I met that guy, this is how it went ( Archived) (169)

Jun 24, 2009 2:01 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
kindheart74
kindheart74kindheart74colombo, Western Sri Lanka23 Threads 1 Polls 279 Posts
heidi2765: I am looking for love. Unconditional love.
Love wants to be nurtured, it doesn't appear at a snip of a finger! Lust does......

Start loving yourself, then the person that will love you will appear. Good luck!


Thanks for the advise, I'm trying to love myself, but i don't expect my lover will appear in front of me because i love mebouquet
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Jun 24, 2009 2:04 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
I always do this on my first date what so starnge about it.
I meet her and ask if she wants a drink.
She says yes bacardi cola pls.
I say here you go and do you wanna have my baby too?laugh
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Jun 24, 2009 2:08 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
rodolpho: I always do this on my first date what so starnge about it.
I meet her and ask if she wants a drink.
She says yes bacardi cola pls.
I say here you go and do you wanna have my baby too?
Get her about 10 drinks than you wount have to ask...lol...kidding ladies.
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Jun 24, 2009 2:08 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
kindheart74: You are clever LadyBlackAdder. You are changing my mind. Now I feel sorry for him.


Thank you for the compliment blushing
All you need to do is give someone a chance and meet them two or three times before making up your mind. If he is willing and able, then you could have those dates within a week or fortnight and not lose that much time. I dont think it would be a good idea to ask someone to marry you again and again but you could mention, on making subsequent dates, that marriage is what you want, and make sure he is still on the same wavelength. Dont force the issue though. Give him and yourself a chance to make up your minds.
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Jun 24, 2009 2:08 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
rodolpho: I always do this on my first date what so starnge about it.
I meet her and ask if she wants a drink.
She says yes bacardi cola pls.
I say here you go and do you wanna have my baby too?



I say if you have good genes......laugh wave
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Jun 24, 2009 2:09 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
kindheart74: Thanks for the advise, I'm trying to love myself, but i don't expect my lover will appear in front of me because i love me


Loving yourself will make you more comfortable with yourself and make it easier for you to accept love, and to accept rejection as well.
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Jun 24, 2009 2:09 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
stefonline: I say if you have good genes......



Sorry to many bacardi and cokes......grin I ment you look hot in your Jeans......rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 24, 2009 2:12 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
kindheart74
kindheart74kindheart74colombo, Western Sri Lanka23 Threads 1 Polls 279 Posts
LadyBlackAdder: Thank you for the compliment
All you need to do is give someone a chance and meet them two or three times before making up your mind. If he is willing and able, then you could have those dates within a week or fortnight and not lose that much time. I dont think it would be a good idea to ask someone to marry you again and again but you could mention, on making subsequent dates, that marriage is what you want, and make sure he is still on the same wavelength. Dont force the issue though. Give him and yourself a chance to make up your minds.


I'll try to do it, many thanks for your kind advicebouquet teddybear
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Jun 24, 2009 2:14 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
stefonline: Sorry to many bacardi and cokes...... I ment you look hot in your Jeans......
tomatoe tomatolaugh
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Jun 24, 2009 2:15 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
kindheart74: Dear friends,

I promised you to tell how it went my dating with that guy.

So we met at the park gate, he was waiting for me there. He recognized me quickly but I couldn’t recognize him till he call me saying my name because he was handsome than his CS picture, a tall, fair guy.

It was evening; nature was very beautiful, tiny rain drops were falling. So we entered in to the park and found a bench in a beautiful place covered by trees. Then we started to chat, sitting on the bench and he wanted to touch my hands first, and then wanted to hug me, and then kiss me. I didn’t have any objection. I don’t know why, but I felt that we are not matched though we had physical attraction to each other.

While he was kissing me a funny thing happened, a security guard came and asked us to leave the park saying couples are allowed to be there till 2.30pm only and now it was the time for children. We left that bench but started to play hide and seek game with security guards of the park . When we saw the same guard coming to us again we left the park.

Then we go to see a near by lake. It was very beautiful; there was small temple middle in the lake.We walk here and there holding our hands. But at that place also same thing happened. Because of his mad kissing habit we were asked to leave that place too.

I found that he is a nature lover; he described every simple thing we saw around us, about squirrels running behind each other on trees, sleeping bats hanging on trees, swimming swans in the lake, flying cranes …………… yes I think I started to love him.

