morgan5: On the first date???? it's madness how can you know someone after a first date, and talk of marriage??? To see them again ok but marriage, sucks of desperation to me
I think you would save more time if you mentioned to the man you plan on meeting that you are only looking for men who are ready to be married, and anything less than marriage will not be considered. Then he can decide whether he still wants to meet you or not. JMO
LadyBlackAdder: I think you would save more time if you mentioned to the man you plan on meeting that you are only looking for men who are ready to be married, and anything less than marriage will not be considered. Then he can decide whether he still wants to meet you or not. JMO
kindheart74: Yes I have asked it before the meeting
Then, the men should know where you stand. There should be no need to ask them again when you meet them. There is no man who will make up his mind to marry a woman upon first meeting, and there is no way that you can make up your mind about him either. Its just not possible. If you want to marry without feelings, then it might be better to hire a matchmaker in your country.
LadyBlackAdder: Then, the men should know where you stand. There should be no need to ask them again when you meet them. There is no man who will make up his mind to marry a woman upon first meeting, and there is no way that you can make up your mind about him either. Its just not possible. If you want to marry without feelings, then it might be better to hire a matchmaker in your country.
We met to check our feelings. I know we had physical attraction to each other. However I didn't have a mental attraction to him a lot. He didn't get any chance for it saying he need some time to think on marriage.
kindheart74: We met to check our feelings. I know we had physical attraction to each other. However I didn't have a mental attraction to him a lot. He didn't get any chance for it saying he need some time to think on marriage.
I forgot him easily.
So, he knew that you wanted marriage before you met him?
kindheart74: We met to check our feelings. I know we had physical attraction to each other. However I didn't have a mental attraction to him a lot. He didn't get any chance for it saying he need some time to think on marriage.
I forgot him easily.
So if he had said he would marry you, even tho you didn't feel mentally attracted to him, what would you have said?
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No I meant the time.