Why do women disregard those who truly love them ( Archived) (64)

Jun 17, 2009 7:21 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Sommerauer71: You know?

I have a man that truly loves me. And I mean truly loves me. I know this, I don't have to ask for his love, I don't have to secure it. In fact, I do not have to do anything other than enjoy the love that he feels for me and I can revel in the fact that I can deliver it back.

So when a man loves a woman, it is easy, it is nice, it is pleasant.

Yes we do care, yes we do want a man to love us.

You know? I had lunch today with my father and my stepmother. One couple who have loved each other for over 30 years. They hug, laugh, touch each other lovingly, make love and delight in each other. If he does not tweak her butt every day, she thinks he is going off her. He tweaks her butt everyday. Because he adores her.

As his daughter, I embrace what my father has, I have found that too, because I was raised being adored and loved. And when you are adored and loved, it is natural you want to give that back to your partner.

Love is about laughter, fun, hugs and time together. I climb on planes to be with my man, a man that I love just as much as he loves me. We always have fun, laugh, we cry and we are together as one on the same chair.

I do not disregard him, I would never do that. Why the hell would I?

Somedays it is tough, when we are alone, the rejection, the loneliness, the fear, the going to bed alone...

Who knows why some women do this, I cannot answer this, but there are plenty who would not turn their back.


PPV is a lucky man....hug thumbs up
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Jun 17, 2009 7:25 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
NeWildflower: Hey Taino.. that is a SPECTACULAR idea!

We need to do this immediately!


Don't know if too many guys would apply for that one. Might hurt their prospects.laugh
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Jun 17, 2009 7:27 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
ContraryCol
ContraryColContraryColcrawley, West Sussex, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 601 Posts
In response to: I almost want to marry you Spicey...

Does that sign above spiceys head have some subtle hidden meaning?


dunno
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Jun 17, 2009 7:27 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
NeWildflower
NeWildflowerNeWildflowerScottsbluff, Nebraska USA15 Threads 2 Polls 754 Posts
tainogirl: Don't know if too many guys would apply for that one. Might hurt their prospects.


probably true.
You should start a poll and see.. you know.. in the name of science and stuff! laugh
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Jun 17, 2009 7:27 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
broncos
broncosbroncosToms River, New Jersey USA5 Threads 138 Posts
Bexause they are ungrateful and deserve less than what you offer them!!
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Jun 17, 2009 7:31 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
NeWildflower: probably true.
You should start a poll and see.. you know.. in the name of science and stuff!


Do you really think I should? Would you hide me if they come after me?uh oh
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Jun 17, 2009 7:32 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
mbcasey: PPV is a lucky man....


He is also a banned man, Ken.

grin
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Jun 17, 2009 7:36 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
NeWildflower
NeWildflowerNeWildflowerScottsbluff, Nebraska USA15 Threads 2 Polls 754 Posts
tainogirl: Do you really think I should? Would you hide me if they come after me?


Absolutely! Do it!! devil
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Jun 17, 2009 7:38 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
Zeelander: Well, for instance, like in my case.... if a woman feels that she likes me, there has to be something wrong with her, for I am the biggest jerk on these here forums.


Zee I don't believe that for a second and you should stop putting yourself down.You're one of the sweetest & nicest men I know.hug
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Jun 17, 2009 7:46 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
ihateusernames
ihateusernamesihateusernamesForestville, Maryland USA2 Threads 375 Posts
I'm engaged and I could never disregard the love between he and I. What kind of heartless wench would I be if I did.
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Jun 17, 2009 8:14 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
eastieguy
eastieguyeastieguylondon, Greater London, England UK3 Threads 41 Posts
cause most of them are either to stupid to realise or blinded by stupidity
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Jun 17, 2009 8:16 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
eastieguy: cause most of them are either to stupid to realise or blinded by stupidity



That should secure you some dates.

We are all terribly stupid.
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Jun 17, 2009 9:16 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
Zeelander: Well, for instance, like in my case.... if a woman feels that she likes me, there has to be something wrong with her, for I am the biggest jerk on these here forums.


