threads 3 Polls 4,493 Posts
sky40: i am looking for true love imagine a woman telling me that she think she can't trust me because of past experience and i did everything to show that trust.


First, if she doesn't trust you, you obviously do not understand what she's trying to tell you she needs in the way of trust.
Either a situation works, or it doesn't. It can NOT be forced.
Move on.

Now, coming online & generalizing women tends to make a person appear as if they do not know how to individually see women. All women do not fit under one definition, just as with men. It doesn't work. There are no two people who will be defined exactly the same.
Humans are individuals. Each has their own needs & preferences. Take the time to see that & you'll benefit greatly with your next encounter.

comfort
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Jun 17, 2009 7:17 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
spiceygamble: First, if she doesn't trust you, you obviously do not understand what she's trying to tell you she needs in the way of trust.
Either a situation works, or it doesn't. It can NOT be forced.
Move on.

Now, coming online & generalizing women tends to make a person appear as if they do not know how to individually see women. All women do not fit under one definition, just as with men. It doesn't work. There are no two people who will be defined exactly the same.
Humans are individuals. Each has their own needs & preferences. Take the time to see that & you'll benefit greatly with your next encounter.


I almost want to marry you Spicey...

I think you are a bit like me, secure, happy with oneself and can happily state the obvious...

Smug of me to say, given my own status. However, I was and still will always remain myself.

I am a believer in one wants to be with you or not. I do also believe that one is in charge of their own life. I have and will always remain mistress of my own life...

A great believer in humans being individuals...

I like that.

Always a joy to see you, especially those fabulous pins...
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Jun 17, 2009 7:18 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
NeWildflower
NeWildflowerNeWildflowerScottsbluff, Nebraska USA15 Threads 2 Polls 754 Posts
tainogirl: Might need to hold a Jerk-a-thon to see if that's really true.


Hey Taino.. that is a SPECTACULAR idea!

We need to do this immediately!
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Jun 17, 2009 7:19 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Zeelander: Well, for instance, like in my case.... if a woman feels that she likes me, there has to be something wrong with her, for I am the biggest jerk on these here forums.


I thought Tater was??...laugh

You are like Tater...a very nice person who may be misunderstood at times....handshake
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Jun 17, 2009 7:19 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
sky40: i quite agree with you but women do disregard those men that love them truly, some times becuase the man is not up to her standard


In all honesty, you are not agreeing with me, are you?

If some women disregard men, then maybe it is something as simple as that they are not attracted to them...
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