What will you do? (23)
No i wouldn't leave, I have made many good friends here and met some in RL.
This site and the people on it helped me thro to very difficult times in my life, and i value the friendships i have here.
I make it clear I am only here for the forums, and friends Ihave made, my partner understands that and is fine with it. I have no secrets and if he wanted to see what i write and who i talk to he can.
Think it boils down to trust
This site and the people on it helped me thro to very difficult times in my life, and i value the friendships i have here.
I make it clear I am only here for the forums, and friends Ihave made, my partner understands that and is fine with it. I have no secrets and if he wanted to see what i write and who i talk to he can.
Think it boils down to trust
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Really ? You would need there approval to still use this site . I would think that there is a problem (JMO) with the relationship already . If you truly find the one I feel they would probably care less if you use this site .
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kekkei: When you finally meet that someone, the one you have been waiting for, he/she makes you happy, you feel this is it but...for a long time, you have been on CS, made many friends, you are just addicted to the site, you found a source where you can express yourself and have your triumphs and failures shared by people of similar minds, you have had so much fun but he/she wants you to leave ConnectingSingles forever. Whatever will you do?
Afterall, you came on to meet that special someone. Do you say goodbye to everyone? Tell them why you are out. Explain to him/her why CS is important to you and negotiate a deal of transparency? Dump him/her if they did not understand that you wanted to stay on? What would you do?
Afterall, you came on to meet that special someone. Do you say goodbye to everyone? Tell them why you are out. Explain to him/her why CS is important to you and negotiate a deal of transparency? Dump him/her if they did not understand that you wanted to stay on? What would you do?
I would explain to him why I'd like to stay and be a part of CS once in a while,
but if it truly bothers him, I'd understand that and would cancel my CS account.
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morgan5: No i wouldn't leave, I have made many good friends here and met some in RL.
This site and the people on it helped me thro to very difficult times in my life, and i value the friendships i have here.
I make it clear I am only here for the forums, and friends Ihave made, my partner understands that and is fine with it. I have no secrets and if he wanted to see what i write and who i talk to he can.
Think it boils down to trust
This site and the people on it helped me thro to very difficult times in my life, and i value the friendships i have here.
I make it clear I am only here for the forums, and friends Ihave made, my partner understands that and is fine with it. I have no secrets and if he wanted to see what i write and who i talk to he can.
Think it boils down to trust
Hi Morgan,
Agree with what you say especially the trust element, but you have always made it clear you are here to make friends and for the forums.
I would be interested to know whether you met your partner on a site and/or were you already together before you joined CS ?
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morgan5: No i wouldn't leave, I have made many good friends here and met some in RL.
This site and the people on it helped me thro to very difficult times in my life, and i value the friendships i have here.
I make it clear I am only here for the forums, and friends Ihave made, my partner understands that and is fine with it. I have no secrets and if he wanted to see what i write and who i talk to he can.
Think it boils down to trust
This site and the people on it helped me thro to very difficult times in my life, and i value the friendships i have here.
I make it clear I am only here for the forums, and friends Ihave made, my partner understands that and is fine with it. I have no secrets and if he wanted to see what i write and who i talk to he can.
Think it boils down to trust
What she said .
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Its your choice... But if you have good friends here, why leave them?.
Would you leave your friends in real life too, No you would´nt..
People here are human beings too....Only maybe more a friend that your reals ones, ones who really care........
Never turn your back on your Friends, after all you may need them again some day............
JMO
Would you leave your friends in real life too, No you would´nt..
People here are human beings too....Only maybe more a friend that your reals ones, ones who really care........
Never turn your back on your Friends, after all you may need them again some day............
JMO
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I belonged to and still do belong to many sites long before I met the new man in my life and would still continue to do so.Just as he belongs to many sites himself.There are men on CS that I talk to within the forums and he has no problems if I do cause he knows he can trust me and I've often shared with him the posts and emails with him.Just as he's shared his posts and emails he's recieved on the sites where he's a member of.We have a trusting relationship and if we didn't we know that we wouldn't have much of a relationship.
He would never ask me to leave any of the sites I belong to anymore then I would ask him to leave any sites that he may belong to. Why would we? He doesn't control me and I don't control him.
He would never ask me to leave any of the sites I belong to anymore then I would ask him to leave any sites that he may belong to. Why would we? He doesn't control me and I don't control him.
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In response to: When you finally meet that someone, the one you have been waiting for, he/she makes you happy, you feel this is it but...for a long time, you have been on CS, made many friends, you are just addicted to the site, you found a source where you can express yourself and have your triumps and failures shared by people of similar minds, you have had so much fun but he/she wants you to leave ConnectingSingles forever. Whatever will you do?
