rodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands3,401 posts
I always do this on my first date what so starnge about it. I meet her and ask if she wants a drink. She says yes bacardi cola pls. I say here you go and do you wanna have my baby too?
rodolpho: I always do this on my first date what so starnge about it. I meet her and ask if she wants a drink. She says yes bacardi cola pls. I say here you go and do you wanna have my baby too?
Get her about 10 drinks than you wount have to ask...lol...kidding ladies.
kindheart74: You are clever LadyBlackAdder. You are changing my mind. Now I feel sorry for him.
Thank you for the compliment All you need to do is give someone a chance and meet them two or three times before making up your mind. If he is willing and able, then you could have those dates within a week or fortnight and not lose that much time. I dont think it would be a good idea to ask someone to marry you again and again but you could mention, on making subsequent dates, that marriage is what you want, and make sure he is still on the same wavelength. Dont force the issue though. Give him and yourself a chance to make up your minds.
rodolpho: I always do this on my first date what so starnge about it. I meet her and ask if she wants a drink. She says yes bacardi cola pls. I say here you go and do you wanna have my baby too?
LadyBlackAdder: Thank you for the compliment All you need to do is give someone a chance and meet them two or three times before making up your mind. If he is willing and able, then you could have those dates within a week or fortnight and not lose that much time. I dont think it would be a good idea to ask someone to marry you again and again but you could mention, on making subsequent dates, that marriage is what you want, and make sure he is still on the same wavelength. Dont force the issue though. Give him and yourself a chance to make up your minds.
I'll try to do it, many thanks for your kind advice
I promised you to tell how it went my dating with that guy.
So we met at the park gate, he was waiting for me there. He recognized me quickly but I couldn’t recognize him till he call me saying my name because he was handsome than his CS picture, a tall, fair guy.
It was evening; nature was very beautiful, tiny rain drops were falling. So we entered in to the park and found a bench in a beautiful place covered by trees. Then we started to chat, sitting on the bench and he wanted to touch my hands first, and then wanted to hug me, and then kiss me. I didn’t have any objection. I don’t know why, but I felt that we are not matched though we had physical attraction to each other.
While he was kissing me a funny thing happened, a security guard came and asked us to leave the park saying couples are allowed to be there till 2.30pm only and now it was the time for children. We left that bench but started to play hide and seek game with security guards of the park . When we saw the same guard coming to us again we left the park.
Then we go to see a near by lake. It was very beautiful; there was small temple middle in the lake.We walk here and there holding our hands. But at that place also same thing happened. Because of his mad kissing habit we were asked to leave that place too.
I found that he is a nature lover; he described every simple thing we saw around us, about squirrels running behind each other on trees, sleeping bats hanging on trees, swimming swans in the lake, flying cranes …………… yes I think I started to love him.
But my question about marriage changed everything. After sad experience I got from CS I have decided to ask about the marriage on the first day itself. He said that he want some time to decide it. I am not ready to give time to anyone to think of the marriage. I need someone who loves me too much to marry me at any time. It’s me. I stopped that affair. He was little sad. But I can not help him. According to me I did the best thing I should do.
You sound like the guy I met a couple of months ago for coffee. When we left the restaurant, he asked me if we were going to be lovers....I put it in reverse and almost ran over his toes backing out...
SensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA1,726 posts
kindheart74: i have explained it there in my thread
Oh geez, are you going to start harassing this guy now too starting thread after thread..."I Want You" "I Hate You" "No, I Want You"................run Mister runnnnnnnnnnn!
SensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA1,726 posts
kindheart74: No i didn't have rejected him till he said it. Don't misunderstand me. I know at this point I am selfish. I am looking for love. Unconditional love.
You aren't looking for love. You are looking for a man, any man, to support you.......
LadyBlackAdder: Loving yourself will make you more comfortable with yourself and make it easier for you to accept love, and to accept rejection as well.
I met guy I had been emailing and talking to on the phone. When we met we were talking about something (can't remember what) and he said "if we get married.....". My stomach knotted up and that was the end of that.
Even years ago when I wanted to remarry, I was in a relationship with someone for over six years and I never spoke of marriage to him. It's not something I take lightly as in ....what would you like for dinner tonight.
mastic55: My friend just met a girl three weeks ago with her family,this weekend she and her family are coming down to meet the rest of his family and than they will marry in july.
Has anyone else heard the saying. Marry in haste repent at leisure??????
I promised you to tell how it went my dating with that guy.
So we met at the park gate, he was waiting for me there. He recognized me quickly but I couldn’t recognize him till he call me saying my name because he was handsome than his CS picture, a tall, fair guy.
It was evening; nature was very beautiful, tiny rain drops were falling. So we entered in to the park and found a bench in a beautiful place covered by trees. Then we started to chat, sitting on the bench and he wanted to touch my hands first, and then wanted to hug me, and then kiss me. I didn’t have any objection. I don’t know why, but I felt that we are not matched though we had physical attraction to each other.
While he was kissing me a funny thing happened, a security guard came and asked us to leave the park saying couples are allowed to be there till 2.30pm only and now it was the time for children. We left that bench but started to play hide and seek game with security guards of the park . When we saw the same guard coming to us again we left the park.
Then we go to see a near by lake. It was very beautiful; there was small temple middle in the lake.We walk here and there holding our hands. But at that place also same thing happened. Because of his mad kissing habit we were asked to leave that place too.
I found that he is a nature lover; he described every simple thing we saw around us, about squirrels running behind each other on trees, sleeping bats hanging on trees, swimming swans in the lake, flying cranes …………… yes I think I started to love him.
But my question about marriage changed everything. After sad experience I got from CS I have decided to ask about the marriage on the first day itself. He said that he want some time to decide it. I am not ready to give time to anyone to think of the marriage. I need someone who loves me too much to marry me at any time. It’s me. I stopped that affair. He was little sad. But I can not help him. According to me I did the best thing I should do.
And here we go again, you only just met the guy but you call it an affair, you bring up marraige within hours of meeting.
You are either in need of serious help or you are winding people on here up.
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Love wants to be nurtured, it doesn't appear at a snip of a finger! Lust does......
Start loving yourself, then the person that will love you will appear. Good luck!
Thanks for the advise, I'm trying to love myself, but i don't expect my lover will appear in front of me because i love me