I met that guy, this is how it went (169)
kindheart74: Dear friends,
I promised you to tell how it went my dating with that guy.
So we met at the park gate, he was waiting for me there. He recognized me quickly but I couldn’t recognize him till he call me saying my name because he was handsome than his CS picture, a tall, fair guy.
It was evening; nature was very beautiful, tiny rain drops were falling. So we entered in to the park and found a bench in a beautiful place covered by trees. Then we started to chat, sitting on the bench and he wanted to touch my hands first, and then wanted to hug me, and then kiss me. I didn’t have any objection. I don’t know why, but I felt that we are not matched though we had physical attraction to each other.
While he was kissing me a funny thing happened, a security guard came and asked us to leave the park saying couples are allowed to be there till 2.30pm only and now it was the time for children. We left that bench but started to play hide and seek game with security guards of the park . When we saw the same guard coming to us again we left the park.
Then we go to see a near by lake. It was very beautiful; there was small temple middle in the lake.We walk here and there holding our hands. But at that place also same thing happened. Because of his mad kissing habit we were asked to leave that place too.
I found that he is a nature lover; he described every simple thing we saw around us, about squirrels running behind each other on trees, sleeping bats hanging on trees, swimming swans in the lake, flying cranes …………… yes I think I started to love him.
But my question about marriage changed everything. After sad experience I got from CS I have decided to ask about the marriage on the first day itself. He said that he want some time to decide it. I am not ready to give time to anyone to think of the marriage. I need someone who loves me too much to marry me at any time. It’s me. I stopped that affair. He was little sad. But I can not help him. According to me I did the best thing I should do.
I promised you to tell how it went my dating with that guy.
So we met at the park gate, he was waiting for me there. He recognized me quickly but I couldn’t recognize him till he call me saying my name because he was handsome than his CS picture, a tall, fair guy.
It was evening; nature was very beautiful, tiny rain drops were falling. So we entered in to the park and found a bench in a beautiful place covered by trees. Then we started to chat, sitting on the bench and he wanted to touch my hands first, and then wanted to hug me, and then kiss me. I didn’t have any objection. I don’t know why, but I felt that we are not matched though we had physical attraction to each other.
While he was kissing me a funny thing happened, a security guard came and asked us to leave the park saying couples are allowed to be there till 2.30pm only and now it was the time for children. We left that bench but started to play hide and seek game with security guards of the park . When we saw the same guard coming to us again we left the park.
Then we go to see a near by lake. It was very beautiful; there was small temple middle in the lake.We walk here and there holding our hands. But at that place also same thing happened. Because of his mad kissing habit we were asked to leave that place too.
I found that he is a nature lover; he described every simple thing we saw around us, about squirrels running behind each other on trees, sleeping bats hanging on trees, swimming swans in the lake, flying cranes …………… yes I think I started to love him.
But my question about marriage changed everything. After sad experience I got from CS I have decided to ask about the marriage on the first day itself. He said that he want some time to decide it. I am not ready to give time to anyone to think of the marriage. I need someone who loves me too much to marry me at any time. It’s me. I stopped that affair. He was little sad. But I can not help him. According to me I did the best thing I should do.
Why would you ask a man you just met about marriage?
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tainogirl: Why would you ask a man you just met about marriage?
What she just asked.
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tainogirl: Why would you ask a man you just met about marriage?
i have explained it there in my thread
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tainogirl: Why would you ask a man you just met about marriage?
mad, isn't it?
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cristina: mad, isn't it?
yes I am mad. I know it
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The only thing that would beat this is if she asked the guy to marry her before they met...!...
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Gee, I wouldn't ask him until the 2nd date.
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I would do it...then we dont waste our time.....
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kindheart74: Dear friends,
I promised you to tell how it went my dating with that guy.
So we met at the park gate, he was waiting for me there. He recognized me quickly but I couldn’t recognize him till he call me saying my name because he was handsome than his CS picture, a tall, fair guy.
It was evening; nature was very beautiful, tiny rain drops were falling. So we entered in to the park and found a bench in a beautiful place covered by trees. Then we started to chat, sitting on the bench and he wanted to touch my hands first, and then wanted to hug me, and then kiss me. I didn’t have any objection. I don’t know why, but I felt that we are not matched though we had physical attraction to each other.
While he was kissing me a funny thing happened, a security guard came and asked us to leave the park saying couples are allowed to be there till 2.30pm only and now it was the time for children. We left that bench but started to play hide and seek game with security guards of the park . When we saw the same guard coming to us again we left the park.
Then we go to see a near by lake. It was very beautiful; there was small temple middle in the lake.We walk here and there holding our hands. But at that place also same thing happened. Because of his mad kissing habit we were asked to leave that place too.
I found that he is a nature lover; he described every simple thing we saw around us, about squirrels running behind each other on trees, sleeping bats hanging on trees, swimming swans in the lake, flying cranes …………… yes I think I started to love him.
