I met that guy, this is how it went ( Archived) (169)

Jun 24, 2009 1:38 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
morgan5: So if he had said he would marry you, even tho you didn't feel mentally attracted to him, what would you have said?

Think BJ is right, this has to be wind up
this is very strange indeed! confused
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Jun 24, 2009 1:39 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
kindheart74: yes


Then why ask him again, especially if you had no mental attraction to him? You had already rejected him. It would prove nothing to anybody if he had agreed to marry you.

Again, I think you need to get an old fashioned matchmaker. Do you have those in your country?
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Jun 24, 2009 1:39 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
kindheart74: yes


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 24, 2009 1:40 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
tainogirl: People have been known to do the lie down mambo on the first date BJ.


I knew I should have taken dancing lesson at Arthur Murray and got prepared for this single dating thingie.....
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Jun 24, 2009 1:41 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
kindheart74
kindheart74kindheart74colombo, Western Sri Lanka23 Threads 1 Polls 279 Posts
morgan5: So if he had said he would marry you, even tho you didn't feel mentally attracted to him, what would you have said?

Think BJ is right, this has to be wind up


Then I will try to build an relationship with him. I will go to meet him again. But now I have stopped it
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Jun 24, 2009 1:46 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
HeartofGold10
HeartofGold10HeartofGold10Dublin City, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 5 Posts
Marraige? After just meeting the Guy! Jeesh you hadn't even slept wiv the guy and your talkin 'bout a Wedding?
If you ask me you need your ruddy head examining!
Marraige is supposed to be a sacred Sacriment and not to be entered into so whimsically.
Get over yourself!
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Jun 24, 2009 1:46 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
kindheart74
kindheart74kindheart74colombo, Western Sri Lanka23 Threads 1 Polls 279 Posts
LadyBlackAdder: Then why ask him again, especially if you had no mental attraction to him? You had already rejected him. It would prove nothing to anybody if he had agreed to marry you.

Again, I think you need to get an old fashioned matchmaker. Do you have those in your country?


No i didn't have rejected him till he said it. Don't misunderstand me. I know at this point I am selfish. I am looking for love. Unconditional love.
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Jun 24, 2009 1:46 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
kindheart74: Then I will try to build an relationship with him. I will go to meet him again. But now I have stopped it
My friend just met a girl three weeks ago with her family,this weekend she and her family are coming down to meet the rest of his family and than they will marry in july.
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Jun 24, 2009 1:50 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
kindheart74
kindheart74kindheart74colombo, Western Sri Lanka23 Threads 1 Polls 279 Posts
mastic55: My friend just met a girl three weeks ago with her family,this weekend she and her family are coming down to meet the rest of his family and than they will marry in july.


Thanks for the good newsbouquet
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Jun 24, 2009 1:50 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
mexikanska
mexikanskamexikanskaCancún, Quintana Roo Mexico55 Threads 3 Polls 963 Posts
mastic55: My friend just met a girl three weeks ago with her family,this weekend she and her family are coming down to meet the rest of his family and than they will marry in july.


dreams come true......love smitten kiss smitten kiss
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Jun 24, 2009 1:51 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
kindheart74: No i didn't have rejected him till he said it. Don't misunderstand me. I know at this point I am selfish. I am looking for love. Unconditional love.


Unconditional love is only possible between a parent and child. Marital love can come close but it does require that both partners know each other to some degree. You are not so much selfish as deluded that you will find this with someone you have spoken to briefly and met only once.
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Jun 24, 2009 1:51 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
mastic55: My friend just met a girl three weeks ago with her family,this weekend she and her family are coming down to meet the rest of his family and than they will marry in july.


Was it an arranged match?
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Jun 24, 2009 1:52 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
mexikanska: dreams come true......
He's from the East and thats how they do it...he is happy.thumbs up
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Jun 24, 2009 1:52 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
LadyBlackAdder: Was it an arranged match?
Yes, from his church..
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Jun 24, 2009 1:53 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
kindheart74: No i didn't have rejected him till he said it. Don't misunderstand me. I know at this point I am selfish. I am looking for love. Unconditional love.


Seems to me you are more looking for marriage. Unconditional marriage.
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Jun 24, 2009 1:54 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
mastic55: Yes, from his church..


That is what Kindheart needs. Someone to arrange the match for her. Then all she has to do is approve it and get married.
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Jun 24, 2009 1:55 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
heidi2765
heidi2765heidi2765GLASGOW, Central, Scotland UK5 Threads 737 Posts
I am looking for love. Unconditional love.



Love wants to be nurtured, it doesn't appear at a snip of a finger! Lust does......

Start loving yourself, then the person that will love you will appear. Good luck!teddybear
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Jun 24, 2009 1:56 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
kindheart74
kindheart74kindheart74colombo, Western Sri Lanka23 Threads 1 Polls 279 Posts
LadyBlackAdder: Unconditional love is only possible between a parent and child. Marital love can come close but it does require that both partners know each other to some degree. You are not so much selfish as deluded that you will find this with someone you have spoken to briefly and met only once.


You are clever LadyBlackAdder. You are changing my mind. Now I feel sorry for him.sad flower
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Jun 24, 2009 1:57 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
LadyBlackAdder: That is what Kindheart needs. Someone to arrange the match for her. Then all she has to do is approve it and get married.
I sure she will find love.
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Jun 24, 2009 2:00 PM CST I met that guy, this is how it went
heidi2765
heidi2765heidi2765GLASGOW, Central, Scotland UK5 Threads 737 Posts
forgot to mention......if a guy would ask me to marry him at our first date, all you would see would be the soles of my shoes...!


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