I met that guy, this is how it went (169)
ok, i'm going to be brutally honest.
The guy came from CS, so his profile would have said what he was looking for out of a future relationship. So that should have given you a clue.
Going by your other experience here, you are fixated with being married, and ruining your chances of achieving that.
Nobody likes to feel pressured about marriage as soon as they meet you, how on earth can they give you an honest answer when they don't even know you???
It takes time for a relationship to develop, you might not like him? once you have spent sometime getting to know him.
All you will do is make guys run a mile, get happy with yourself and learn to live your life for you, until you do that you will continue to be alone
The guy came from CS, so his profile would have said what he was looking for out of a future relationship. So that should have given you a clue.
Going by your other experience here, you are fixated with being married, and ruining your chances of achieving that.
Nobody likes to feel pressured about marriage as soon as they meet you, how on earth can they give you an honest answer when they don't even know you???
It takes time for a relationship to develop, you might not like him? once you have spent sometime getting to know him.
All you will do is make guys run a mile, get happy with yourself and learn to live your life for you, until you do that you will continue to be alone
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mexikanska: I would do it...then we dont waste our time.....
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I think honesty must be first, and there is nothing wrong if you ask the person if he would like to have a commitment with you, That's what i did with my lovely man....
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mexikanska: I think honesty must be first, and there is nothing wrong if you ask the person if he would like to have a commitment with you, That's what i did with my lovely man....
On the first date???? it's madness how can you know someone after a first date, and talk of marriage??? To see them again ok but marriage, sucks of desperation to me 
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morgan5: ok, i'm going to be brutally honest.
The guy came from CS, so his profile would have said what he was looking for out of a future relationship. So that should have given you a clue.
Going by your other experience here, you are fixated with being married, and ruining your chances of achieving that.
Nobody likes to feel pressured about marriage as soon as they meet you, how on earth can they give you an honest answer when they don't even know you???
It takes time for a relationship to develop, you might not like him? once you have spent sometime getting to know him.
All you will do is make guys run a mile, get happy with yourself and learn to live your life for you, until you do that you will continue to be alone
The guy came from CS, so his profile would have said what he was looking for out of a future relationship. So that should have given you a clue.
Going by your other experience here, you are fixated with being married, and ruining your chances of achieving that.
Nobody likes to feel pressured about marriage as soon as they meet you, how on earth can they give you an honest answer when they don't even know you???
It takes time for a relationship to develop, you might not like him? once you have spent sometime getting to know him.
All you will do is make guys run a mile, get happy with yourself and learn to live your life for you, until you do that you will continue to be alone
Thanks for the advise, but i don't accept it. I am saving my time
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well... i meant not to get marry next day, but let him know what I expect from him, at least worked for me....(I am not a teenager, so why not)
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mexikanska: I think honesty must be first, and there is nothing wrong if you ask the person if he would like to have a commitment with you, That's what i did with my lovely man....
Of course one should be honest, but how HONEST can a man be about wanting to marry a woman he just met a second ago,he doesn't really know you! You might probably get more honesty asking him do you want to jump my crotch now?
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Lets say you marry someone after your first meeting and after a week you are not happy with your choice, what happens at that point?
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Everybody is dealing with the extreme idea of asking a man to marry you on the 1st date; I will leave that one alone.
I want to discuss the need for constant affection, kissing, touching on the first date. This too seems like a rush to judgement.... How long was this date?
I want to discuss the need for constant affection, kissing, touching on the first date. This too seems like a rush to judgement.... How long was this date?
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mexikanska: well... i meant not to get marry next day, but let him know what I expect from him, at least worked for me....(I am not a teenager, so why not)
yes i can see to talk about it in conversation and see what you want at some point in your life, but read the last paragraph of the Op's post, she is saying she wants someone to marry here at anytime, and not for someone to think about it???? that is just not normal. ------ This thread is Archived ------
Big_John: Everybody is dealing with the extreme idea of asking a man to marry you on the 1st date; I will leave that one alone.
I want to discuss the need for constant affection, kissing, touching on the first date. This too seems like a rush to judgement.... How long was this date?
I want to discuss the need for constant affection, kissing, touching on the first date. This too seems like a rush to judgement.... How long was this date?
waaayyy to fast for me 
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tainogirl: Of course one should be honest, but how HONEST can a man be about wanting to marry a woman he just met a second ago,he doesn't really know you! You might probably get more honesty asking him do you want to jump my crotch now?
LMAO 
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mazzd03: Lets say you marry someone after your first meeting and after a week you are not happy with your choice, what happens at that point?
Very simple. then i divorce him
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tainogirl: Of course one should be honest, but how HONEST can a man be about wanting to marry a woman he just met a second ago,he doesn't really know you! You might probably get more honesty asking him do you want to jump my crotch now?
Wow, is this okay for the first day?
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kindheart74: Very simple. then i divorce him
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Cheers girls.....
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kindheart74: Very simple. then i divorce him
Bang
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kindheart74: Very simple. then i divorce him
I think only movie stars get to jump into marriage and out it that quickly.
Hi there Big John, long time no see.------ This thread is Archived ------
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