Then why ask him again, especially if you had no mental attraction to him? You had already rejected him. It would prove nothing to anybody if he had agreed to marry you.
Again, I think you need to get an old fashioned matchmaker. Do you have those in your country?
Marraige? After just meeting the Guy! Jeesh you hadn't even slept wiv the guy and your talkin 'bout a Wedding? If you ask me you need your ruddy head examining! Marraige is supposed to be a sacred Sacriment and not to be entered into so whimsically. Get over yourself!
LadyBlackAdder: Then why ask him again, especially if you had no mental attraction to him? You had already rejected him. It would prove nothing to anybody if he had agreed to marry you.
Again, I think you need to get an old fashioned matchmaker. Do you have those in your country?
No i didn't have rejected him till he said it. Don't misunderstand me. I know at this point I am selfish. I am looking for love. Unconditional love.
kindheart74: Then I will try to build an relationship with him. I will go to meet him again. But now I have stopped it
My friend just met a girl three weeks ago with her family,this weekend she and her family are coming down to meet the rest of his family and than they will marry in july.
mastic55: My friend just met a girl three weeks ago with her family,this weekend she and her family are coming down to meet the rest of his family and than they will marry in july.
mastic55: My friend just met a girl three weeks ago with her family,this weekend she and her family are coming down to meet the rest of his family and than they will marry in july.
kindheart74: No i didn't have rejected him till he said it. Don't misunderstand me. I know at this point I am selfish. I am looking for love. Unconditional love.
Unconditional love is only possible between a parent and child. Marital love can come close but it does require that both partners know each other to some degree. You are not so much selfish as deluded that you will find this with someone you have spoken to briefly and met only once.
mastic55: My friend just met a girl three weeks ago with her family,this weekend she and her family are coming down to meet the rest of his family and than they will marry in july.
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
kindheart74: No i didn't have rejected him till he said it. Don't misunderstand me. I know at this point I am selfish. I am looking for love. Unconditional love.
Seems to me you are more looking for marriage. Unconditional marriage.
LadyBlackAdder: Unconditional love is only possible between a parent and child. Marital love can come close but it does require that both partners know each other to some degree. You are not so much selfish as deluded that you will find this with someone you have spoken to briefly and met only once.
You are clever LadyBlackAdder. You are changing my mind. Now I feel sorry for him.
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Think BJ is right, this has to be wind up