I met that guy, this is how it went ( Archived) (169)

Jun 24, 2009 1:20 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
kindheart74
kindheart74kindheart74colombo, Western Sri Lanka23 Threads 1 Polls 279 Posts
mazzd03: Do you mean wedding presents?

No I meant the time.
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Jun 24, 2009 1:20 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
kindheart74: It was wood and very comfortable. Do you like to see my country?
Thanks for reply, wood is good...I'm sure your country is nice.
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Jun 24, 2009 1:22 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
morgan5: On the first date???? it's madness how can you know someone after a first date, and talk of marriage??? To see them again ok but marriage, sucks of desperation to me



I want to marry all men from CS......head banger
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Jun 24, 2009 1:22 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
I think you would save more time if you mentioned to the man you plan on meeting that you are only looking for men who are ready to be married, and anything less than marriage will not be considered. Then he can decide whether he still wants to meet you or not. JMO
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Jun 24, 2009 1:23 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
kindheart74
kindheart74kindheart74colombo, Western Sri Lanka23 Threads 1 Polls 279 Posts
LadyBlackAdder: I think you would save more time if you mentioned to the man you plan on meeting that you are only looking for men who are ready to be married, and anything less than marriage will not be considered. Then he can decide whether he still wants to meet you or not. JMO

Yes I have asked it before the meeting
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Jun 24, 2009 1:24 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
stefonline: I am desperate Morg......there aer no lenthts that I wont go to....
laugh i think there are bouquet bouquet bouquet
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Jun 24, 2009 1:24 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
kindheart74: No I meant the time.


Did you get a nice engagement ring?
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Jun 24, 2009 1:25 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
stefonline: I want to marry all men from CS......


No you don't....the honeymoon would be too crowded...laugh
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Jun 24, 2009 1:25 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
kindheart74
kindheart74kindheart74colombo, Western Sri Lanka23 Threads 1 Polls 279 Posts
mbcasey: Did you get a nice engagement ring?

No
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Jun 24, 2009 1:26 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
kindheart74: Yes I have asked it before the meeting


Then, the men should know where you stand. There should be no need to ask them again when you meet them. There is no man who will make up his mind to marry a woman upon first meeting, and there is no way that you can make up your mind about him either. Its just not possible. If you want to marry without feelings, then it might be better to hire a matchmaker in your country.
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Jun 24, 2009 1:27 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
stefonline: I want to marry all men from CS......
laugh

U want a man haremlaugh
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Jun 24, 2009 1:28 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
stefonline: I want to marry all men from CS......
Been thinkin, if we get mail asking for marriage on first mail everyone's jumping up and down sayin 'Scammer', probably what this guy thought.

NO i am not calling the Op a Scammer wine
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Jun 24, 2009 1:29 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
rodolpho: U want a man harem
Bit like picking a different pair of shoes for every day laugh
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Jun 24, 2009 1:31 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
mbcasey: No you don't....the honeymoon would be too crowded...




yay just think of the afters party......yay cheers wine
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Jun 24, 2009 1:32 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
kindheart74
kindheart74kindheart74colombo, Western Sri Lanka23 Threads 1 Polls 279 Posts
LadyBlackAdder: Then, the men should know where you stand. There should be no need to ask them again when you meet them. There is no man who will make up his mind to marry a woman upon first meeting, and there is no way that you can make up your mind about him either. Its just not possible. If you want to marry without feelings, then it might be better to hire a matchmaker in your country.


We met to check our feelings. I know we had physical attraction to each other. However I didn't have a mental attraction to him a lot. He didn't get any chance for it saying he need some time to think on marriage.

I forgot him easily.
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Jun 24, 2009 1:33 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
rodolpho: U want a man harem



yep....one of them will do nicely....you wanna put your name on the waiting list......laugh
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Jun 24, 2009 1:33 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
kindheart74: We met to check our feelings. I know we had physical attraction to each other. However I didn't have a mental attraction to him a lot. He didn't get any chance for it saying he need some time to think on marriage.

I forgot him easily.


So, he knew that you wanted marriage before you met him?
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Jun 24, 2009 1:35 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
morgan5: Bit like picking a different pair of shoes for every day



Ahmmmmmm let me think...what shoes shall I wear today....banana laugh
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Jun 24, 2009 1:36 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
kindheart74
kindheart74kindheart74colombo, Western Sri Lanka23 Threads 1 Polls 279 Posts
LadyBlackAdder: So, he knew that you wanted marriage before you met him?


yes
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Jun 24, 2009 1:36 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
kindheart74: We met to check our feelings. I know we had physical attraction to each other. However I didn't have a mental attraction to him a lot. He didn't get any chance for it saying he need some time to think on marriage.

I forgot him easily.
So if he had said he would marry you, even tho you didn't feel mentally attracted to him, what would you have said?

Think BJ is right, this has to be wind up
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