Afterall, you came on to meet that special someone. Do you say goodbye to everyone? Tell them why you are out. Explain to him/her why CS is important to you and negotiate a deal of transparency? Dump him/her if they did not understand that you wanted to stay on? What would you do?
tonymhancock League City, Texas USA
24 hours ago
Kekei honey, when I find someone who just knocks me off my feet, I'm gone from here, lol. I understand what your saying though, this is a good place to vent, especially when you don't have a lot of resources at your disspossal. Profile Deleted
thats an easy one.. just keep using the site behind their back.. and get them to perform the deepest of throat on the regular..
broncos Toms River, New Jersey USA
Does this site mean that much to people??? LOL
SSmith Yerevan Armenia
Why in hell would any one stay here after they found there other half? Isn’t that the purpose of this website? If you do have friends from here I am sure if you are good friends you would have there email address and so on to stay in touch with out this website. I my self would definitely not stay here even if she didn’t ask.
Afterall, you came on to meet that special someone. Do you say goodbye to everyone? Tell them why you are out. Explain to him/her why CS is important to you and negotiate a deal of transparency? Dump him/her if they did not understand that you wanted to stay on? What would you do?
tonymhancock League City, Texas USA
24 hours ago
Kekei honey, when I find someone who just knocks me off my feet, I'm gone from here, lol. I understand what your saying though, this is a good place to vent, especially when you don't have a lot of resources at your disspossal. Profile Deleted
thats an easy one.. just keep using the site behind their back.. and get them to perform the deepest of throat on the regular..
broncos Toms River, New Jersey USA
Does this site mean that much to people??? LOL
SSmith Yerevan Armenia
Why in hell would any one stay here after they found there other half? Isn’t that the purpose of this website? If you do have friends from here I am sure if you are good friends you would have there email address and so on to stay in touch with out this website. I my self would definitely not stay here even if she didn’t ask.
Adjust your profile, and let Cs members know ur interested in Forums
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In response to: When you finally meet that someone, the one you have been waiting for, he/she makes you happy, you feel this is it but...for a long time, you have been on CS, made many friends, you are just addicted to the site, you found a source where you can express yourself and have your triumps and failures shared by people of similar minds, you have had so much fun but he/she wants you to leave ConnectingSingles forever. Whatever will you do?
Afterall, you came on to meet that special someone. Do you say goodbye to everyone? Tell them why you are out. Explain to him/her why CS is important to you and negotiate a deal of transparency? Dump him/her if they did not understand that you wanted to stay on? What would you do?
tonymhancock League City, Texas USA
24 hours ago
Kekei honey, when I find someone who just knocks me off my feet, I'm gone from here, lol. I understand what your saying though, this is a good place to vent, especially when you don't have a lot of resources at your disspossal. Profile Deleted
thats an easy one.. just keep using the site behind their back.. and get them to perform the deepest of throat on the regular..
broncos Toms River, New Jersey USA
Does this site mean that much to people??? LOL
SSmith Yerevan Armenia
Why in hell would any one stay here after they found there other half? Isn’t that the purpose of this website? If you do have friends from here I am sure if you are good friends you would have there email address and so on to stay in touch with out this website. I my self would definitely not stay here even if she didn’t ask.
Afterall, you came on to meet that special someone. Do you say goodbye to everyone? Tell them why you are out. Explain to him/her why CS is important to you and negotiate a deal of transparency? Dump him/her if they did not understand that you wanted to stay on? What would you do?
tonymhancock League City, Texas USA
24 hours ago
Kekei honey, when I find someone who just knocks me off my feet, I'm gone from here, lol. I understand what your saying though, this is a good place to vent, especially when you don't have a lot of resources at your disspossal. Profile Deleted
thats an easy one.. just keep using the site behind their back.. and get them to perform the deepest of throat on the regular..
broncos Toms River, New Jersey USA
Does this site mean that much to people??? LOL
SSmith Yerevan Armenia
Why in hell would any one stay here after they found there other half? Isn’t that the purpose of this website? If you do have friends from here I am sure if you are good friends you would have there email address and so on to stay in touch with out this website. I my self would definitely not stay here even if she didn’t ask.
Adjust your profile, and let Cs members know ur interested in Forums
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When I do meet the right woman, she will most likely say to change my profile to looking for friends but not dates. She will have her profile looking for friends but not dates. 
Of course if she insist I close my CS account, she would have to have a very good reason cause I could make friends here and I don't want to loose contact with them.
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NOBODY, can make me happy. It comes from within, it is an INSIDE JOB!!