HEY...I don't remember passing the mantle to you.scold very mad grin
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Jun 17, 2009 9:20 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
Assets52
Assets52Assets52Littleton, New Hampshire USA125 Threads 2,174 Posts
eastieguy: cause most of them are either to stupid to realise or blinded by stupidity


Careful ... that kind of attitude will get you nominated in the jerk-a-thon thread.scold
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Jun 17, 2009 9:44 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Love is a two-way street; just because you love someone doesn't mean they will love you in return. You have described what unrequited love is all about!
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Jun 17, 2009 9:46 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
sky40:
Why do women disregard those who truly love them

Does any one knows why women are looking for love where there is no love, i mean a man who really truly love a woman will do any thing just to get that woman attention but they seems to don't really care.
Take for example this site, many women are in here to look for that true love but, still they are not using their head i mean if a woman in here feels she is all that then, she is not suppose to be here.
No matter whatever your past life experience was and after wards you find someone who like you for you, you should be reciptive and forget about the past and move on, if not you will miss out on what God has for you.


Sometimes life is unfair we all knows that, God created this world with a man and a woman.


I am a bit confused by your statement-question.

Why anybody (of any gender) should be "receptive" unless love is mutual, the feelings are shared?
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Jun 17, 2009 10:21 PM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
Sommerauer71: You know?

I have a man that truly loves me. And I mean truly loves me. I know this, I don't have to ask for his love, I don't have to secure it. In fact, I do not have to do anything other than enjoy the love that he feels for me and I can revel in the fact that I can deliver it back.

So when a man loves a woman, it is easy, it is nice, it is pleasant.

Yes we do care, yes we do want a man to love us.

You know? I had lunch today with my father and my stepmother. One couple who have loved each other for over 30 years. They hug, laugh, touch each other lovingly, make love and delight in each other. If he does not tweak her butt every day, she thinks he is going off her. He tweaks her butt everyday. Because he adores her.

As his daughter, I embrace what my father has, I have found that too, because I was raised being adored and loved. And when you are adored and loved, it is natural you want to give that back to your partner.

Love is about laughter, fun, hugs and time together. I climb on planes to be with my man, a man that I love just as much as he loves me. We always have fun, laugh, we cry and we are together as one on the same chair.

I do not disregard him, I would never do that. Why the hell would I?

Somedays it is tough, when we are alone, the rejection, the loneliness, the fear, the going to bed alone...

Who knows why some women do this, I cannot answer this, but there are plenty who would not turn their back.


I surely miss tweaking butt and miss being in love even more...hug
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Jun 18, 2009 1:17 AM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
sky40: Why do women disregard those who truly love them.


Because they're foolish, and telling them so is our best hope

for them to see the error of their ways,

and date us.









Disclaimer(for te women)- The above is sarcasm, please don't hold it, or the fact that I was too scared to post this without a disclaimer, against me. There are plenty of good reasons not to want me, you don't need this one.
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Jun 18, 2009 1:22 AM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
Sojourner
SojournerSojournerAndorra la Vella, Andorra31 Threads 2 Polls 472 Posts
sky40: Does any one knows why women are looking for love where there is no love, i mean a man who really truly love a woman will do any thing just to get that woman attention but they seems to don't really care.
Take for example this site, many women are in here to look for that true love but, still they are not using their head i mean if a woman in here feels she is all that then, she is not suppose to be here.
No matter whatever your past life experience was and afterwards you find someone who like you for you, you should be receptive and forget about the past and move on, if not you will miss out on what God has for you.
Sometimes life is unfair we all knows that, God created this world with a man and a woman.
The feelings of love much be mutual. Just because someone loves you, it doesn't mean you must automatically love them back. I a man falls in love with a woman but she doesn't return those feelings, she may say something like she's not ready for a new relationship, but she is really just saying she's not interested. If you express your love or someone and she doesn't respond in kind, doesn't feel the same way, then she isn't interested and you need to move on.
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Jun 18, 2009 1:29 AM CST Why do women disregard those who truly love them
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Sojourner: The feelings of love much be mutual. Just because someone loves you, it doesn't mean you must automatically love them back. I a man falls in love with a woman but she doesn't return those feelings, she may say something like she's not ready for a new relationship, but she is really just saying she's not interested. If you express your love or someone and she doesn't respond in kind, doesn't feel the same way, then she isn't interested and you need to move on.


I mostly agree, but then can one experience true love if it is only one way?

A man might yearn for a woman and 'love' her but surely it can't be true love unless that feeling is reciprocated so (what I am saying) is that there cannot be real love if it is only one way.............

unless you are talking about the unconditional love a parent has for a child or 'God' is supposed to have for us all even if we hate the concept of 'God'.

I dunno - who does? confused
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