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I met that guy, this is how it went ( Archived) (169)

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#141
Jun 25, 2009 8:01 AM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
Trigger13222
Trigger13222Trigger13222tralee, Kerry Ireland1 Threads 50 Posts
Trigger13222tralee, Kerry Ireland50 posts
in fairness you hardly expected to saying yes after one date ,how do you expect to know someone is the person is the right one to spend your life after an hour sounds a bit mad to me
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#142
Jun 25, 2009 8:58 AM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
kindheart74
kindheart74kindheart74colombo, Western Sri Lanka23 Threads 1 Polls 279 Posts
kindheart74OPcolombo, Western Sri Lanka279 posts
hi friends,

Now I need your advice. That guy wants to meet me again. he send me sad letters. I don't like to meet him again. But feel very sorry for him. This is really headache and heartache for me. I am not a strong person emotionally. What should I do?
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#143
Jun 25, 2009 9:00 AM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
hopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA6,660 posts
kindheart74: hi friends,

Now I need your advice. That guy wants to meet me again. he send me sad letters. I don't like to meet him again. But feel very sorry for him. This is really headache and heartache for me. I am not a strong person emotionally. What should I do?


Sorry to be so blunt, but WHY are you asking for advice when you don't listen to any of it?doh confused dunno help
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#144
Jun 25, 2009 9:01 AM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
kindheart74: hi friends,

Now I need your advice. That guy wants to meet me again. he send me sad letters. I don't like to meet him again. But feel very sorry for him. This is really headache and heartache for me. I am not a strong person emotionally. What should I do?


If he is reading all this...not good for you!
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#145
Jun 25, 2009 9:03 AM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
kindheart74
kindheart74kindheart74colombo, Western Sri Lanka23 Threads 1 Polls 279 Posts
kindheart74OPcolombo, Western Sri Lanka279 posts
hopefloats: Sorry to be so blunt, but WHY are you asking for advice when you don't listen to any of it?

because i am in sad nowcrying
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#146
Jun 25, 2009 9:05 AM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
LadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland2,355 posts
kindheart74: hi friends,

Now I need your advice. That guy wants to meet me again. he send me sad letters. I don't like to meet him again. But feel very sorry for him. This is really headache and heartache for me. I am not a strong person emotionally. What should I do?


If you dont want to meet him again, then dont. It wouldnt be fair to either of you and it would just lead to more headache and heartache. I think he is very confused by your responses so it is best to be straight with him. hug
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#147
Jun 25, 2009 9:08 AM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
kindheart74
kindheart74kindheart74colombo, Western Sri Lanka23 Threads 1 Polls 279 Posts
kindheart74OPcolombo, Western Sri Lanka279 posts
LadyBlackAdder: If you dont want to meet him again, then dont. It wouldnt be fair to either of you and it would just lead to more headache and heartache. I think he is very confused by your responses so it is best to be straight with him.

You are always good adviser. I'll do what you said. Many thanks LadyBlackAdder.bouquet bouquet teddybear
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#148
Jun 25, 2009 9:11 AM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
SummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK8,842 posts
kindheart74: hi friends,

Now I need your advice. That guy wants to meet me again. he send me sad letters. I don't like to meet him again. But feel very sorry for him. This is really headache and heartache for me. I am not a strong person emotionally. What should I do?



Show him Allllll your posts on here and then let Him make the decision

grin

Just a thought hun
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#149
Jun 25, 2009 9:19 AM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK8,237 posts
SummerUK: Show him Allllll your posts on here and then let Him make the decision



Just a thought hun
I think its just going into the realms of fantasy roll eyes
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#150
Jun 25, 2009 9:22 AM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
ThalassaRome, Lazio Italy2,410 posts
kindheart74: hi friends,

Now I need your advice. That guy wants to meet me again. he send me sad letters. I don't like to meet him again. But feel very sorry for him. This is really headache and heartache for me. I am not a strong person emotionally. What should I do?