But my question about marriage changed everything. After sad experience I got from CS I have decided to ask about the marriage on the first day itself. He said that he want some time to decide it. I am not ready to give time to anyone to think of the marriage. I need someone who loves me too much to marry me at any time. It’s me. I stopped that affair. He was little sad. But I can not help him. According to me I did the best thing I should do.
WHOA!!!!! You brought up marriage on the first date?I promised you to tell how it went my dating with that guy.
So we met at the park gate, he was waiting for me there. He recognized me quickly but I couldn’t recognize him till he call me saying my name because he was handsome than his CS picture, a tall, fair guy.
It was evening; nature was very beautiful, tiny rain drops were falling. So we entered in to the park and found a bench in a beautiful place covered by trees. Then we started to chat, sitting on the bench and he wanted to touch my hands first, and then wanted to hug me, and then kiss me. I didn’t have any objection. I don’t know why, but I felt that we are not matched though we had physical attraction to each other.
While he was kissing me a funny thing happened, a security guard came and asked us to leave the park saying couples are allowed to be there till 2.30pm only and now it was the time for children. We left that bench but started to play hide and seek game with security guards of the park . When we saw the same guard coming to us again we left the park.
Then we go to see a near by lake. It was very beautiful; there was small temple middle in the lake.We walk here and there holding our hands. But at that place also same thing happened. Because of his mad kissing habit we were asked to leave that place too.
I found that he is a nature lover; he described every simple thing we saw around us, about squirrels running behind each other on trees, sleeping bats hanging on trees, swimming swans in the lake, flying cranes …………… yes I think I started to love him.
But my question about marriage changed everything. After sad experience I got from CS I have decided to ask about the marriage on the first day itself. He said that he want some time to decide it. I am not ready to give time to anyone to think of the marriage. I need someone who loves me too much to marry me at any time. It’s me. I stopped that affair. He was little sad. But I can not help him. According to me I did the best thing I should do.
I think the poor man is probably still running.
J.M.O.
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maybe she should have asked what he thought of marriage overall not about getting married some people are gunshy from marriage others may reply maybe some day i would like to be married again or just be married we don't know what approach she took jmho
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kindheart74: i have explained it there in my thread
Lots of women want to get married but men get kind of frightened if you mention that right away. Something about feeling you are trying to trap them.
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caspatch: maybe she should have asked what he thought of marriage overall not about getting married some people are gunshy from marriage others may reply maybe some day i would like to be married again or just be married we don't know what approach she took jmho
I think that it is a subject that is best left alone for a little while. Besides, you can be more subtle about it and find out what you want to know without just coming out and asking.
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mexikanska: I would do it...then we dont waste our time.....
But how could a man you just met know if he wants to marry you? He might feel attracted to you, think you are the kind of woman he MIGHT want to marry. But it still takes time to really KNOW a person. There are more important things I would want to know rather than if he can just put a ring on my finger. JMHO.
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kindheart74: Dear friends,
I promised you to tell how it went my dating with that guy.
So we met at the park gate, he was waiting for me there. He recognized me quickly but I couldn’t recognize him till he call me saying my name because he was handsome than his CS picture, a tall, fair guy.
It was evening; nature was very beautiful, tiny rain drops were falling. So we entered in to the park and found a bench in a beautiful place covered by trees. Then we started to chat, sitting on the bench and he wanted to touch my hands first, and then wanted to hug me, and then kiss me. I didn’t have any objection. I don’t know why, but I felt that we are not matched though we had physical attraction to each other.
While he was kissing me a funny thing happened, a security guard came and asked us to leave the park saying couples are allowed to be there till 2.30pm only and now it was the time for children. We left that bench but started to play hide and seek game with security guards of the park . When we saw the same guard coming to us again we left the park.
Then we go to see a near by lake. It was very beautiful; there was small temple middle in the lake.We walk here and there holding our hands. But at that place also same thing happened. Because of his mad kissing habit we were asked to leave that place too.
I found that he is a nature lover; he described every simple thing we saw around us, about squirrels running behind each other on trees, sleeping bats hanging on trees, swimming swans in the lake, flying cranes …………… yes I think I started to love him.
But my question about marriage changed everything. After sad experience I got from CS I have decided to ask about the marriage on the first day itself. He said that he want some time to decide it. I am not ready to give time to anyone to think of the marriage. I need someone who loves me too much to marry me at any time. It’s me. I stopped that affair. He was little sad. But I can not help him. According to me I did the best thing I should do.
I promised you to tell how it went my dating with that guy.
So we met at the park gate, he was waiting for me there. He recognized me quickly but I couldn’t recognize him till he call me saying my name because he was handsome than his CS picture, a tall, fair guy.
It was evening; nature was very beautiful, tiny rain drops were falling. So we entered in to the park and found a bench in a beautiful place covered by trees. Then we started to chat, sitting on the bench and he wanted to touch my hands first, and then wanted to hug me, and then kiss me. I didn’t have any objection. I don’t know why, but I felt that we are not matched though we had physical attraction to each other.