If I am not happy, why would I ever want to bring another into MY UNHAPPINESS?? If another is unhappy, am I not playing God thinking "I" can make them happy??
Others can do things that PLEASE me, and I can do things that PLEASE me, but happiness comes from only one place..
What will I do??
That is in the future, I must focus on today.
PS.........I DID NOT come here (or any place "looking" for love)..
"Lookin for love in all the wrong places. Lookin for love in to many faces."
If I am not happy, why would I ever want to bring another into MY UNHAPPINESS?? If another is unhappy, am I not playing God thinking "I" can make them happy?? Others can do things that PLEASE me, and I can do things that PLEASE me, but happiness comes from only one place..
What will I do??
That is in the future, I must focus on today. PS.........I DID NOT come here (or any place "looking" for love)..
"Lookin for love in all the wrong places. Lookin for love in to many faces."
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Laura25: I would explain to him why I'd like to stay and be a part of CS once in a while,
but if it truly bothers him, I'd understand that and would cancel my CS account.
but if it truly bothers him, I'd understand that and would cancel my CS account.
Well Laura25 you would be missed but we would understand.
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Thats why its so cool if you meet your partner on CS; you can both post, either together or seperately, and there are noooo secrets..
I would delete my profile if my partner found it upsetting, because I just couldnt be bothered with arguing about it - my relationship is more important. Its not a question of lack of trust; just pleasing each other and compromise..
I would delete my profile if my partner found it upsetting, because I just couldnt be bothered with arguing about it - my relationship is more important. Its not a question of lack of trust; just pleasing each other and compromise..
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Englishman55: Hi Morgan,
Agree with what you say especially the trust element, but you have always made it clear you are here to make friends and for the forums.
I would be interested to know whether you met your partner on a site and/or were you already together before you joined CS ?
Hi Agree with what you say especially the trust element, but you have always made it clear you are here to make friends and for the forums.
I would be interested to know whether you met your partner on a site and/or were you already together before you joined CS ?
I joined this site when i was alone in Turkey, moved to Malta and met him there.I told him on was on this site and it had kind of become a social network, he was fine with it.
Whether it is because we are older
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Ziva1: Its your choice... But if you have good friends here, why leave them?.
Would you leave your friends in real life too, No you would´nt..
People here are human beings too....Only maybe more a friend that your reals ones, ones who really care........
Never turn your back on your Friends, after all you may need them again some day............
JMO
Agreed, my friends are important to me and if a guy wanted me to give that up, i would have concerns as to whether we could have a future together Would you leave your friends in real life too, No you would´nt..
People here are human beings too....Only maybe more a friend that your reals ones, ones who really care........
Never turn your back on your Friends, after all you may need them again some day............
JMO
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"IF" I did meet someone.... "IF" they were on here and wished to remain... "IF" I wanted them to leave!!
WOuld it because "I" was insecure, or "I" did not trust them??
"IF" I do not trust them, "IF" they do not trust me----------WTF would we be doing together??
WOuld it because "I" was insecure, or "I" did not trust them?? "IF" I do not trust them, "IF" they do not trust me----------WTF would we be doing together??
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Besides, where else could I possibly go to find some of the sick crap I find here??
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Where else could I go to post some of the sick crap I post??
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I would eventually make a choice but it would be my choice. I would not be with anyone who tried to limit somethng I enjoy and I couldn't respect someone for giving up something they enjoyed in order to please me.
I've been here off and on for a long time and have good friends here. I've made the mistake of staying away from friends because my significant other didn't like them, I'll not make the same mistake twice.
I've been here off and on for a long time and have good friends here. I've made the mistake of staying away from friends because my significant other didn't like them, I'll not make the same mistake twice.
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Afterall, you came on to meet that special someone. Do you say goodbye to everyone? Tell them why you are out. Explain to him/her why CS is important to you and negotiate a deal of transparency? Dump him/her if they did not understand that you wanted to stay on? What would you do?
tonymhancock League City, Texas USA
24 hours ago
Kekei honey, when I find someone who just knocks me off my feet, I'm gone from here, lol. I understand what your saying though, this is a good place to vent, especially when you don't have a lot of resources at your disspossal.
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thats an easy one.. just keep using the site behind their back.. and get them to perform the deepest of throat on the regular..
broncos Toms River, New Jersey USA
Does this site mean that much to people??? LOL
SSmith Yerevan Armenia
Why in hell would any one stay here after they found there other half? Isn’t that the purpose of this website? If you do have friends from here I am sure if you are good friends you would have there email address and so on to stay in touch with out this website. I my self would definitely not stay here even if she didn’t ask.