But my question about marriage changed everything. After sad experience I got from CS I have decided to ask about the marriage on the first day itself. He said that he want some time to decide it. I am not ready to give time to anyone to think of the marriage. I need someone who loves me too much to marry me at any time. It’s me. I stopped that affair. He was little sad. But I can not help him. According to me I did the best thing I should do.



You sound like the guy I met a couple of months ago for coffee.
When we left the restaurant, he asked me if we were going to be lovers....I put it in reverse and almost ran over his toes backing out...rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 24, 2009 2:22 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
kindheart74: i have explained it there in my thread


Oh geez, are you going to start harassing this guy now too starting thread after thread..."I Want You" "I Hate You" "No, I Want You"................run Mister runnnnnnnnnnn!
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Jun 24, 2009 2:24 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
jlynne
jlynnejlynneplainfield, Indiana USA68 Posts
tainogirl: Why would you ask a man you just met about marriage?


Good question!.. Why would you ask anyone you first met?dunno dunno
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Jun 24, 2009 2:25 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
tainogirl: People have been known to do the lie down mambo on the first date BJ.


laugh

or the Horizontal Tango...........
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Jun 24, 2009 2:29 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
kindheart74: No i didn't have rejected him till he said it. Don't misunderstand me. I know at this point I am selfish. I am looking for love. Unconditional love.


You aren't looking for love. You are looking for a man, any man, to support you.......
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Jun 24, 2009 2:34 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
heidi2765
heidi2765heidi2765GLASGOW, Central, Scotland UK5 Threads 737 Posts
LadyBlackAdder: Loving yourself will make you more comfortable with yourself and make it easier for you to accept love, and to accept rejection as well.





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Jun 24, 2009 3:19 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
Blimey.... talk of marriage on the first date?!! uh oh

Jeez!!! doh
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Jun 24, 2009 3:33 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
I met guy I had been emailing and talking to on the phone. When we met we were talking about something (can't remember what) and he said "if we get married.....". My stomach knotted up and that was the end of that.

Even years ago when I wanted to remarry, I was in a relationship with someone for over six years and I never spoke of marriage to him. It's not something I take lightly as in ....what would you like for dinner tonight.
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Jun 24, 2009 5:02 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
mastic55: My friend just met a girl three weeks ago with her family,this weekend she and her family are coming down to meet the rest of his family and than they will marry in july.
Has anyone else heard the saying. Marry in haste repent at leisure??????
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Jun 24, 2009 6:08 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
heidi2765
heidi2765heidi2765GLASGOW, Central, Scotland UK5 Threads 737 Posts
morgan5: Has anyone else heard the saying. Marry in haste repent at leisure??????




Oh yesssss!!!!

dancing

besides what is so great about marriage? Perhaps that should be another thread?doh
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Jun 24, 2009 6:15 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
kindheart74: Dear friends,

I promised you to tell how it went my dating with that guy.

So we met at the park gate, he was waiting for me there. He recognized me quickly but I couldn’t recognize him till he call me saying my name because he was handsome than his CS picture, a tall, fair guy.

It was evening; nature was very beautiful, tiny rain drops were falling. So we entered in to the park and found a bench in a beautiful place covered by trees. Then we started to chat, sitting on the bench and he wanted to touch my hands first, and then wanted to hug me, and then kiss me. I didn’t have any objection. I don’t know why, but I felt that we are not matched though we had physical attraction to each other.

While he was kissing me a funny thing happened, a security guard came and asked us to leave the park saying couples are allowed to be there till 2.30pm only and now it was the time for children. We left that bench but started to play hide and seek game with security guards of the park . When we saw the same guard coming to us again we left the park.

Then we go to see a near by lake. It was very beautiful; there was small temple middle in the lake.We walk here and there holding our hands. But at that place also same thing happened. Because of his mad kissing habit we were asked to leave that place too.

I found that he is a nature lover; he described every simple thing we saw around us, about squirrels running behind each other on trees, sleeping bats hanging on trees, swimming swans in the lake, flying cranes …………… yes I think I started to love him.

But my question about marriage changed everything. After sad experience I got from CS I have decided to ask about the marriage on the first day itself. He said that he want some time to decide it. I am not ready to give time to anyone to think of the marriage. I need someone who loves me too much to marry me at any time. It’s me. I stopped that affair. He was little sad. But I can not help him. According to me I did the best thing I should do.



And here we go again, you only just met the guy but you call it an affair, you bring up marraige within hours of meeting.

You are either in need of serious help or you are winding people on here up.
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