While he was kissing me a funny thing happened, a security guard came and asked us to leave the park saying couples are allowed to be there till 2.30pm only and now it was the time for children. We left that bench but started to play hide and seek game with security guards of the park . When we saw the same guard coming to us again we left the park.
Then we go to see a near by lake. It was very beautiful; there was small temple middle in the lake.We walk here and there holding our hands. But at that place also same thing happened. Because of his mad kissing habit we were asked to leave that place too.
I found that he is a nature lover; he described every simple thing we saw around us, about squirrels running behind each other on trees, sleeping bats hanging on trees, swimming swans in the lake, flying cranes …………… yes I think I started to love him.
But my question about marriage changed everything. After sad experience I got from CS I have decided to ask about the marriage on the first day itself. He said that he want some time to decide it. I am not ready to give time to anyone to think of the marriage. I need someone who loves me too much to marry me at any time. It’s me. I stopped that affair. He was little sad. But I can not help him. According to me I did the best thing I should do.
now u know the truth
hit the road and find the next one 
Why waste time? time is money
Too bad, but that is your choice/decision. If it feels right for u, don't listen to anybody.
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mazzd03: What are you going to do if someone accepts and you dont even know him? Just curious
For me I don't know even me myself. My ideas always get changed. So I don't try to understand anyone completely. It's a madness. We can not do it. Yes people think that I am mad, but they don't know that they are mad than me
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kindheart74:
But my question about marriage changed everything. After sad experience I got from CS I have decided to ask about the marriage on the first day itself. He said that he want some time to decide it. I am not ready to give time to anyone to think of the marriage. I need someone who loves me too much to marry me at any time. It’s me. I stopped that affair. He was little sad. But I can not help him. According to me I did the best thing I should do.
But my question about marriage changed everything. After sad experience I got from CS I have decided to ask about the marriage on the first day itself. He said that he want some time to decide it. I am not ready to give time to anyone to think of the marriage. I need someone who loves me too much to marry me at any time. It’s me. I stopped that affair. He was little sad. But I can not help him. According to me I did the best thing I should do.
I need to say this KH but you sound extremely desperate. I can bet you that NO ONE here will agree with your rushed approach. Perhaps you can decide on the right husband for you in a matter of minutes but no man will, unless you are very rich and he is a scammer! This is surely crazy. As crazy as Russian Roulette. Why are you so prepared to take such a risk. I am asuming you also want to have children with this stranger ?
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tainogirl: But how could a man you just met know if he wants to marry you? He might feel attracted to you, think you are the kind of woman he MIGHT want to marry. But it still takes time to really KNOW a person. There are more important things I would want to know rather than if he can just put a ring on my finger. JMHO.
In my personal experience I am 47 years old....no time to waste, we must live everyday as if were the last one, I met my boyfriend by internet, he came to Cancun twice, first time 3 weeks, then he came back 3 months later for a month, then we decided to spend the rest of our lifes together....he is from sweden.....he is with me in the pic....
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My dear, CS is not the real world. You should never take what you hear on CS as some kind of guide for life. Any man who would accept a marriage proposal on the first date would not be worth marrying. All you proved was this guy is somewhat normal. You think you started to love him? On the first date? And before the night was over you dumped him?
Ladies are you starting to see the mixed signals you send us guys?
Ladies are you starting to see the mixed signals you send us guys?
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I promised you to tell how it went my dating with that guy.
So we met at the park gate, he was waiting for me there. He recognized me quickly but I couldn’t recognize him till he call me saying my name because he was handsome than his CS picture, a tall, fair guy.
It was evening; nature was very beautiful, tiny rain drops were falling. So we entered in to the park and found a bench in a beautiful place covered by trees. Then we started to chat, sitting on the bench and he wanted to touch my hands first, and then wanted to hug me, and then kiss me. I didn’t have any objection. I don’t know why, but I felt that we are not matched though we had physical attraction to each other.
While he was kissing me a funny thing happened, a security guard came and asked us to leave the park saying couples are allowed to be there till 2.30pm only and now it was the time for children. We left that bench but started to play hide and seek game with security guards of the park
Then we go to see a near by lake. It was very beautiful; there was small temple middle in the lake.We walk here and there holding our hands. But at that place also same thing happened. Because of his mad kissing habit we were asked to leave that place too.
I found that he is a nature lover; he described every simple thing we saw around us, about squirrels running behind each other on trees, sleeping bats hanging on trees, swimming swans in the lake, flying cranes …………… yes I think I started to love him.
But my question about marriage changed everything. After sad experience I got from CS I have decided to ask about the marriage on the first day itself. He said that he want some time to decide it. I am not ready to give time to anyone to think of the marriage. I need someone who loves me too much to marry me at any time. It’s me. I stopped that affair. He was little sad. But I can not help him. According to me I did the best thing I should do.