Will have to catch up on other posts, although I did read the first couple of pages. I'm in an Internet Cafe in Corfu at the moment and time is money....literally.
As for this recent post....
You met him and discussed marriage with him, then you opted not to see him again when he (quite naturally) balked at that proposal (figurative and probably literal). Now he wants to see you again and you don't want to...yet you feel sorry for him.
There is a Greek word for what you describe:
Gamiseta!
I won't define it, but it sure does sum it up. KH, does the concept of love enter into any of this, or is marriage your only real desire? And all this after one day together? I don't know of any man in all the world (and I've been to many places and have known many men in my life) who would accept what you are putting forth. Chill. Seriously. Chill.
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#151
Jun 25, 2009 9:23 AM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
HotrodLarrys
HotrodLarrysHotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA160 Threads 28 Polls 14,470 Posts
HotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA14,470 posts
morgan5: I think its just going into the realms of fantasy



i REALLY DONT THINK HER VISIT AND ALL THIS SHOULD BE PUT OUT TO THE WHOLE WORLD, i WOULD RUN IF MY PERSONAL INFO WAS BEING EXPOSED, JUST MY OPINIONdoh grin
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#152
Jun 25, 2009 9:30 AM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK8,237 posts
HotrodLarrys: i REALLY DONT THINK HER VISIT AND ALL THIS SHOULD BE PUT OUT TO THE WHOLE WORLD, i WOULD RUN IF MY PERSONAL INFO WAS BEING EXPOSED, JUST MY OPINION
Maybe it will get turned into a Soap dunno
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#153
Jun 25, 2009 1:40 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
kindheart74: hi friends,

I am not a strong person emotionally. What should I do?


I'd love to insert another word there but I'm trying to behave today.angel
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#154
Jun 25, 2009 2:27 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
Goddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK3,131 posts
banana At least she had a date - a real, live, breathing one and she got some kisses yay Way to go, girl thumbs up
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#155
Jun 25, 2009 2:32 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
Goddess4u: At least she had a date - a real, live, breathing one and she got some kisses Way to go, girl


Are you even sure this thing happened? We have a little saying:
Mouth mek to talk anything. Translation: People can say anything they want - especially here in cyberspace.
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#156
Jun 25, 2009 2:36 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK8,237 posts
tainogirl: Are you even sure this thing happened? We have a little saying:
Mouth mek to talk anything. Translation: People can say anything they want - especially here in cyberspace.
thumbs up h ave to agree with you taino bouquet
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#157
Jun 25, 2009 3:30 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
OUTRAGEOUS
OUTRAGEOUSOUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama44 Threads 1 Polls 1,768 Posts
OUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama1,768 posts
tainogirl: Are you even sure this thing happened? We have a little saying:
Mouth mek to talk anything. Translation: People can say anything they want - especially here in cyberspace.


I only read the first page of this BIZARRE thread. Bizarre in all the aspects of the date KH described. For some reason it sounds to me like she didn't take her chill-pills and her brain was rollercoasting and came up with this very vivid ocurrence. It's the only explanation I can come up with.

It reminds me of a friend with Bi-polar disorder doh she lived the most amazing fantasies ever! heart wings
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#158
Jun 25, 2009 3:59 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
anime
animeanimecolombo, Western Sri Lanka1 Posts
animecolombo, Western Sri Lanka1 posts
i live here, and i know how difficult it is for people to find an opportunity to meet others socially. when u comment pls think about the cultural problems that the person living here has to deal with.
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#159
Jun 25, 2009 4:19 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
OUTRAGEOUS
OUTRAGEOUSOUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama44 Threads 1 Polls 1,768 Posts
OUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama1,768 posts
anime: i live here, and i know how difficult it is for people to find an opportunity to meet others socially. when u comment pls think about the cultural problems that the person living here has to deal with.


Are you the guy she proposed to and ran so fast the lion at the zoo couldn't catch him? dunno
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#160
Jun 25, 2009 4:22 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK8,237 posts
OUTRAGEOUS: Are you the guy she proposed to and ran so fast the lion at the zoo couldn't catch him?
nah, he was fairhaired bouquet
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