markizamkd25: 15 years older is maximum Age is just number there r 25 years old that act like 80 and oposite....But problem is something else...When you contact younger guys is just fine but when you contact older guys there is always some kind of suspect
scared to take a chance ... scared of living... scared of getting hurt...
avecaim: I love older men but someone said that it is neurotic to only like older men. Does anyone know anything about this? I never read Freud or Jung.
I dont really have that passion but when i meet some interesting older men im interested but....they just pull back coz of the reasons i mentioned.I never red anything about that but i think its just taste dont go any deeper in it you might loose your self
Well I'm an older man and my first thought if I was contacted by a much younger woman who I never saw before in the forums, would be to think "Scammer" and I am usually correct. If I saw her in the forums, I would get kind of excited to think I may appeal to a much younger woman.
ooby_dooby: Well I'm an older man and my first thought if I was contacted by a much younger woman who I never saw before in the forums, would be to think "Scammer" and I am usually correct. If I saw her in the forums, I would get kind of excited to think I may appeal to a much younger woman.
Very true.But some people dont even post to forums some are making pauses....and the truth is that u cant be sure always
markizamkd25: 15 years older is maximum Age is just number there r 25 years old that act like 80 and oposite....But problem is something else...When you contact younger guys is just fine but when you contact older guys there is always some kind of suspect
I won't be suspicious, I promise.. Just wire $10,000.00 in U.S. currency to my account & I will buy my plane tickets to come see you..
markizamkd25: Very true.But some people dont even post to forums some are making pauses....and the truth is that u cant be sure always
Well, it's true sometimes they are very clever but there are many ways to find out if someone is only out for your wallet. Of course I don't have any experience with male fakers so it takes me a bit longer to see through their game.
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
ooby_dooby: Well, it's true sometimes they are very clever but there are many ways to find out if someone is only out for your wallet. Of course I don't have any experience with male fakers so it takes me a bit longer to see through their game.
I had a wonderful 2 yr relationship with a man 18 yrs my senior. We parted amiably (i think that's how it's spelled). A lot of tears and heart ache, but over all it was a romance i'll be lucky to ever come across again. If things were different in our lives there's no doubt we'd have married.
I heard all kinds of 'reasons' for the attraction. The whole father figure thing popped up alot which frankly grossed me out to consider... we did things fathers and daughters would get fried for in some states. I heard 'oh he must have money'. that was also false, he's in debt to the gov., but being a man he kept that to himself as much as he could. I heard all kinds of crap, but when it came down to it we were just two people who really clicked in a rare way that just happend to be from two different generations.
One thing that did get me thinking about older me who LOOK for younger women is what one guy told me a few yrs back. "Women my age have grown kids, kids out of the house and then they become like teenagers all over again themselves. I'm not looking for that."
Maybe it's the reverse for women. Most men are settled after a certain age and that's what a lot more younger women are looking for. Stability, but still able to 'fun' it up every now and then.
Tnpseudonym: I had a wonderful 2 yr relationship with a man 18 yrs my senior. We parted amiably (i think that's how it's spelled). A lot of tears and heart ache, but over all it was a romance i'll be lucky to ever come across again. If things were different in our lives there's no doubt we'd have married.
I heard all kinds of 'reasons' for the attraction. The whole father figure thing popped up alot which frankly grossed me out to consider... we did things fathers and daughters would get fried for in some states. I heard 'oh he must have money'. that was also false, he's in debt to the gov., but being a man he kept that to himself as much as he could. I heard all kinds of crap, but when it came down to it we were just two people who really clicked in a rare way that just happend to be from two different generations.
One thing that did get me thinking about older me who LOOK for younger women is what one guy told me a few yrs back. "Women my age have grown kids, kids out of the house and then they become like teenagers all over again themselves. I'm not looking for that."
Maybe it's the reverse for women. Most men are settled after a certain age and that's what a lot more younger women are looking for. Stability, but still able to 'fun' it up every now and then.
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Happened to me few times because of age difference and im from Eastern Europe